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<p>For years, Dad Tired founder Jerrad Lopes has dreamed about taking dads and their families on a mission trip together. In this episode, he shares an exciting new opportunity for Dad Tired families to serve alongside him and his own family in Guatemala in October 2026.</p><p>The trip will partner with the missions organization Adventures in Missions to serve local communities outside Guatemala City. Families will have opportunities to participate in meaningful work such as serving in children’s programs, supporting local ministries, building safer cooking stoves for families, and potentially helping build a home for someone in need. </p><p>But this trip is about more than service projects. It’s about expanding perspective, strengthening faith, and helping dads and their kids experience the global Church together. Jerrad shares why these kinds of trips can be spiritually transformative and why he believes every Christian family should consider stepping outside their comfort zone to see what God is doing around the world. </p><p>Because this is the first Dad Tired mission trip, the team will be intentionally small—only 6–7 families total. In this episode, Jerrad explains the vision for the trip, what families can expect, and how listeners can apply to join.</p><p>Learn more and apply:<br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/missions"><strong>dadtired.com/missions</strong></a></p>

<p>Host a conference at your church: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">LEARN MORE</a></p><p>There’s a pattern in Scripture that shows up again and again:</p><p>See.<br>Desire.<br>Take.</p><p>From Adam to David… and now to us.</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Joel Muddamalle about the unseen spiritual realities shaping our homes—and how everyday temptations (work, lust, alcohol, ambition) fit into a much bigger story.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like something deeper is at work beneath the surface of your struggles, this conversation will help you put language to it.</p><p>Strong families begin with healed men.</p><p>And healed men learn not to take what was never theirs.</p><p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://amzn.to/4u8Cpj8">Courage For Life Men's Study Bible</a></p>

<p>Stay up to date: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/subscribe">Subscribe to the Newsletter</a> </p><p>Most men don’t believe freedom is possible.</p><p>They assume they’ll carry shame, addiction, and secrets for the rest of their lives.</p><p>That was his story too.</p><p>For years, he struggled silently with porn, lust, and shame—even while loving his wife, following Jesus, and doing everything he thought a “good Christian man” was supposed to do.</p><p>Until one conversation changed everything.</p><p>In this powerful and deeply honest episode, a Dad Tired listener shares his journey from secrecy to freedom, from hiding to truth, and from addiction to healing.</p><p>You’ll hear:</p><p>• The moment he realized his marriage was in danger<br>• Why white-knuckling never leads to real freedom<br>• How honest community changed everything<br>• The surprising cost of becoming a truth teller<br>• What freedom actually feels like on the other side</p><p>This episode is for the man who feels stuck.</p><p>For the man who thinks he’ll never change.</p><p>For the man who’s tired of hiding.</p><p>Freedom is possible.</p><p>Strong families begin with healed men.</p>

<p>If you feel like you’re drowning right now… this one’s for you.</p><p>Trying to follow Jesus with integrity.<br>Trying to love your wife well.<br>Trying to disciple your kids.<br>Trying to provide and carry the weight of responsibility.</p><p>That’s four heavy bags already.</p><p>And then the world keeps asking for more.</p><p>More opinions.<br>More commitments.<br>More distractions.<br>More “opportunities.”</p><p>In today’s episode, we talk about why it’s okay to say, “My hands are full.”</p><p>Why you don’t have to carry every bag handed to you.</p><p>And why saying no might be one of the most faithful things you do.</p><p>Strong families begin with healed men.<br>Sometimes healing looks like limits.</p>

<p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/gobible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20GO%20Bible%20for%20Kids%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=June%202025%20Microsite">The Go Bible</a></p><p>Have you ever told Jesus, “I’ll follow you”… but deep down knew there were conditions?</p><p>In Luke 9, Jesus encounters three men who all say they want to follow Him. One is overly excited but hasn’t counted the cost. One delays, waiting for a more convenient time. And one wants Jesus—but still keeps looking back.</p><p>Each one is close. But none fully surrender.</p><p>In this message, we explore the uncomfortable truth about discipleship: following Jesus will cost you everything. Not because He wants to harm you—but because He wants to heal you, transform you, and make you fully alive.</p><p>Jesus isn’t looking for momentary excitement. He’s looking for faithful disciples who are all in.</p><p>This message will challenge you to ask:</p><p>• Have I counted the cost?<br>• Am I delaying obedience?<br>• Am I still looking back at my old life?<br>• Or am I fully surrendered?</p><p>The greatest tragedy isn’t rejecting Jesus outright. It’s almost following Him your entire life.</p><p>Scripture: Luke 9:57–62</p>

<p>If you zoom into any single moment of someone’s life, you can draw the wrong conclusion.</p><p>David looks like a hero… until you keep reading.<br>Peter looks unshakable… until the denial.<br>Moses, Abraham—faithful men with very uneven stories.</p><p>And the same is true for us.</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad invites you to zoom out on your faith journey. Discipleship isn’t an “up and to the right” chart. It’s more like the stock market—ups, downs, setbacks, growth—all held together by a faithful God who finishes what He starts.</p><p>You don’t get to crown yourself in the good seasons.<br>And you don’t get to condemn yourself in the hard ones.</p><p>God isn’t surprised by your uneven growth. He knew exactly what He was getting when He saved you—and He’s still at work.</p><p><strong>Homework for today:</strong><br>Stop judging your faith by a snapshot. Zoom out. Speak truth out loud. And rest in the faithfulness of God.</p>

<p><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">Dadology Parenting Conference for Dads</a></p><p>Most of the discipleship we’ll ever do as fathers happens inside the four walls of our home.</p><p>In today’s <strong>Dad Tired Devotional</strong>, Jerrad reflects on how limited our hands-on time with our kids really is—and why that makes our homes sacred ground. He invites fathers into a simple, practical exercise: finding quiet time to walk through their home and pray over each space, each child, and their marriage.</p><p>This isn’t about fear or perfection. It’s about taking spiritual leadership seriously, inviting God’s presence into ordinary spaces, and recognizing that homes are often where the most important formation happens.</p>

<p>Join us in San Diego for our Dad Conference: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">dadtired.com/dadology</a></p><p>We’re exhausted because we’re treating temporary things like they’re eternal.</p><p>In today’s <strong>Dad Tired Devotional</strong>, Jerrad reflects on how Scripture constantly reminds us that this life is short—and how remembering eternity actually brings freedom, not fear. From a simple moment at a red light to the words of James, Peter, and the Psalms, this episode is a quiet invitation to zoom out, regain perspective, and stop letting temporary stressors dominate your soul.</p><p>When we forget eternity, everything feels overwhelming.<br>When we remember it, wisdom begins to grow.</p>

<p>There’s a moment in Mark 10 where Jesus stops everything for a blind man crying out on the side of the road.</p><p>Bartimaeus doesn’t pray a polished prayer.<br>He doesn’t say the right words.<br>He just asks for mercy.</p><p>And when the crowd tells him to be quiet, he cries out even louder.</p><p>In this short devotional, we talk about why so many men stay vague with God, why the crowd often pressures us to keep it together, and why Jesus asks a simple but confronting question:</p><p><strong>“What do you want me to do for you?”</strong></p><p>You don’t need to clean it up.<br>You don’t need to stay quiet.</p><p>You just need to be honest.</p>

<p>This week was heavy — not because something catastrophic happened, but because my body acted like it did.</p><p>Tight chest. Tense shoulders. Headaches. No sleep.</p><p>And that disconnect can be confusing for a lot of men. You <em>know</em> things aren’t a big deal… but your nervous system doesn’t agree.</p><p>In this episode, I talk about how trauma memory works, why even a small overlap with past pain can send your body into full survival mode, and why Jesus’ words in John 14:27 matter more than ever when your body feels out of control.</p><p>This isn’t about “calming down.”</p><p>It’s about <strong>receiving a kind of peace the world can’t give</strong>.</p><p>If your body feels stuck in high alert lately, this one’s for you.</p>

<p>Download the worksheet: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/yes">Say “No” More</a></p><p>Today’s Sponsor: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/handsonbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20Hands-On%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=July%202025%20Microsite">The Hands On Bible</a></p><p>Why did Jesus say no—and why does that matter for you as a dad?</p><p>In this episode, we talk about boundaries, calling, and the quiet cost of saying yes to everything. Jesus didn’t heal people and then automatically bring them along. Sometimes He said no—because He was crystal clear about what He was saying yes to.</p><p>If you feel pulled in a hundred directions by work, culture, expectations, and other people’s agendas, this conversation will help you slow down and realign.</p><p>We’ll talk about:</p><ul><li>Why Jesus’ “no” often confused people</li><li>How unclear priorities lead to burnout</li><li>Why your wife and kids pay the price for your overcommitment</li><li>How to confidently say no without explanation or guilt</li></ul><p>Plus, there’s a simple one-page worksheet to help you put this into practice.</p><p>👉 <strong>Get it here:</strong> <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/yes">dadtired.com/yes</a></p><p>Strong families begin with healed—and focused—men.</p>

<p>What do you do mentally when something hard hits your life?</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad shares a real moment from his day—going from gratitude and joy to panic when his email was hacked and multiple problems hit at once. He reflects on two familiar mental paths many men walk: catastrophizing and numbing.</p><p>But healing often means cutting a new path.</p><p>Using a powerful backpacking metaphor, Jerrad explores how men can stop defaulting to fear and escape, and instead learn to walk the quieter, harder path of gospel truth.</p><p><strong>Practice for today:</strong><br>Ask yourself: When life gets hard, what are the well-worn paths in my mind—and are they leading me toward healing or away from it?</p><p>Because strong families begin with healed men.</p>

<p>What if God actually wants to talk to you today?</p><p>Not in a dramatic, spiritual, churchy way—but in the middle of your real life. In this episode, Jerrad explores the story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19 and the surprising way God speaks—not through wind, fire, or earthquakes, but through a gentle whisper.</p><p>If your life feels loud, chaotic, or overwhelming, this episode is a simple invitation to slow down, listen, and rediscover the quiet voice of God.</p><p><strong>Practice for today:</strong><br>Take one minute of silence and ask God, “What do You want to say to me today?”</p><p>Because strong families begin with healed men.</p>

<p>Today's Sponsors: <a href="https://backgateprayers.com">Backgate Prayers (promo code DTNECKLACE)</a> &amp; <a href="https://cozyearth.com">Cozy Earth (promo code DADTIREDBOGO)<br></a><br>Why does real life feel boring sometimes?</p><p>Why does your phone feel more exciting than prayer, your marriage, or even God?</p><p>In this episode, we talk about dopamine—the brain’s reward system—and how our world has hijacked it with cheap, artificial pleasures. From scrolling and porn to sugar and streaming, we’ve trained our souls to crave fireworks instead of candles.</p><p>Jerrad shares stories, Scripture, and practical wisdom to help men understand what’s happening in their brains and hearts—and how to slowly retrain their desires toward the kind of joy God actually designed.</p><p>If you’ve felt tired, numb, or disconnected from God and your family, this episode will help you name what’s happening and take your first step toward healing.</p>

<p>What happens when you don’t deal with what’s going on inside you?</p><p>In this episode, we explore how suppressed emotions show up physically in your body, why science is finally catching up to what Scripture has always taught, and how naming what you feel can actually lead to healing.</p><p>If you’ve ever said “I’m fine” when you weren’t, this one’s for you.</p>

<p>You don’t have to carry everything you’re holding.</p><p>In this episode of Dad Tired Daily, Jerrad leads a short guided exercise to help you notice what you’re carrying—and discern what God never asked you to hold in the first place. Together, we explore how responsibility, survival, and old wounds can quietly pile up, and how Scripture invites us to cast our burdens on the Lord.</p><p>This is a quiet, practical moment of soul care for tired men who want to walk a little lighter today.</p>

<p>Today we’re talking about how dads can make their wife and kids feel loved at a <em>cellular</em> level.</p><p>In the Gospels, Jesus often touched people before He healed them. Lepers. The blind. Children. Touch came first—then transformation.</p><p>Modern science is now confirming what Scripture has always shown: a simple, intentional hug releases oxytocin, lowers stress, and builds emotional safety. Especially when it comes from a dad.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt unsure what to say when your child is overwhelmed—or how to connect with your wife without fixing or performing—this episode is for you.</p><p>Sometimes the most spiritual leadership doesn’t sound like anything at all.</p><p>Sometimes it looks like staying close.</p>

<p>There’s a difference between remembering your past and being haunted by it.</p><p>In this episode, I talk about the narrow road of discipleship—between spiritual amnesia and shame—and why God actually calls us to look back from time to time. Not to punish ourselves, but to remember His faithfulness.</p><p>When we look back the right way, one of two things happens:<br>Gratitude, when we see how far God has brought us.<br>Repentance, when we realize we’ve drifted or stalled.</p><p>What it should never lead to is shame.</p><p>Conviction is an invitation from God.<br>Shame is a verdict from the enemy.</p><p>If you’re growing, let gratitude fuel you forward.</p><p>If you feel further from God than ever, today is the day to return—not to hide.</p><p>Jesus is still inviting you back.</p>

<p>There’s a difference between remembering your past and being haunted by it.</p><p>In this episode, I talk about the narrow road of discipleship—between spiritual amnesia and shame—and why God actually calls us to look back from time to time. Not to punish ourselves, but to remember His faithfulness.</p><p>When we look back the right way, one of two things happens:<br>Gratitude, when we see how far God has brought us.<br>Repentance, when we realize we’ve drifted or stalled.</p><p>What it should never lead to is shame.</p><p>Conviction is an invitation from God.<br>Shame is a verdict from the enemy.</p><p>If you’re growing, let gratitude fuel you forward.</p><p>If you feel further from God than ever, today is the day to return—not to hide.</p><p>Jesus is still inviting you back.</p>

<p>What happens when God interrupts the dream you worked your whole life to build?</p><p>In this episode of the Dad Tired Podcast, Jerrad sits down with country music songwriter and artist <strong>Drew Parker</strong> for one of the most honest conversations we’ve ever had.</p><p>Drew shares his journey from writing number one songs, touring stadiums, and chasing success—to realizing he was spiritually immature, driven by insecurity, and living for approval. Then came a prayer asking God to be unmistakably clear… and five days later, an answer he couldn’t ignore.</p><p>Together, we talk about:</p><ul><li>The quiet lie that drives many men</li><li>Fame, insecurity, and the need to prove yourself</li><li>What spiritual immaturity looks like in grown men</li><li>Why men are afraid to be fully known</li><li>Fatherhood, obedience, and legacy</li><li>What changes when a man finally takes God seriously</li></ul><p>This episode is for the man who loves Jesus—but knows something deeper is missing.</p><p>Strong families begin with healed men.</p><p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/gobible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20GO%20Bible%20for%20Kids%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=June%202025%20Microsite">KidsGoBible.com</a></p>

<p>Most men aren’t unloving — we’re just under-trained in empathy.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Dad Tired Daily</em>, Jerrad shares a personal moment from his marriage and unpacks why empathy is so hard for many men. From childhood survival patterns to chronic stress and the fear that empathy equals agreement, he walks through five common blockers that keep men emotionally distant from their wives and kids.</p><p>Then he offers one simple, practical way to grow empathy this week — not by fixing, preaching, or escaping — but by learning to pause, name emotions, and stay present just a little longer than feels comfortable.</p><p>Empathy isn’t weakness. It’s a muscle. And it can be grown.</p>

<p>Most of my prayers stay in my head.</p><p>In today’s episode, I share a small but meaningful shift I’m making this year: praying out loud every day—especially for my wife and kids.</p><p>We talk about Scripture, real life, and even some psychology behind why a calm, spoken prayer can bring peace and safety to those around us.</p><p>This isn’t about performing or sounding spiritual.</p><p>It’s about letting prayer move from thought to voice.</p><p><strong>Question to consider:</strong><br>What would it look like for you to pray out loud today—just once?</p>

<p>How do you know if you’re actually resting… or just checking out?</p><p>In today’s <strong>Dad Tired Daily</strong>, Jerrad talks about the difference between restorative, soul-level rest and numbing behaviors that help us escape but don’t actually restore us.</p><p>Most men aren’t lazy — they’re tired. And when we don’t know how to rest, we reach for things that temporarily quiet the noise but leave us more exhausted the next day.</p><p>This episode will help you:</p><ul><li>Discern rest vs. numbing in everyday life</li><li>Understand why numbing works short-term but drains you long-term</li><li>Learn what real, boring, restorative rest actually looks like</li><li>Practice a simple way to help your soul slow down</li></ul><p>Inspired by Psalm 23 and Jesus’ invitation to rest.</p><p>Rested men lead their families well.</p>

<p>Register for the <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">Dadology Conference for Dads</a></p><p>What if you’re not lazy…<br>What if you’re just tired?</p><p>In this episode of <strong>Dad Tired Daily</strong>, Jerrad talks about why rest isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. Drawing from military training, Scripture, and real life as a husband and dad, he unpacks why exhaustion quietly undermines our leadership at home and how learning to rest can actually protect the mission God has given us.</p><p>You’ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why elite military teams train themselves to rest under pressure</li><li>How exhaustion impacts your decisions, presence, and relationships</li><li>Why Jesus prioritizes rest for weary men</li><li>A simple, practical “micro-Sabbath” you can practice anywhere, anytime</li></ul><p>This isn’t about doing less because you don’t care.<br>It’s about resting on purpose so you can lead well.</p><p><strong>Key Scripture:</strong><br>Matthew 11:28 — “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”</p><p><strong>Simple Practice:</strong><br>Take one minute today. Feet on the ground. Slow inhale. Longer exhale. Ask God for rest—not more answers.</p><p>Rested men lead their families well.</p>

<p>Most men <em>want</em> to love their wives and kids well—but still feel stuck, disconnected, or misunderstood.</p><p>In this episode of the Dad Tired Podcast, Jerrad sits down with <strong>Gary Chapman</strong>, author of <em>The Five Love Languages</em>, to talk about the deeper issue beneath most marriage and parenting struggles:</p><p>👉 <strong>We’re often loving sincerely—but in the wrong language.</strong></p><p>Together, they explore:</p><ul><li>Why effort doesn’t always translate to emotional connection</li><li>The difference between <strong>loving sacrificially</strong> and <strong>loving manipulatively</strong></li><li>How unresolved childhood wounds affect how men give and withhold love</li><li>Why empathy feels threatening to many men—and how to build it</li><li>How dads can discover and speak each child’s unique love language</li><li>What <em>quality time</em> really looks like in a distracted world</li><li>The love language that actually matters most (and it’s not yours)</li></ul><p>This conversation is honest, practical, gospel-centered, and deeply encouraging for husbands and fathers who want a <strong>growing marriage</strong>, not a perfect one.</p><p>🎧 Listen, take notes, and ask yourself:<br><em>Do the people closest to me actually feel loved?</em></p><p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://cozyearth.com"><em>Cozy Earth</em></a><em> (use promo code DADTIRED for an exclusive discount)</em></p>

<p><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Host a Dad Tired Conference at Your Church</a> </p><p>Some days don’t fall apart because of one big thing.<br>They fall apart because of a hundred small ones.</p><p>The gas light comes on.<br>The kids spill something.<br>The ice cream cone hits the floor.<br>Nothing catastrophic happens… and yet everything feels heavy.</p><p>In this episode of <strong>Dad Tired Daily</strong>, we talk about what psychologists call <strong>negativity bias</strong>—the way our brains are wired to fixate on what’s going wrong instead of what’s going right. It’s not because you’re ungrateful or negative. It’s because your brain is trained to look for threats.</p><p>But here’s the good news: what you pay attention to, your brain prioritizes.</p><p>Scripture tells us, <em>“Give thanks in all circumstances”</em> (1 Thessalonians 5:18) and <em>“Forget not all His benefits”</em> (Psalm 103:2). Gratitude isn’t about pretending things are great. It’s about retraining your soul to remember what’s good—even on hard days.</p><p>Today’s Practice:</p><p>Before your day gets rolling, list <strong>three things you’re thankful for</strong>.<br>They don’t have to be profound. Just real.</p><p>Gratitude rewires your brain.<br>It lowers stress.<br>It restores perspective.</p><p>And it helps you show up a little more healed for the people you love.</p><p>Strong families begin with healed men.</p>

<p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://toybox.com/DADTIRED">ToyBox 3D Printers </a></p><p>In today’s episode, we talk about wine, anesthesia, and the quiet ways men numb pain instead of feeling it.</p><p>As Jesus was led to the cross, He was offered wine to dull the pain. He refused it. Not because the pain didn’t matter — but because He chose to fully feel the weight He was carrying.</p><p>Many men don’t explode emotionally.<br>They disappear.</p><p>Instead of anger, they feel numb.<br>Instead of emotion, they feel distance.<br>Instead of presence, they reach for distraction.</p><p>Scrolling.<br>Drinking.<br>Porn.<br>Overworking.<br>Anything that keeps the feelings at bay.</p><p>In this episode, we explore what it looks like to <strong>stop numbing and start feeling again</strong> — not all at once, not perfectly, but honestly. Because when you begin to feel, you begin to heal. And healed men become present men.</p><p><br>In This Episode:</p><ul><li>Why emotional numbness is just as serious as emotional blowups</li><li>The overlooked moment when Jesus refused wine on the way to the cross</li><li>How men practice “avoidant coping” without realizing it</li><li>The cost of numbing out on marriage, fatherhood, and presence</li><li>A simple one-minute practice to begin feeling again</li></ul><p>Today’s One-Minute Practice:</p><p>Instead of asking, <em>“What am I feeling?”</em><br>Ask this:</p><p><strong>“What am I avoiding feeling today?”</strong></p><p>Sit with it.<br>Name it.<br>Don’t numb it.</p><p>You don’t need to fix everything.<br>You just need to stay present.</p><p>Strong families begin with healed men.</p>

<p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://toybox.com/DADTIRED">ToyBox 3D Printers </a></p><p>Have you ever said, <em>“I don’t know what happened — I just snapped”</em>?</p><p>In today’s episode of <strong>Dad Tired Daily</strong>, Jerrad explores why men don’t actually go from calm to out of control in an instant — even though it feels that way. Using a simple (and memorable) analogy about teleportation and flying cars, this episode explains how stress builds gradually in the nervous system long before a blowup ever happens.</p><p>This episode is about learning to notice the <em>early warning signs</em> — the off-ramps — so you can tend your inner world before frustration spills onto the people you love most.</p><p>This is daily <strong>inner hygiene</strong> — small, practical awareness that helps men lead with steadiness instead of reaction.</p><p>What You’ll Learn in This Episode</p><ul><li>Why the nervous system doesn’t jump from “zero to 100”</li><li>How stress and anger actually escalate in stages</li><li>The physical and emotional warning signs most men miss</li><li>Why reactions often feel sudden — even when they aren’t</li><li>How Scripture calls men to tend and guard their inner world</li><li>One simple daily practice to reduce reactivity at home and work</li></ul><p>Scripture Referenced</p><p><strong>Proverbs 4:23 (ESV)</strong><br>“Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.”</p><p>Today’s Inner Hygiene Practice</p><p>Before transitioning from one part of your day to another —<br>car → work<br>work → meeting<br>driveway → home</p><p>Pause for <strong>one minute</strong> and ask yourself:</p><p><strong>“What am I feeling right now?”</strong></p><p>Name it without fixing it:</p><ul><li>tired</li><li>irritated</li><li>overwhelmed</li><li>anxious</li><li>hungry</li><li>tense</li></ul><p>Research shows that simply naming an emotion helps reduce its intensity and brings clarity back online. This small act of awareness can prevent bigger reactions later.</p><p>Research: <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17576282/">https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17576282/</a></p>

<p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://toybox.com/DADTIRED">ToyBox 3D Printers</a></p><p>Welcome to the very first episode of Dad Tired Daily — a short, intentional daily reset designed to help men tend their inner world so they can show up more healed for their families, work, and communities.</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad introduces the heart behind Dad Tired Daily and explores an often-overlooked reality: while much attention has (rightly) been given to a mother’s mental load, many fathers are quietly carrying deep emotional strain with little language or support.</p><p>Drawing from recent research, real-world stories, and Scripture, this episode invites dads to stop carrying heavy things alone — and to begin practicing simple inner hygiene, daily care for the soul.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear in This Episode</strong><br>Why fathers often carry mental and emotional strain in silence<br>The cultural stigma that keeps men from talking about mental health<br>A real story illustrating the hidden cost of untreated distress in men<br>Why Scripture invites us to bring what’s hidden into the light<br>Research showing how a father’s mental health impacts his children<br>One small, practical step you can take today to show up more healed</p><p><strong>Scripture Referenced</strong><br>Hebrews 4:12–13 (ESV)<br>“For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword… and no creature is hidden from his sight, but all are naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must give account.”</p><p><strong>Today’s Inner Hygiene Practice</strong><br><em>Ask yourself:</em><br>What is one thing I’m carrying today that I haven’t told anyone about?<br>Reach out to one trusted friend and say something simple like:<br>“I’m not looking for advice — I just need to say this out loud.”<br>Bringing something into the light often reduces its power — and reminds us we’re not meant to carry things alone.</p><p><strong>Why This Matters</strong><br>Research increasingly shows that a father’s mental and emotional health has a direct impact on his children — even before birth. Unaddressed stress, depression, or emotional dysregulation in fathers is associated with challenges in children’s emotional regulation, social skills, cognitive development, and overall well-being.<br>Strong families don’t begin with perfect dads — they begin with healed men willing to tend their inner world.</p><p><strong>Referenced Research &amp; Reporting</strong><br>JAMA Pediatrics (2024) — Meta-analysis of 84 studies showing associations between paternal mental distress around pregnancy/postpartum and poorer social-emotional, cognitive, language, and physical development in children.<br>Hutchinson et al., Journal of the American Medical Association Pediatrics.<br><a href="https://www.pacificclinics.org/news/mental-health-for-dads/?utm_source=chatgpt.com">Pacific Clinics</a> — Reporting on paternal mental health, noting that nearly half of men experiencing mental health challenges never speak to anyone about it, and highlighting higher suicide rates among men.<br><a href="https://www.the74million.org/zero2eight/how-dads-stress-and-mental-health-can-influence-their-childrens-development/?utm_source=chatgpt.com">The 74 Million</a> — Coverage on how paternal stress and mental health influence child development and family systems.<br>News reporting on professional athletes and paternal suicide — Illustrating how many men struggle silently, even those closest to us never knew they were in pain.</p>

<p>Confession can bring healing—or devastation—depending on how it’s done.</p><p>In this episode, I speak directly to men who are carrying secrets in their marriage and feel torn between honesty and fear. If you’ve ever thought, <em>“If she really knew me, everything might fall apart,”</em> this conversation is for you.</p><p>Drawing from Scripture, lived experience, and walking alongside other men on the healing path, I explain <strong>why secrets rob us of intimacy, joy, and peace</strong>—and why impulsive confession can actually cause more harm than healing.</p><p>This isn’t about dumping your shame on your spouse.<br>It’s about learning how to confess <strong>wisely</strong>, <strong>lovingly</strong>, and <strong>with a plan</strong>.</p><p>I also speak directly to wives who may be listening, offering perspective, compassion, and clarity in the midst of fear and uncertainty.</p><p>This is a heavy episode—but it’s also an invitation to freedom, wholeness, and a deeper experience of the gospel in your marriage.</p><p>Today's Sponsors:</p><p><a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/oneyearbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20One%20Year%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Microsite">TheOneYearBible</a> &amp; <a href="https://cozyearth.com/products/luxe-bath-towels?_pos=2&amp;_psq=luxe+bath&amp;_ss=e&amp;_v=1.0&amp;variant=42846482235572">Cozy Earth </a></p>

<p>If you’ve ever noticed that when life gets hard you tend to pull away from God ; numb out, isolate, distract, or try to fix everything on your own, this episode is for you.</p><p>As we head into a new year, Jerrad shares a personal story from a father-son race that turned into a moment of crisis… and how it revealed something deeply true about all of us: <strong>pressure exposes our reputation.<br></strong><br></p><p>In this episode, we contrast <em>our</em> instinct to hide with <em>God’s</em> consistent reputation throughout Scripture; a God who keeps drawing near to broken, messy people again and again. From the garden of Eden to the life of Jesus to the promise of God’s Spirit within us, the story is clear:</p><p>When chaos hits, God doesn’t withdraw. He comes closer.</p><p>This is an invitation to stop hiding, and start trusting God’s reputation more than your instincts.</p><p><br>What You’ll Learn</p><ul><li>Why crisis and hardship reveal who we really are</li><li>How shame, fear, and even success cause men to hide from God</li><li>What Scripture shows us about God’s reputation from Genesis to Revelation</li><li>Why men often turn away from God when they need Him most</li><li>A simple, embodied practice to help you turn toward God instead of numbing out</li><li>What it looks like to come out of hiding as a husband, father, and disciple</li></ul><p>Key Takeaways</p><p>• <strong>Pressure reveals reputation.</strong><br>You don’t really know what’s inside until life turns up the heat.</p><p>• <strong>Our instinct is to hide.</strong><br>From fig leaves to distraction to self-reliance, men tend to pull away when things get hard.</p><p>• <strong>God’s reputation is nearness.</strong><br>Again and again in Scripture, God draws closer — even in rebellion, failure, and fear.</p><p>• <strong>Healing begins with turning toward God.</strong><br>Not after you fix yourself. Not after you “do better.” Right where you are.</p><p>• <strong>Strong families begin with healed men.</strong><br>Men who stop hiding and learn to trust God’s presence change everything downstream.</p><p>Resources Mentioned</p><p>Sponsor: Dwell Bible App<br>Listen to Scripture anywhere and stay connected to God’s Word in real life<br><a href="https://get.dwellbible.com/dadtired/?utm_campaign=sponsorships&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_source=dadtired&amp;utm_term=">dwellbible.com/dadtired</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Make a donation</a> to support the ministry and help more men find healing.</p>

<p>Ever had something small go wrong and suddenly you’re spiraling into insecurity, shame, or old stories you thought you were done with? Yeah… me too. Today I share a simple moment in my kitchen that unexpectedly poked an old wound and sent me into a whole internal narrative about not being good enough.</p><p>But this episode isn’t really about caulking a backsplash.</p><p>It’s about the lies men believe, the wounds we carry into adulthood, and why healing matters way more than we think.</p><p>In this episode we talk about:<br>• How tiny moments trigger big wounds<br>• Why our brains write stories we never chose<br>• How men often cope through numbing, distancing, or performing<br>• What “intimacy disorder” really means<br>• How Jesus meets us in our pain and speaks truth<br>• Why healed men become better husbands, fathers, and friends<br>• Why your healing is <em>never just for you</em>—it’s for the mission</p><p>We also finish <strong>Step 7 of the Seven Steps of Discipleship</strong>:<br><strong>pouring your life into someone else.<br></strong><br>From Genesis to Jesus’ final words, God has always called men to expand His kingdom, not retreat into self-protection.</p><p>Strong families begin with healed men.<br>Strong men begin by telling the truth.<br>And healed men are sent men.</p><p><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps">Download the free <em>7 Steps of Discipleship</em> PDF:</a> <strong>dadtired.com/7steps<br></strong><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">Join us at the Dadology Conference</a> (San Diego): <strong>dadtired.com/dadology<br></strong><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Partner with Dad Tired as we close out the year:</a> <strong>dadtired.com/donate<br></strong><a href="https://www.quarryproject.com/dad-tired-and-the-quarry-project">Rite of Passage Alaska Trip</a> (for dads + teenage sons) — limited spots<br> <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Host a One-Day Dad Tired Conference at your church</a>: <strong>dadtired.com/conference<br></strong><a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/oneyearbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20One%20Year%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Microsite"><strong>Today's Sponsor: One Year Bible</strong></a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.quarryproject.com/dad-tired-and-the-quarry-project">Father + Son Alaska Trip 2026</a></p><p>If you’ve ever felt exhausted as a dad — like you’re genuinely trying but something still feels “off” — today’s episode is going to give you language, clarity, and a fresh blueprint for fatherhood.</p><p>I sit down with <strong>Jeremy Pryor</strong>, one of the leading voices on shaping a multigenerational family on mission. Jeremy argues that most modern dads are using a <em>brand-new</em> cultural blueprint for family… and it’s not working.</p><p>This conversation is full of hope, honesty, and practical steps to help you create a home your kids will want to belong to for generations.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn</strong></p><ul><li>Why the modern Western family structure is historically unusual — and often ineffective</li><li>The biblical blueprint for family that leads to connection, mission, and long-term joy</li><li>The power of <em>three generations at one table</em></li><li>How to win your child’s heart through simple weekly rhythms</li><li>Why intentional dads must play both <strong>offense and defense</strong> in today’s culture</li><li>How to protect your child spiritually in a world full of digital “portals”</li><li>What it looks like to raise kids who stay connected long after they leave your home</li></ul><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><p><strong>• Strong families begin with healed men.</strong><br>You cannot lead your home if you’re disconnected from Jesus or from your own heart.</p><p><strong>• Ideas matter.</strong><br>Most dads inherited a blueprint that leads to isolation — not mission.</p><p><strong>• Connection is built through rhythm, not random effort.</strong><br>Weekly feasts, 1:1 traditions, family stories, and regular check-ins matter.</p><p><strong>• Your kids need your protection — spiritually, emotionally, digitally.</strong><br>Today’s culture demands intentional defense, not passive hope.</p><p><strong>• Legacy starts now.</strong><br>You’re building something your grandkids will feel — whether intentionally or by default.</p><p><strong>Resources Mentioned</strong></p><p><strong>Free Step 6 PDF:</strong> <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps">dadtired.com/7steps</a><br><strong>Jeremy Pryor’s Family Teams Resources:</strong> <a href="https://courses.familyteams.com/family-teams-lead-magnet-connect">familyteams.com</a><br><strong>Jeremy’s Book:</strong> <a href="https://amzn.to/3Mxqv0F"><em>Family Revision</em></a><br><strong>Sponsor:</strong> <a href="https://backgateprayers.com">Backgate Prayers</a> — Use code <strong>DADTIRED<br>Make a donation to the ministry </strong><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate"><strong>here</strong></a><strong>. </strong></p>

<p>In this week’s episode, we shift the conversation from inner healing to how that healing actually plays out inside your marriage. Jerrad opens up about the quieter, less flashy season Dad Tired has entered, and why he’s more encouraged than ever as he hears private stories of repentance, courage, and healing from men around the world.</p><p>Then we turn to the heart of Step 005: <strong>your marriage is meant to display Christ’s love for His church.</strong> Not primarily your happiness. Not comfort. But a living, breathing picture of the gospel inside your home. When we lose sight of that, everything in marriage starts to unravel. When we stay focused on it, everything begins to fall into place.</p><p>From there, we get ultra-practical. Jerrad unpacks <strong>four clear, measurable ways</strong> husbands can model Christ’s love toward their wives — ways you can start evaluating and practicing this week.</p><p><strong>What We Cover</strong></p><ul><li>Why external “hype” has faded… and why that’s actually a good thing</li><li>The unseen, private faithfulness of men that is changing generations</li><li>The biblical symbolism of marriage — from Genesis to Jesus</li><li>Why marriage falls apart when we expect it to serve our happiness</li><li>How to reset your expectations around the <em>purpose</em> of marriage</li><li>Four simple questions every husband should ask himself each week</li><li>Why your wife is meant to feel emotionally, spiritually, and physically safe with you</li></ul><p><strong>Four Ways Christ Loves His Church… and How We Model Them</strong></p><p>(With verses for your study)</p><ol><li><strong>Christ Pursues First</strong><br><em>Romans 5:8</em><br>You take initiative. You move toward her. You start the conversations. You pursue her heart.</li><li><strong>Christ Sacrifices Daily</strong><br><em>Ephesians 5:25, Mark 10:45</em><br>You lay down comfort, preference, ego, and convenience for her good — with joy, not resentment.</li><li><strong>Christ Shows Compassion</strong><br><em>Hebrews 4:15, 1 Peter 3:7</em><br>You slow down, listen well, empathize, honor her, and create emotional safety.</li><li><strong>Christ Protects and Strengthens</strong><br><em>2 Thessalonians 3:3</em><br>You become a refuge — physically, emotionally, spiritually — where she feels secure and lifted up.</li></ol><p><strong>Free Download: Step 005 PDF</strong></p><p>We created a full PDF to help you process Step 005 on your own or with a Garage Group:<br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps"><strong>dadtired.com/7steps</strong></a><strong><br></strong><br></p><p>This includes:</p><ul><li>A theological overview of marriage</li><li>Common barriers men face</li><li>Practical exercises</li><li>Reflection questions</li><li>Scripture study prompts</li><li>The four measurable areas of pursuit</li></ul><p><strong>Partner With the Mission</strong></p><p>Dad Tired is at <strong>7%</strong> of its 2026 fundraising goal. If this ministry has helped you and you want to stand with the thousands of quiet, faithful men doing the work no one sees, you can give at:<br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate"><strong>dadtired.com/donate</strong></a><strong><br></strong><br></p><p><strong>Episode Sponsor: Tyndale — The One Year Bible</strong></p><p>Start reading the Bible daily in a simple and sustainable way.<br>Choose from multiple paths and editions: men’s, women’s, journaling, prayer, chronological, and more.<br>Learn more at: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/oneyearbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20One%20Year%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Microsite"><strong>oneyearbible.com</strong></a><strong><br></strong><br></p><p><strong>Links Mentioned</strong></p><ul><li>Step 005 PDF: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps"><strong>dadtired.com/7steps</strong></a></li><li>Donate: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate"><strong>dadtired.com/donate</strong></a></li><li>One Year Bible: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/oneyearbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20One%20Year%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Microsite"><strong>oneyearbible.com</strong></a></li></ul>

<p>You can have a <em>good</em> life — not an easy life, but one filled with deep peace and joy that circumstances can’t shake. In this episode, Jerrad unpacks <strong>Step 4 of the Seven Steps of Discipleship: Forming Spiritual Habits</strong> — a conversation about how men grow through intentional, daily rhythms that train the soul for godliness.</p><p>Jerrad shares how his own healing journey began with one powerful declaration: <em>“I’m a truth teller.”</em> That single identity statement became the foundation for transformation. From there, he talks about how building small, consistent habits — rooted in who you’re becoming, not just what you’re doing — can reshape your entire life.</p><p>Through stories, scripture, and real talk, this episode will help you:</p><ul><li>Understand why <strong>identity always comes before habits</strong></li><li>Recognize that you’re already a man of habits — they just need redirecting</li><li>Learn how to start small and stay consistent (even when motivation fades)</li><li>Discover how godly habits train you to live with deep joy and peace, regardless of circumstance</li></ul><p>Later in the episode, Jerrad is joined by <strong>Kaleb Allen</strong>, one of the most disciplined men he knows, to talk about practical spiritual disciplines — from Bible reading and prayer to solitude, gratitude, and Sabbath — and how these rhythms keep your soul grounded when life gets chaotic.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt stuck, inconsistent, or spiritually dry, this episode is your invitation to start building a life you’re proud of — one small habit at a time.</p><p>🎯 <strong>Key Scripture:</strong> 1 Timothy 4:7–8</p>“Train yourself for godliness. For while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way—holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.”<p><strong>Announcements:</strong></p><ul><li>💰 We’re sitting at just <strong>4% of our fundraising goal for 2026</strong>. If Dad Tired has encouraged you, consider making a <strong>tax-deductible donation</strong> before year-end: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">dadtired.com/donate</a><p></p></li><li>👨‍👧‍👦 <strong>Dadology Parenting Conference</strong> – April 24–25, 2026 in San Diego. Grab tickets now at <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">dadtired.com/dadology</a><p></p></li><li>🏔️ <strong>Father/Son Alaska Trip</strong> – June 2026. Registration closes <strong>end of January</strong>. Join us for a once-in-a-lifetime adventure: <a href="https://www.quarryproject.com/dad-tired-and-the-quarry-project">Learn More Here</a><p></p></li></ul><p>🎁 <strong>Sponsor:</strong><br><strong>Cozy Earth</strong> – Get the best sleep of your life with Cozy Earth’s bamboo sheets and pajamas (Leila’s favorite gift ever). Use code <strong>DADTIRED</strong> for <strong>40% off</strong> your order at <a href="https://cozyearth.com">CozyEarth.com</a><br>.</p>

<p>What if the reason you keep reacting, withdrawing, or losing patience isn’t about your present—but your past?</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad unpacks <strong>Step 3 of the Seven Steps of Discipleship: Addressing Past Wounds</strong>—a practical and gospel-centered conversation about facing the pain we’ve carried instead of burying it. With honesty and compassion, he walks men through why ignoring our wounds doesn’t make them disappear; it just makes them leak into our marriage, our parenting, and our leadership.</p><p>Through biblical truth, personal story, and real-world guidance, Jerrad helps you see that this step isn’t about fixing yourself—it’s about inviting God into the places you’ve avoided for too long.</p><p>With a mix of vulnerability and hope, this episode will help you:</p><ul><li>Recognize how unhealed wounds shape your reactions and relationships</li><li>Connect the dots between your pain and the lies you believe</li><li>Learn a simple 4-part process for addressing wounds (Scripture, Naming, Writing, Sharing)</li><li>Discover how to speak gospel truth to yourself</li><li>Take the first step toward becoming a healed man who leads a healthy family</li></ul><p>Whether you’ve minimized your pain, masked it with work, or felt like your story doesn’t matter, this episode is a reminder that <strong>strong families begin with healed men—and healing starts when you face what’s been buried.</strong></p><p>Prayer:<br>“Father, reveal the wounds I’ve tried to hide. Give me courage to bring them into the light, and remind me that Your grace is big enough to heal every part of my story.”</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned:</strong><br>Psalm 34:18<br>James 5:16<br>John 8:32<br>Isaiah 61:1<br>2 Corinthians 12:9</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong><br>🎯 <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps">Download the free <em>Seven Steps of Discipleship</em> PDF</a><br>💡 <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">Register for the <em>Dadology Parenting Conference</em> (April 24–25, 2026 — San Diego)</a><br>🙌 Support the mission: <a href="https://dadtired.com/donate">dadtired.com/donate</a><br>🎙️ <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Learn more about Dad Tired Conferences </a></p><p>We’d like to thank <a href="https://www.SamaritansPurse.org/occ"><strong>Samaritan’s Purse and Operation Christmas Child</strong></a> and <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/gobible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20GO%20Bible%20for%20Kids%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=June%202025%20Microsite"><strong>The Go Bible</strong></a> for sponsoring today’s episode.</p>

<p>What if healing isn’t found in isolation, but in the presence of brothers who know the worst about you and love you anyway?</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad unpacks <strong>Step 2 of the Seven Steps of Discipleship: Find Your Brotherhood: </strong>a conversation about why God never intended men to walk alone. Through biblical truth, personal story, and raw honesty, he explores why confession, friendship, and brotherhood aren’t optional extras in the Christian life, they’re essential for healing.</p><p>Later in the episode, Jerrad is joined by <strong>Nick</strong>, a <em>Dad Tired</em> listener who shares how brotherhood changed everything for him, from addiction and isolation to freedom and deep friendship. Together they paint a picture of what real, gospel-centered friendships can look like for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.</p><p>With a mix of vulnerability and hope, this episode will help you:</p><ul><li>Understand why it’s <em>not good for man to be alone</em> (Genesis 2)</li><li>Recognize how brotherhood leads to real healing (James 5:16)</li><li>Learn how confession brings both forgiveness and restoration</li><li>Discover practical ways to build honest friendships</li><li>See why every man needs a circle of brothers before he can lead his family well</li></ul><p>Whether you’ve been burned by shallow friendships or you’re just tired of trying to follow Jesus alone, this episode is a reminder that <strong>strong families begin with healed men, and healed men don’t heal alone.<br></strong><br></p><p><strong>Prayer:</strong><br>“Father, help me find and build the kind of friendships that bring healing. Give me brothers who will know me fully and love me still.”</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned:</strong><br>Genesis 2:18<br>James 5:16<br>Proverbs 27:17<br>Ecclesiastes 4:9–12<br>John 15:12–13</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links</strong><br>🎯 <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps">Download the free <em>Seven Steps of Discipleship</em> PDF</a><br>💡 <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">Register for the <em>Dadology Parenting Conference</em> (April 24–25, 2026 — San Diego)</a><br>🙌 <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Support the mission: dadtired.com/donate</a><br>🎙️ <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Learn more about <em>Dad Tired</em> Conferences &amp; Speaking</a></p><p>We'd like to thank <a href="https://www.samaritanspurse.org/what-we-do/operation-christmas-child/">Samaratin's Purse and Operation Christmas Child</a> for sponsoring today's episode. </p>

<p><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps">DOWNLOAD FREE PDF</a></p><p>What if following Jesus actually costs you everything?</p><p>In this first episode of our new 7-part series, The Seven Steps of Discipleship, Jerrad unpacks Step One — Count the Cost — and challenges men to slow down, read the small print, and honestly consider what it means to follow Jesus.</p><p>You’ll learn why Jesus told the crowds to “count the cost” before following Him, what it looks like to build your faith on a real foundation, and how to take a personal inventory of what discipleship might cost you.</p><p>Later in the episode, Jerrad sits down with his friend Ryan, who shares his real-time story of moving from compartmentalized faith to full surrender — and what it looks like when God takes the head seat at the table of your life.</p><p>This is Part 1 of the Seven Steps of Discipleship:<br>1️⃣ Count the Cost<br>2️⃣ Brotherhood<br>3️⃣ Address Wounds<br>4️⃣ Build Habits<br>5️⃣ Cherish Your Spouse<br>6️⃣ Raise Your Kids<br>7️⃣ Live the Bigger Calling</p><p><strong>Resources Mentioned:</strong> <br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/dadology">Dadology Parenting Conference</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Donate To The Ministry</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/7steps">FREE PDF worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/oneyearbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20One%20Year%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Microsite">The One Year Bible</a><br><a href="https://www.lectricbikes.com">Lectric Bikes</a></p>

<p>Most dads want to disciple their kids—but sometimes we don’t know where to start. In this episode, Kaleb shares a simple rhythm he’s been using in his own home: teaching the <strong>Apostles’ Creed</strong>. Whether it’s on car rides, walks, or at bedtime, this ancient confession of faith has become a bridge to talk about who God is and what we believe as a family.</p><p>As Kaleb walks through each line of the Creed, he focuses on one most of us overlook: <em>“He ascended into heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father.”</em> He unpacks what that means for our daily discipleship—how it shapes the way we pray, parent, and live under the reign of King Jesus.</p><p>Through personal stories, biblical teaching, and practical insight, this episode will help you see how even ancient words can lead to modern transformation right in your own home.</p><p>With a mix of theology and real-life dad moments, you’ll learn to:</p><ul><li>Use the Apostles’ Creed as a tool for family discipleship</li><li>Explain big doctrines in simple language your kids can grasp</li><li>See how the Ascension reveals Jesus as both Savior <em>and</em> King</li><li>Understand the connection between Christ’s reign and your everyday mission</li><li>Bring faith into your family’s ordinary rhythms</li></ul><p><strong>Prayer:</strong><br>“Father, thank You that Jesus reigns as King—and that His finished work means I can rest, lead, and love my family with confidence and peace.”</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned</strong><br>Acts 1:9–11<br>Ephesians 4:10<br>Daniel 7:13–14<br>Philippians 2:5–11<br>Hebrews 7:25</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links</strong><br><a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/handsonbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20Hands-On%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=July%202025%20Microsite">Today’s Sponsor: The Hands-On Bible by Tyndale</a><br><a href="https://www.SamaritansPurse.org/occ">Operation Christmas Child</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Bring A Dad Tired Conference To Your Church</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Become a Monthly Partner</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.quarryproject.com/dad-tired-and-the-quarry-project">Join us in Alaska for a Father Son Trip</a></p><p>What if the greatest gift you could give your son isn’t a car, a college fund, or a successful life—but a deep sense that he is <em>beloved</em>?</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Peter Goodwin and Connor Ketchum from <strong>The Quarry Project</strong>, a father–son camp in Alaska helping dads disciple their boys into biblical manhood. Together, they unpack what it really means to raise sons who know who they are, where they come from, and what they’re made for.</p><p>Through honest stories, theological insight, and real-world examples, they explore how today’s dads can break generational cycles and become the kind of fathers who bless rather than wound.</p><p>With a mix of vulnerability and hope, this episode will help you:</p><ul><li>Understand the power of a father’s blessing</li><li>Learn why “beloved sonship” is the foundation of manhood</li><li>Recognize how your own father wounds impact your parenting</li><li>Discover what true initiation into manhood looks like</li><li>See how God can redeem your family’s story through you</li></ul><p>Whether you had a great dad or no dad at all, this episode is a powerful reminder that <strong>strong families begin with healed men</strong>—and your son’s journey into manhood starts with you.</p><p><strong>Prayer:</strong><br>“Father, help me see my son the way You see me—beloved, chosen, and full of purpose.”</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned</strong><br>Isaiah 51:1–2<br>Luke 3:21–22<br>Ephesians 1:5–6<br>Proverbs 22:6<br>Deuteronomy 6:6–7</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links</strong><br>Today’s Sponsor: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/oneyearbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20One%20Year%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Microsite"><em>The One Year Bible by Tyndale</em></a><br>Register for the <a href="https://www.quarryproject.com/dad-tired-and-the-quarry-project"><strong>Dad Tired x Quarry Project Father–Son Trip</strong> </a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Invite Jerrad to Speak at Your Church</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Become a Monthly Partner</a></p>

<p>What if the clutter around you- your messy car, chaotic desk, or unfinished projects—was actually revealing something deeper happening inside you?</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad challenges men to look beneath the surface and see how the outward disorder in our lives often mirrors the inward chaos of our souls. Before stepping into the mission God’s calling us to, He’s inviting us to bring order, attention, and faithfulness to the small things right in front of us.</p><p>Through personal stories, honest reflection, and a practical framework, Jerrad helps listeners see that spiritual leadership starts with stewardship. You can’t lead your family well, love your wife faithfully, or change the world for Christ if your life is cluttered and chaotic.</p><p>With a mix of conviction and grace, this episode will help you:</p><ul><li>Recognize how outward messes reveal inward disorder</li><li>Understand why God calls men to faithfulness in the small things first</li><li>Learn seven practical ways to clean up “sloppy” areas of your life</li><li>See how physical order can become a daily act of spiritual worship</li><li>Prepare your heart for the bigger mission God’s about to call you into</li></ul><p>Whether you feel distracted, disorganized, or just stuck, this episode is a wake-up call to bring order to the chaos—and become the kind of man God can trust with more.</p><p><strong>Prayer:</strong><br>“God, is there anything in my life that grieves You?”</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned</strong></p><p>Psalm 139:23–24<br>Proverbs 4:23<br>Luke 16:10<br>1 Corinthians 14:33<br>Colossians 3:23</p><p><br><strong>Resources &amp; Links</strong></p><p>Today’s Sponsor: <a href="https://www.SamaritansPurse.org/occ">Samaritan’s Purse – Operation Christmas Child</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Invite Jerrad To Speak At Your Church</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Become A Monthly Partner</a></p>

<p>Watch on <a href="https://youtu.be/FF5IUmPTf9w">YouTube</a></p><p>Feeling the pull to lead your family and faith well,  but not sure where to start? In this episode, Jerrad breaks down a simple, clear, and repeatable 7-step process to help men move from drifting to disciple.</p><p>Whether you’re new to following Jesus or just hungry for deeper growth, this framework will help you <strong>count the cost, build brotherhood, heal your wounds, and lead with purpose</strong>.</p><p>If you’ve ever thought, “I’m ready to step up, I just don’t know how,” this episode is for you.</p><p><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">HOST A CONFERENCE</a></p><p><strong>Chapters</strong></p><p>00:00 – Welcome to Dad Tired<br>01:10 – Why men are feeling the call to lead again<br>03:45 – The problem with shallow men’s ministry<br>06:00 – What God is stirring in this season<br>09:00 – How to know if God is prompting you<br>11:30 – Step 1: Count the Cost<br>14:00 – Step 2: Build the Brotherhood<br>16:30 – Step 3: Heal the Wounds<br>19:00 – Step 4: Create the Habits<br>21:30 – Step 5: Cherish Your Wife<br>24:00 – Step 6: Train Up Your Kids<br>27:00 – Step 7: Find a Bigger Calling<br>29:30 – Why this matters for the next generation<br>31:00 – How you can join the mission</p>

<p>What does it really mean to follow Jesus when the cost is high?</p><p>In this week’s episode, Jerrad reflects on the tragic assassination of Charlie Kirk; not just as a political figure, but as a brother in Christ who boldly proclaimed the gospel until his final moments.</p><p>Drawing from Luke 9 and his own experiences at the Dad Tired retreat, Jerrad challenges men to slow down, quiet the noise, and seriously ask: <em>Am I all in with Jesus?<br></em><br></p><p>You’ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why silence matters for hearing God’s voice</li><li>How Charlie Kirk’s final words point us to courage and hope</li><li>The danger of being overly eager or overly cautious in discipleship</li><li>What it means to “count the cost” before putting your hand to the plow</li></ul><p>This episode is a sobering call to examine our “but first” excuses and to step fully into the life Jesus is calling us to live.</p>

<p><strong>What if the very thing you fear most—suffering—was actually the place God wanted to meet you most deeply?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this episode, Jerrad opens a new series through <em>1 Peter</em>, a letter written to Christians facing intense persecution under Nero. With raw honesty and pastoral encouragement, he reminds us that suffering isn’t a sign that God has abandoned us—it’s often the very soil where our faith takes root.</p><p>Drawing from Peter’s opening words, Jerrad shares personal stories of walking with grieving families, parenting through pain, and clinging to identity in Christ when the world speaks lies. More than tips or quick fixes, this episode centers us on the truth that even in suffering, we can bless God—because our hope and inheritance are secure in Jesus.</p><p>With insight from 1 Peter 1:1–5 and the broader historical context, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why Peter calls us “elect exiles” and why that matters for your identity today</li><li>How to hold onto hope when life feels like it’s falling apart</li><li>Why remembering who you are in Christ can anchor you through hardship</li><li>The difference between the world’s identity labels and God’s declaration over you</li><li>Nine reasons Peter gives us to bless God, even in suffering</li></ul><p>Whether you’re grieving, discouraged, or just need a reminder of where your true hope lies, this episode will help you lift your eyes to the One who guards both your inheritance and your soul.</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned</strong><br>1 Peter 1:1–5<br>Exodus 14–15<br>Philippians 1:6<br>2 Corinthians 4:16–18<br>John 16:33<br>Psalm 34:18</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links</strong><br>Today’s Sponsor: <a href="https://app.worldwatch.news/pages/dadtired?">World Watch News</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Invite Jerrad To Speak At Your Church</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Become A Monthly Partner</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IO_qYwQDHvw">Watch on YouTube</a></p><p>What if the hardest thing you’ve ever faced wasn’t 60 days in the wilderness, but the weight of leading your family through suffering?</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with <em>Alone</em> Season 5 winner, <strong>Sam Larson</strong>, whose victory on national TV was followed by a far heavier reality at home: all three of his children being diagnosed with CLN3 Batten Disease, a rare terminal illness.</p><p>With raw honesty and gospel hope, Sam shares how grief stripped away every illusion of control, what it means to father children with a limited timeline, and how Jesus became more real than ever in the middle of heartbreak.</p><p>With insight from 2 Corinthians 12, Matthew 5, and Romans 8, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why suffering can feel like an uninvited gift that drives us closer to Christ</li><li>The difference between choosing hardship (like <em>Alone</em>) and enduring pain you never asked for</li><li>How to anchor your family in gospel hope when life feels unbearable</li><li>Why men need brothers in Christ to speak truth when they’re drowning in lies</li><li>What it looks like to find joy, purpose, and community even in seasons of deep suffering</li></ul><p>Whether you’re walking through grief, feeling the crushing weight of fatherhood, or just longing for purpose in your everyday life, this episode will remind you that <strong>Jesus has conquered even the darkest parts of our story—and He is with you.</strong></p><p>Scriptures Mentioned<br>2 Corinthians 12:9–10<br>Matthew 5:4<br>Romans 8:18–25<br>John 16:33<br>2 Corinthians 4:16–18<br>Psalm 34:18<br>1 Peter 1:6–7<br>James 1:2–4<br>Philippians 1:6</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links</strong><br>Today’s Sponsors: <a href="https://app.worldwatch.news/pages/dadtired?">World Watch News</a><br>Visit Sam’s church: <a href="https://www.redemptionhillbible.com">Redemption Hill Bible Church – Hickman, Nebraska</a><br>Invite Jerrad To <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Speak At Your Church</a><br>Become A <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Monthly Partner</a></p>

<p><a href="https://youtu.be/iLb8gVIAeuA?si=CTVZT_KcT2PAT0_O">Watch on YouTube</a></p><p><strong>What if the biggest battle you’re fighting isn’t around you, but inside your own head?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this episode, Jerrad gets real about the lies men quietly believe every day—the voices that whisper (or shout), <em>“You’re not enough, you’ll never change, you’re unlovable, you don’t matter.”</em> Drawing from personal struggles, conversations with friends, and the truth of Scripture, he unpacks how to recognize these destructive thoughts and replace them with what God actually says.</p><p>With insight from John 8:44, Romans 8:1, 2 Corinthians 5:17, and Ephesians 2:10, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>The 10 most common lies men believe—and how they quietly shape our marriages, parenting, and walk with God</li><li>Why these lies don’t just stay in your head but impact your words, actions, and relationships</li><li>How Satan, the father of lies, plants accusations that erode your identity in Christ</li><li>The practical, biblical way to combat lies—not with pep talks or hype—but with the Word of God and gospel-centered community</li><li>Why truth spoken by brothers in Christ can break through lies when self-talk can’t</li></ul><p>Whether you’ve felt the sting of shame, the weight of failure, or the loneliness of “I have to do this on my own,” this episode will help you step back onto the solid ground of God’s truth and live as the healed man He created you to be.</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned</strong><br>John 8:44<br>Romans 8:1<br>2 Corinthians 5:17<br>Ephesians 2:10<br>Proverbs 24:16<br>Philippians 1:6<br>1 John 3:1<br>Romans 5:8<br>1 Corinthians 6:19–20<br>1 Peter 2:9<br>2 Corinthians 12:9<br>Ecclesiastes 4:9–10<br>Galatians 6:2<br>John 15:5</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links</strong><br>Today’s Sponsors: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/courageforlifebible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20Courage%20For%20Life%20Study%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=July%202025%20Microsite">Courage For Life Study Bible</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Invite Jerrad To Speak At Your Church</a><br><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Become A Monthly Partner</a></p>

<p><a href="https://youtu.be/3Lk6PbsrZFc">Watch on YouTube Here</a></p><p>What would your wife and kids say if someone asked, <em>“Is your dad full of joy?”<br></em><br></p><p>In this episode, Jerrad gets honest about why so many dads feel grumpy, short-tempered, and exhausted, and why joy often feels out of reach. Sharing personal stories, biblical truth, and ten practical steps, he unpacks how Christian dads can move from frustration to deep joy rooted in Jesus.</p><p>With insight from Psalm 16:11, Galatians 5:22–23, and John 15:10–11, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>The hidden reasons dads lose joy (unconfessed sin, silent pressures, numbing out)</li><li>Why God actually cares about your joy as a man</li><li>How joy flows from God’s presence, obedience, and salvation</li><li>Practical rhythms to restore joy in your home—like confession, gratitude, play, rest, and community</li></ul><p>Whether you’ve been stuck in grumpiness or just long to be a more joy-filled dad, this episode will help you step back into the life God designed for you.</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned</strong></p><ul><li>Psalm 16:11</li><li>Galatians 5:22–23</li><li>Psalm 51:12</li><li>James 1:2–4</li><li>John 15:10–11</li><li>Philippians 4:6–7</li><li>1 Thessalonians 5:16–18</li><li>Ecclesiastes 3:12–13</li><li>Matthew 18:3</li><li>John 16:24</li><li>Mark 10:45</li><li>Matthew 11:28–29</li><li>Hebrews 10:24–25</li></ul><p>Resources &amp; Links</p><ul><li><strong>Today’s Sponsors:</strong> <a href="http://dwellbible.com/dadtired">Dwell Bible App</a> &amp; <a href="https://www.worldwatch.news/dadtired">World Watch</a></li><li><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Invite Jerrad To Speak At Your Church</a></li><li><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Become A Monthly Partner</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-VEN64Wzg5U">Funny Video Jerrad Laughed At</a></li><li><a href="https://www.calm.com/blog/the-science-of-gratitude">Scientific Benefits of Gratitude</a></li></ul>

<p>Watch on YouTube: <a href="https://youtu.be/vNdWKOY3wmA">https://youtu.be/vNdWKOY3wmA</a></p><p><strong>What would it look like if every part of your life was lived in the light. No shortcuts, no secrets, no lies?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this episode, Jerrad challenges men to step into radical honesty, starting with the smallest details. Drawing from his own healing journey, he unpacks why healed men are truth-tellers, how integrity builds confidence, and why it matters to look more like your Heavenly Father—the Father of light—than the father of lies.</p><p>With biblical insight from 1 John 1:6–7, Proverbs 10:9, and Luke 16:10, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why even “small” lies keep you stuck</li><li>How walking in the light transforms your confidence and relationships</li><li>Practical steps to start telling the truth in everything</li><li>The role of trusted friends, counselors, and community in your healing</li></ul><p>Whether you’re holding onto a hidden struggle or just want to live with more integrity, this episode will help you take your next step toward freedom.</p><p><strong>Scriptures Mentioned:</strong></p><ul><li>1 John 1:6–7</li><li>Proverbs 10:9</li><li>Luke 16:10</li><li>John 8:44</li><li>James 1:17</li></ul><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p><ul><li>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/handsonbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20Hands-On%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=July%202025%20Microsite">Hands On Bible</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad To <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">Speak At Your Church</a></li><li><a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">Become A Monthly Partner</a></li></ul>

<p>Watch on YouTube <a href="https://youtu.be/WqM3psg6pTM?si=vmILIYnXRoFCUMbe">HERE</a></p><p><strong>What if the most powerful discipleship moments with your kids weren’t planned, but hidden in the everyday?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this heartfelt solo episode, Jerrad Lopes shares the honest struggle of staying connected with your kids; especially as they grow into pre-teens and teens. From the exhausting early days of parenting toddlers to the emotional complexity of raising a 14-year-old, Jerrad opens up about his own wins, failures, and surprising lessons learned.</p><p>Through a spontaneous<a href="https://phoenix.buyatvtours.com"> UTV adventure in the Arizona desert</a>, he discovered a truth that changed how he parents: deep connection isn’t built in big, perfectly planned moments, it’s formed in the small, mundane ones. With biblical insight from Deuteronomy and the example of Jesus, Jerrad shows how ordinary life can become the best classroom for pointing your kids to Christ.</p><p>This episode is an encouragement to slow down, notice the moments you might be missing, and remember that God uses the everyday to shape both your kids’ hearts and yours.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why parenting often gets harder as your kids grow older</li><li>How to build “relational equity” with your kids in simple, everyday ways</li><li>Why the mundane moments are often the most spiritually impactful</li><li>How Jesus used ordinary life to disciple His followers</li><li>Practical ideas to connect with both younger kids and teens</li><li>How God uses parenting moments to shape your own faith</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Deuteronomy 6:4–7 — Teaching your kids in everyday life</li><li>Matthew 6 &amp; Mark 4 — How Jesus used lilies and storms to teach spiritual truths</li><li><a href="https://phoenix.buyatvtours.com">Arizona ATV Adventures</a></li><li>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Grab <a href="https://amzn.to/45PrCiv"><em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em></a></li></ul><p><strong>Today’s Sponsors: </strong></p><p><a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/courageforlifebible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20Courage%20For%20Life%20Study%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=July%202025%20Microsite"><strong>Courage For Life Bible </strong></a><strong>&amp; </strong><a href="https://www.worldwatch.news/dadtired"><strong>World Watch News</strong></a></p>

<p><strong>Watch on Youtube:</strong> <a href="https://youtu.be/l6cKcqatpt8?si=yIQMZfIQxc-W2pPF">https://youtu.be/l6cKcqatpt8?si=yIQMZfIQxc-W2pPF</a></p><p><strong>What if your emotions weren’t the enemy—but the invitation to grow into the man God’s calling you to be?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this powerful solo episode, <em>Chris Hilken</em> explores the complicated relationship men have with their emotions. Most guys tend to fall off one side of the horse: either rejecting their emotions altogether or letting them run the show. But what if there’s a better way?</p><p>With biblical insight and real-life examples, Chris makes the case that emotions aren’t something to obey or ignore—they’re something to <em>redeem</em>. He shares a practical framework for navigating emotions like anger, fear, and sadness through a gospel lens, helping men avoid the extremes of emotional numbness or chaos.</p><p>This episode is a call for men to stop being passive with their emotions and start learning how to steward them like Jesus did—intentionally, righteously, and powerfully.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why men are more emotional than they realize</li><li>The 3 questions every man should ask when he feels something deeply</li><li>How to know if your emotions are leading you toward Christ—or away from Him</li><li>Why “being true to yourself” is not a biblical idea</li><li>What Jesus, Nehemiah, and Esther teach us about godly emotion</li><li>How to break the pattern of reacting emotionally and start responding spiritually</li><li>Why redeemed emotions can actually <em>strengthen</em> your leadership as a husband and father</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>“Emotions are a check engine light, not a GPS” analogy</li><li>Jonathan Edwards on righteous vs. carnal affections</li><li>Mark 11 (Jesus’ righteous anger)</li><li>Genesis 4 (Cain’s destructive jealousy)</li><li>Nehemiah 1 and Matthew 27 (sadness that rebuilds vs. sadness that destroys)</li><li>Esther 4 and Luke 22 (courage vs. fear)</li><li>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">Amazon Link</a></li></ul><p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://www.classicalconversations.com/dadtiredpodcast">Classical Conversations </a></p>

<p><strong>Watch on YouTube:</strong> <a href="https://youtu.be/7qy-dTUtTA4">https://youtu.be/7qy-dTUtTA4</a></p><p>Most men have learned how to clean up well.<br>We look calm. Composed. Put together.<br>We show up to church, crack a few jokes, keep the peace; and no one would know what’s actually happening in our hearts.</p><p>But Jesus isn’t fooled by appearance. He sees straight through the polish and into the pain.</p><p>In today’s episode, Kaleb unpacks what it means to “clean the inside of the cup.”<br>He shares a raw story about how God confronted him in the middle of the night, while he was busy rehearsing a bitter argument in his head, and revealed just how much unhealed junk was still living in his heart.</p><p>This isn’t about behavior management. It’s about soul work.<br>Because your wife doesn’t need a perfect version of you. Your kids don’t need a dad who looks impressive.<br>They need a man who is whole on the inside.</p><p><strong>In this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>The hidden difference between external discipline and internal health</li><li>How to know if you’re just “managing the outside”</li><li>The biblical call to clean the <em>inside</em> of your cup</li><li>What makes a man <em>useful</em> to God</li><li>Why your family needs a healed version of you—not a polished one</li></ul><p>"Woe to you… You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. First clean the inside of the cup…”<br>— Matthew 23:25–26</p><p>Resources:</p><ul><li>Bring A Conference To Your Church: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/conferences">https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</a></li><li>Support the mission: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/donate">https://www.dadtired.com/donate</a></li><li>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/handsonbible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20Hands-On%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=July%202025%20Microsite">Hands On Kids Bible by Tyndale</a></li></ul><p>Go deeper:</p><p>If this episode hit you—share it with a friend or take 30 seconds to leave a review. It helps us reach more men who are ready to do the hard work of becoming whole.</p>

<p><strong>Lectric Xpedition Bike</strong>: <a href="https://youtu.be/Zxd21NSt3aE?si=ffKYgOqFK1SLabuP">Watch Here</a></p><p>What if the pain you’ve buried is the very thing blocking you from becoming the man God created you to be?</p><p>In this raw and emotional episode, Jerrad sits down with Dr. Brad Johnson—also known as BJ Communicates—to talk about grief, father wounds, and how trauma shapes us more than we realize. BJ shares the heartbreaking story of holding his newborn son as he took his last breath, walking through the fog of loss in his marriage, and later grieving the death of his own father before reconciliation could happen.</p><p>Together, they unpack how fatherlessness, unprocessed emotions, and generational pain keep men stuck—and why ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. They talk about how grief shows up in unexpected ways (like road rage and burnout), why most men lack true friendships, and how healing begins with honest conversations.</p><p>This episode is an invitation to stop carrying what God has called you to cast—and to believe that the best version of you is on the other side of your pain.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why men are emotional—even when they say they’re not</li><li>How father wounds affect your identity</li><li>The power of grief and what it reveals</li><li>What it means to carry trauma in your body</li><li>How to connect with your wife through emotional check-ins</li><li>Why men struggle to form deep friendships</li><li>How generational patterns repeat if we don’t interrupt them</li><li>Why healing is spiritual—and why it matters for your family</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>BJ Communicates’ books: <em>Hard Conversations</em> series</li><li>Support group for grieving dads: Sad Dad</li><li>“Feelings Wheel” for emotional check-ins</li><li>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ul><p><br></p>

<p>Watch this interview on Youtube: <a href="https://youtu.be/4c_qHfeSGAE">https://youtu.be/4c_qHfeSGAE</a></p><p><strong>What if the lie you're believing is the very thing keeping you from peace?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this powerful and convicting episode, Jerrad sits down with bestselling author Gary Thomas to dismantle one of the most common, but rarely admitted lies Christian men believe: <em>God owes me.</em> Together, they talk about the quiet entitlement that sneaks into our faith, why peace feels so elusive, and how the Gospel offers something far deeper than comfort or success.</p><p>Jerrad and Gary explore how social media fuels discontent, how unspoken expectations erode intimacy with God, and why healing begins when we face our sin instead of hiding it. They share personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-won wisdom for men who want more than just behavior change, they want transformation.</p><p>This episode is a much-needed reminder: God’s not holding out on you. He’s already given you more than you deserve.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why entitlement might be the root of your spiritual frustration</li><li>How believing a lie can sabotage your faith</li><li>The difference between comfort and peace</li><li>What Gary learned through suffering, silence, and surrender</li><li>Why social media subtly kills gratitude</li><li>How to be a man of peace in a world full of chaos</li><li>Why facing your sin leads to deeper joy</li><li>How the Gospel frees you—from your past, for your future</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong><br>Gary Thomas’ new book: <em>The Life You Were Reborn to Live</em><br>Gary’s website: <a href="https://www.garythomas.com/">https://www.garythomas.com</a><br>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br>Watch and subscribe on YouTube: <a href="https://youtu.be/4c_qHfeSGAE">https://youtu.be/4c_qHfeSGAE</a></p>

<p><strong>Watch this conversation on YouTube</strong>: <a href="https://youtu.be/ihMjsKPxdA8">https://youtu.be/ihMjsKPxdA8</a></p><p><strong>What if your greatest strength… is also the thing that wears you out the most?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this honest and inspiring conversation, Jerrad sits down with Michael Seifert—founder of PublicSq. and EveryLife—to talk about identity, pressure, purpose, and the hidden cost of success. Though Michael leads some of the most mission-driven companies in America, he opens up about the soul battles behind his ambition—and why Sabbath rest might be his greatest act of obedience.</p><p>They talk about legacy, fatherhood, and how a rebellious teenager found Jesus at a ranch in Northern California. Michael shares how a single week transformed his relationship with his dad, the real reason behind his inner drive, and the moment he realized that working for the praises of man would eventually break him.</p><p>This episode is a reminder that God doesn’t just care about what you build—but who you're becoming while you build it.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why your identity can’t come from what you accomplish</li><li>The four roles a dad plays (caretaker, cop, coach, consultant)</li><li>How pressure to succeed impacts father-son relationships</li><li>What Michael learned about humility from his dad</li><li>The beauty of building with God—and learning to rest</li><li>How to lead your family while healing from your own wounds</li><li>Why starting a values-driven business invites both criticism and purpose</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>J.H. Ranch: <a href="https://jhranch.com/">https://jhranch.com</a></li><li>PublicSq: <a href="https://publicsq.com/">https://publicsq.com</a></li><li>EveryLife Diapers: <a href="https://everylife.com/">https://everylife.com</a></li><li>Today's Sponsor: <a href="http://dwellbible.com/dadtired">dwellbible.com/dadtired</a></li><li>Michael's South Korea launch at Yoido Full Gospel Church</li><li>Jerrad’s mantra: “Strong families begin with healed men”</li></ul><p><strong>🔗 Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Watch and subscribe on YouTube</li></ul>

<p>Watch on YouTube: <a href="https://youtu.be/B50C1AlD3ao">https://youtu.be/B50C1AlD3ao</a></p><p><strong>What if the things that slow you down… are the very things God wants to use to form you?<br></strong><br></p><p>In this slow, soulful conversation, Jerrad sits down with Jake Weidmann—a master penman (yes, that’s a real thing) and artist whose life and work are marked by discipline, creativity, and deep intentionality. From carving sacred art to raising four kids, Jake shares how slowing down has reshaped not just his craft—but his soul.</p><p>They talk about the connection between beauty and time, why being creative has nothing to do with being “artsy,” and how discipline and delight can co-exist in the life of a godly man. Jake opens up about the doubts that haunted his early career, what it means to “exult in monotony,” and the emotional moment he hoisted an Amish barn beam onto his shoulder—realizing he was quite literally taking up his cross.</p><p>This episode is a breath of fresh air in a world that worships speed.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why slowing down might be the most spiritual thing you do today</li><li>How discipline, doubt, and beauty all shape a man’s soul</li><li>The lost art of doing one thing well over a long time</li><li>What it means to create as a reflection of the Creator</li><li>How parenting and craftsmanship have more in common than you think</li><li>Why creativity isn’t just for artists—it’s for every man made in God’s image</li><li>The surprising story behind Jake’s “Old Rugged Cross” artwork</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Jake’s book and artwork: <a href="https://jakeweidmann.com/">https://jakeweidmann.com</a></li><li>G.K. Chesterton’s <em>Orthodoxy</em></li><li>The story of the “pen wizard” and the golden age of handwriting</li><li>Benedictine wisdom: <em>To work is to pray</em></li><li>Jerrad’s mantra: “Decades over days”</li></ul><p>🔗 <strong>Resources:</strong><br>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br>Watch the episode on YouTube and subscribe!</p>

<p><strong>WATCH ON YOUTUBE:</strong> <a href="https://youtu.be/Uovkiigw4gw">https://youtu.be/Uovkiigw4gw</a></p><p>What if the thing that nearly destroyed you… became the thing God used to heal others?</p><p>In this raw and redemptive episode, Jerrad sits down with Sammy Perez, a man who grew up without a dad, entered the system at age 8, and spent much of his early life in prison. But that’s not where the story ends. Through a prison cellmate, an unexpected visitation, and the unlikely love of a spiritual father, Sammy’s life was completely turned around.</p><p>Together, they talk about father wounds, the ache for belonging, how prison both broke and saved him, and the long road to healing as a man and dad. Sammy shares the tear-filled moment he gave his life to Jesus behind bars, the first time he saw his son through glass, and how God turned his pain into purpose.</p><p>This is one of the most powerful stories we’ve ever told.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why boys without dads often become men without direction</li><li>How shame disconnects us from our story and how healing reconnects us</li><li>The surprising moment Sammy met his son for the first time</li><li>What it looks like to father when you were never fathered</li><li>How a consistent man named Terry changed everything</li><li>Why God’s love can rewire even the hardest hearts</li><li>The full-circle moment that brought Sammy back into prisons… this time with purpose</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Prison Fellowship’s Angel Tree Program</li><li>Sammy’s work helping former prisoners reintegrate into society</li><li>The story of Clarence; the cellmate who wouldn’t stop asking Sammy if he wanted to know Jesus</li><li>Jerrad’s teaching on 2 Kings 6 and the power of new perspective</li></ul><p><strong>🔗 Resources:</strong><br>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br>Learn more about Prison Fellowship: <a href="https://www.prisonfellowship.org/">https://www.prisonfellowship.org</a></p>

<p><a href="https://youtu.be/7LBcbLyOcIU"><strong>Watch this interview on YouTube:</strong></a> <a href="https://youtu.be/JEN5VOBXp9g">https://youtu.be/JEN5VOBXp9g</a></p><p>What if being a “man” had nothing to do with bench press numbers or beard length—and everything to do with becoming a safe place?</p><p>In this vulnerable and soul-stirring episode, Jerrad sits down with Brant Hansen to talk about what it really means to be a man. From playing the flute and battling shame to protecting the vulnerable and bringing peace to your home, Brant flips the typical narrative of masculinity on its head.</p><p>They unpack the ache many men feel to be better, why muscle doesn’t equal maturity, and how a man’s deepest strength might just be his gentleness. Brant shares the heart behind his book <a href="https://amzn.to/3Hx72Lg"><em>The Men We Need</em></a>, what it means to be a “keeper of the garden,” and how every man, no matter his story, can begin again.</p><p>This one gets deep fast.</p><p><br>What You’ll Learn:</p><ul><li>Why your presence is more than physical proximity</li><li>How spiritual formation leads to true masculinity</li><li>Why “being strong” often looks like tenderness</li><li>What your tone of voice says about the kind of man you are</li><li>The one vision for manhood that could reshape your home</li><li>How to become a non-anxious presence for your wife and kids</li><li>Why it’s never too late to pivot and become the man God’s calling you to be</li></ul><p>Mentioned in This Episode:</p><ul><li>Brant’s book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3Hx72Lg"><em>The Men We Need</em></a></li><li>The Hebrew word for God’s covering in Eden—“royal garments”</li><li>Lamentations 3 and Philippians 4 as anchors for anxious men</li><li>Bible Memory App for rewiring shame loops</li><li>The “Keeper of the Garden” vision of masculinity</li><li>How passive men still make their homes unsafe</li></ul><p>🔗 Resources:</p><ul><li>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Get Brant’s book <a href="https://amzn.to/3Hx72Lg"><em>The Men We Need</em></a></li><li>Today’s Sponsor: <a href="https://info.classicalconversations.com/dadtiredpodcast">Classical Conversations </a></li></ul>

<p>Watch this interview on YouTube: <a href="https://youtu.be/LLFfgIW8OH4">https://youtu.be/LLFfgIW8OH4</a></p><p>In this honest and gritty conversation, Shane Winnings and Jerrad talk about the ache behind every man’s desire to be a good dad—and why good intentions still leave so many guys feeling like they’re failing.</p><p>Shane shares his own story of growing as a father while leading a national movement to fight fatherlessness. They unpack how wounds from our own dads often fuel our desire to be better, but why motivation alone won’t cut it. From military discipline to spiritual revival, from being physically present to emotionally absent, this conversation gets real fast.</p><p>They also dive into Shane’s bold new campaign <em>Make Dads Great Again</em>, what’s sparking revival in Gen Z men, how fatherhood videos are breaking algorithms and breaking men open, and why the greatest threat to your calling might be your unchecked hustle.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why proximity doesn’t equal presence in your home</li><li>How to stop “tinkering” and start truly engaging your kids</li><li>The real reason father wounds hurt so deeply</li><li>How to love your family in the way they actually receive love</li><li>Why being faithful at home matters more than platform or ministry success</li><li>How revival might already be happening—just not the way we expect</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Shane’s viral <em>Make Dads Great Again</em> campaign</li><li>Wesley Huff’s surprising influence on Joe Rogan</li><li>Why Gen Z men are leading the way back to church</li><li>The trap of high-output, low-impact fatherhood</li><li>How to heal the pain that productivity can’t cover</li></ul><p>Book Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Grab <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3ZiSSTV">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p><p><br><strong>Today’s Sponsors:<br></strong><a href="https://get.dwellbible.com/dadtired/?utm_campaign=sponsorships&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_source=dadtired&amp;utm_term="><strong>DwellBible.com/DadTired</strong></a></p>

<p>Watch this episode on YouTube: <a href="https://youtu.be/VDz2Q6cuwsk">https://youtu.be/8QC4kcRPwbQ</a></p><p>Why do so many dads feel like they’re failing, even when they’re doing their best?</p><p>In this honest and soul-stirring conversation, John Eldredge helps us trace the ache beneath our anger, our addictions, and our constant striving. He explains why most men are still chasing love and validation they never received, how childhood wounds shape adult behavior, and why true healing—not behavior modification—is the key to becoming the man your family needs.</p><p>Jerrad and John unpack father wounds, mother wounds, emotional detachment, and the deep desire for adventure that often gets twisted into sin. If you've ever felt like you're just trying to survive—numbing your pain, doubting your worth, or holding your breath through life—this conversation will help you breathe again.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why behavior change won’t work without soul healing</li><li>How father and mother wounds still shape your adult life</li><li>The two core needs every boy carries into manhood</li><li>Why adventure and validation matter to your spiritual life</li><li>How to begin healing old attachments and rewire your story</li><li>What it looks like to fight for your family, your faith, and your future</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned in the Episode:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://amzn.to/4juCOWt"><em>Wild at Heart</em></a> and <em>Resilient</em> by John Eldredge</li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/4528crI"><em>Experience Jesus</em></a> (John’s new book on healing)</li><li>Why boys need a thousand moments of delight from their dads</li><li>How your unhealed story gets passed to your kids</li><li>Jerrad’s punching bag story (and why it felt amazing)</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read <em>Dad Tired and Loving It</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ul><p>Today's Sponsors: </p><p><a href="https://www.tyndale.com/sites/courageforlifebible/?utm_campaign=Bibles%20-%20NLT%20Courage%20For%20Life%20Study%20Bible%20-%20Tyndale&amp;utm_source=Dad%20Tired%20Podcast&amp;utm_medium=July%202025%20Microsite">Tyndale Study Bibles</a> + <a href="https://worldwatch.news/dadtired">World Watch News </a></p>

<p>What if the part of you that you hate the most is the part God is most eager to heal?</p><p>In this episode, Jerrad opens up about a moment that nearly ended him, and the journey that brought him back. He shares a powerful story from his two-week intensive recovery experience, including the surprising object that became a symbol of grace and compassion. If you’ve ever carried shame, hidden pain, or felt like your sin disqualifies you from being loved, this conversation is for you.</p><p>Whether you’re a husband, father, or man who’s just tired of pretending, this episode is an invitation to drop the shame and discover the healing God offers to the parts of you that feel unlovable.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why shame makes healing so hard, and what finally breaks its grip.</li><li>The powerful metaphor that helped Jerrad see himself through God’s eyes.</li><li>How childhood wounds shape adult sin patterns.</li><li>What Jesus actually thinks about your sin (hint: it’s not what you assume).</li><li>The difference between guilt, shame, and compassion.</li><li>A fresh way to view your struggles, and the small boy inside still seeking safety.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned in the Episode:</strong></p><ul><li>The Dwell Bible App – dwellbible.com/dadtired (25% off for listeners).</li><li>The two-week men's recovery intensive Jerrad attended.</li><li>A simple but profound healing exercise involving a stuffed monkey.</li></ul><p><br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>Watch this episode on Youtube: <a href="https://youtu.be/WDK9O0VZ7lo">https://youtu.be/1iY74eYwYBQ</a></p><p><strong>What if your marriage wasn’t just surviving—but actually healing you?</strong></p><p>In this powerful episode, Jerrad sits down with author and speaker Gabe Lyons (<em>The Fight for Us</em>) to talk about the real work of building a thriving marriage—especially when life throws curveballs like special needs parenting, trauma, and unspoken pain.</p><p>They unpack:</p><ul><li>The power of radical honesty (and why most couples never get there)</li><li>How to stop nursing wounds in silence and start creating real intimacy</li><li>Why “no secrets” might be the most life-changing marriage rule</li><li>What to do when you feel emotionally disconnected</li><li>How confession and emotional leadership can radically change your marriage and parenting</li></ul><p>If you’ve ever felt stuck in your marriage or unsure how to lead your family spiritually—this conversation is for you.</p><p>📘 Check out Gabe’s new book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3Zmo9VQ"><em>The Fight for Us: Overcome What Divides and Build a Marriage That Thrives</em></a><em><br></em>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p><p><em></em></p><p>Today's Sponsor: <a href="https://info.classicalconversations.com/compelled"><em>Classical Conversations Homeschooling</em></a></p>

<p>Why do so many men feel stuck—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—even while doing all the “right” things? <br>In this vulnerable conversation, Kyle Idleman talks about the inner battles men face in silence. He explains why many men hide behind performance and productivity, how healing begins with connection (not accomplishment), and what it really looks like to take every thought captive.</p><p>Kyle and Jerrad dig into thought patterns that keep men stuck, the mental load of leadership, and why confessing weakness isn’t whining—it’s spiritual obedience. If you’ve ever felt alone, overburdened, or ashamed of not “being further along,” this conversation will help you breathe again.</p><p>What You’ll Learn:</p><ul><li>Why men around age 40 often face unexpected internal crisis</li><li>How emotional connection—not productivity—defines your health</li><li>What it looks like to take every thought captive in practical terms</li><li>The healing power of confession and friendship</li><li>How to recognize and break negative thought patterns</li><li>Morning routines, prayer habits, and spoken truth as tools for renewal</li></ul><p><br>Mentioned in the Episode:</p><ol><li>Every Thought Captive (Kyle Idleman’s new book)</li><li>Galatians 6: “Bear one another’s burdens”</li><li>The power of saying Scripture aloud to renew your mind</li><li>Healthy male friendships and confession as healing rhythms</li><li>The “+/- 3 of 40” principle: why men change between 37–43</li></ol><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p><br>What do you do when something isn’t technically sin—but still doesn’t feel right? In this episode, Jerrad shares a vulnerable story from his week that left him convicted, even though no clear line was crossed. He unpacks the concept of “inner, middle, and outer circle behaviors”—a tool from recovery circles—and challenges Christian men to evaluate the subtle patterns that quietly lead to sin, disconnection, or hidden shame.</p><p>If you’re a husband or father wrestling with old habits, emotional isolation, or unspoken compromise, this episode gives practical language to your inner conflict—and a gospel-centered path toward integrity and healing.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn</strong>:</p><ul><li>How to identify subtle behaviors that lead to sin</li><li>The difference between self-care and numbing</li><li>Why “middle circle” habits matter for Christian men</li><li>Practical steps for radical honesty in marriage</li><li>How to confess without spiraling into shame</li><li>Why healing starts with small, honest steps—not perfection</li></ul><p><br><strong>Mentioned in the Episode:</strong></p><ol><li>The “Inner, Middle, Outer Circle” tool from recovery work</li><li>Dad Tired Retreat (September – signup at dadtired.com)</li><li>Kids' News Sponsor -World Watch News </li></ol><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>What do you do when your marriage feels broken—but you don’t know how to fix it?<br> In this episode, Dave and Ann Wilson share their story of nearly losing their marriage at year 10, and how God brought them through bitterness, performance, and unmet expectations into healing and intimacy.</p><p>With over four decades of marriage experience and years of leading marriage ministries, they speak candidly about wounds from the past, what happens when a wife feels unseen, and why husbands often withdraw instead of engage. You’ll also hear practical tools for renewing your mind, healing emotional wounds, and building each other up instead of tearing each other down.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>What to do when one spouse has “lost all feelings”</li><li>How past trauma affects your marriage today</li><li>Why healing starts with individual repentance and soul work</li><li>The power of affirmation and the damage of chronic critique</li><li>How to speak life to your spouse (instead of yelling)</li><li>What it means to be an “azer kenegdo” and partner in the spiritual battle</li><li>Why most men feel unloved and unliked in their marriage—and how to change that</li></ul><p><br> <strong>Links and Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Vertical Marriage and How to Speak Life to Your Husband by Dave &amp; Ann Wilson</li><li>Biblical Reference- Romans 12:2 – the daily renewing of your mind.</li><li>Pre-order link: Amazon – How to Speak Life to Your Husband</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>Why do so many christian men fall into the same sinful patterns over and over? Jerrad reveals how habitual sin is often rooted in emotional escape—in attempts to numb pain, stress, or fear. Drawing from his own experience in intensive counseling and a growing commitment to truth-telling, he helps men understand how to face uncomfortable emotions rather than flee from them.</p><p>This episode is for every man who feels stuck, ashamed, or exhausted by the cycle of sin and silence. You’ll walk away with practical tools to sit in discomfort, recognize your escape habits, and move toward healing and integrity in Christ.</p><p><strong> What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why escaping pain fuels habitual sin in Christian men</li><li>How to recognize subtle behaviors that lead to deeper compromise</li><li>What it means to sit in discomfort instead of numbing out</li><li>The power of presence, meditation, and prayer for spiritual growth</li><li>Why truth-telling must be the foundation of healing</li><li>How to identify your personal “escape mechanisms” (like social media, work, food, or fantasy)</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links :</strong></p><ol><li>Inner / Middle / Outer Circle framework for sin and coping</li><li>Jerrad’s 156-day truth-telling streak</li><li>Scripture Reference: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the Kingdom</li><li>Upcoming “Garage Groups” and online healing spaces (in development)</li><li>Dad Tired fundraising needs &amp; support at dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Nick Stumbo (Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries) shares his personal story of battling pornography addiction while serving as a pastor—and how it nearly cost him his marriage. Nick and Jerrad unpack the cycle of shame, hidden habits, emotional coping, and why true healing for Christian men requires more than confession.</p><p>If you've ever felt stuck in sin, numb to your marriage, or spiritually ashamed, this conversation offers a hopeful path toward recovery and freedom in Christ.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why many Christian men deny the severity of their porn use</li><li>The real difference between struggle and addiction</li><li>How shame and secrecy keep men stuck</li><li>Understanding your middle circle behaviors (the warning signs)</li><li>Why confession alone doesn’t lead to freedom</li><li>How to identify your escape patterns </li><li>What wives need to know (and how to avoid trauma-based confessions)</li></ul><p><br><strong>Episode Resources and Links :</strong></p><ol><li>Pure Desire Ministries: puredesire.org</li><li>Book: Setting Us Free by Nick Stumbo</li><li>Recovery groups: Seven Pillars of Freedom (for men), Betrayal &amp; Beyond (for wives)</li><li>The “Three Questions” that define addiction</li><li>Tools: Inner/Middle/Outer Circle framework, HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired)</li><li>Sponsor: Dwell Bible App – dwellbible.com/dadtired</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB<p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad Lopes returns after a four-month break. He  shares how hidden sin, deep wounds, and a crisis of identity led him to the darkest season of his life—and how God met him there. Jerrad opens up about stepping away from ministry, entering a two-week counseling intensive, and why full healing is impossible without radical honesty.</p><p>This episode is a call to Christian men: if you want your family to thrive, healing must begin with you. You don’t need more parenting tips—you need deep, soul-level transformation. And it starts by coming out of hiding.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why secrecy destroys spiritual leadership</li><li>The emotional cost of compartmentalized sin</li><li>The moment Jerrad chose full healing over self-destruction</li><li>Why counseling and community are essential for real change</li><li>What it feels like to live with nothing hidden</li><li>How Dad Tired is shifting focus toward men's healing ministry</li></ul><p><strong>Episode  Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p><ol><li>Dad Tired’s upcoming retreat: Register at dadtired.com</li><li>Dad Tired's Mighty Networks Community for men (free)</li><li>Episode Sponsor: World Watch News (sponsor for family-safe news)</li><li>Episode 462 :“Important Ministry Update” &amp; conversation with Kaleb and Chris</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Caleb Allen and Chris Hilken to share a ministry update. This is a follow-up to the first update from earlier this year. The conversation focuses on personal growth, spiritual accountability, and the next steps for Dad Tired.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What restoration has looked like behind the scenes<br> • Why confession, counsel, and community were key<br> • How the team approached trust and leadership<br> • What has changed in Jerrad’s personal walk with God<br> • How grace and truth have shaped the process<br> • What’s ahead for the Dad Tired podcast and the ministry<br> Tune in for an honest conversation about repentance, restoration, and spiritual health. </p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li> Join the community or ask a question: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li> Dad Tired Annual Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li> Range Leather (15% off): https://rangeleather.com/dadtired – Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li></ol>

<p>What does it really mean to be a man of God? In this powerful follow-up to Part One of the Biblical Masculinity series, we explore <strong>8 core traits of a godly man</strong> through the PRIME MEN acrostic: Peacemaking, Repentant, Intentional, Meek, Enduring, Moral, Empathetic, and Noble.</p><p>With insight from scripture, stories of failure and redemption (from Adam to Jesus), and quotes from thinkers like C.S. Lewis, John Piper, and Voddie Baucham, this episode will challenge and inspire you to grow as a man of faith.</p><p>Whether you're a dad, a husband, or a young man figuring out what biblical manhood really looks like, this one is for you.</p><p>🔑 <strong>Key Topics:</strong></p><ul><li>Why meek ≠ weak (Jesus was <em>both</em> powerful and gentle)</li><li>Endurance in suffering and fatherhood</li><li>The cost of moral compromise</li><li>How empathy and nobility set godly men apart</li><li>Practical ways to grow in each area</li></ul><p>📖 <strong>Scriptures Mentioned:</strong><br>John 8, 1 Timothy 3, Ephesians 6, Genesis 18, Numbers 20, Judges 16, Matthew 4, Luke 23, Philippians 2, Proverbs 24, Micah 6:8</p><p>🎯 <strong>Action Step:</strong><br>Grab a journal. Circle 4 areas you’re doing well, 2 that need growth, and 1 where you’re bleeding. Then invite a godly man to speak into your life.</p><p>👉 <em>Join our free men’s community at:</em> dadtired.com/community<br>🎧 <em>Check out Dwell for 25% OFF:</em> <a href="https://dwellbible.com/dadtired">dwellbible.com/dadtired</a><br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>Is your view of masculinity shaped more by culture than Christ? In this first part of a two-part series, Chris Hilkin unpacks what the Bible really says about being a man. Drawing on personal stories, cultural contrasts, and Scripture, Chris introduces the PRIME MEN acrostic—a framework for understanding godly manhood—and walks through the first two foundational traits: Peacemaker and Repentant.</p><p>This episode is a call for Christian men to unlearn shallow definitions of manhood and replace them with gospel-centered convictions. Whether you’re raising sons or seeking healing yourself, this message will challenge and equip you for deeper discipleship.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why cultural masculinity often misses the mark</li><li>What it means to be a peacemaker and why it matters in your home</li><li>The difference between remorse and biblical repentance</li><li>Why being a godly man starts with personal integrity, not dominance</li><li>How to lead your children toward a Christ-centered view of manhood</li></ul><p><br>📖 <strong>Scriptures References:</strong></p><ol><li>Matthew 5:9</li><li>Romans 12:1</li><li>James 1:19</li><li>Acts 3:19</li><li>2 Corinthians 7:10</li><li>Proverbs 28:13</li><li>Luke 15 (The Prodigal Son)</li><li>Luke 19 (Zacchaeus)</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB<p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>Why did Jesus always send His disciples out two by two—and why does it still matter today? In this powerful solo episode, Kaleb teaches the biblical principle of living life with godly brothers by your side. Drawing from Luke 10 and examples throughout Acts, he shows how isolation makes men vulnerable, while companionship strengthens our courage, witness, and joy.</p><p>If you’re a husband, father, or follower of Jesus trying to carry the load alone, this episode is a call to lock arms with men who will walk with you in faith, accountability, laughter, and mission.</p><p> <strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Jesus never sent disciples out alone</li><li>4 biblical reasons men need strong brothers in their lives</li><li>How isolation leaves you spiritually vulnerable</li><li>The power of shared testimony and mutual encouragement</li><li>Why friendship isn’t a luxury—it’s a gospel value</li><li>How to build meaningful brotherhood in everyday life</li></ul><p><br>📖<strong> Scriptures References:</strong></p><ol><li>Luke 10:1 – Jesus sends disciples two by two</li><li>Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 – Two are better than one</li><li>1 Peter 5:8 – Watch out for the prowling enemy</li><li>1 Samuel 23:16–17 – Jonathan strengthens David</li><li>Proverbs 12:25 – A good word makes him glad</li><li>2 Corinthians 13:1 – Testimony established by two witnesses</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>What if friendship is one of the most powerful tools God gives us to battle confusion, discouragement, and spiritual despair? Kaleb teaches the story of the Road to Emmaus (Luke 24) to show how the presence of Jesus is often revealed when two believers walk together through grief and doubt.</p><p>Drawing from Scripture, Church history, and stories of Christian martyrs, this episode highlights how friendship is not a side benefit of the Christian life—it’s a core part of God's design for your healing and strength. If you’ve felt tired, isolated, or unsure where God is in your pain, this message will remind you: you were never meant to walk alone.</p><p><strong> What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Jesus met two disciples walking and talking—not isolated</li><li>The four spiritual benefits of gospel-centered friendship</li><li>How the Holy Spirit enters conversations marked by honesty and humility</li><li>The power of processing confusion with a godly friend</li><li>Why real friendship requires transparency, not performance</li><li>The image of “the third traveler” as the Holy Spirit in your walk</li></ul><p><br>📖 <strong>Scriptures References:</strong></p><ol><li>Luke 24 (Road to Emmaus)</li><li>Ephesians 6 (Armor of God)</li><li>John 15 (Greater love has no one...)</li><li>John 14 (Spirit will not leave you as orphans)</li><li>Proverbs 12:25, 1 Samuel 23, 2 Corinthians 13:1</li></ol><p><br> <strong>Episode Mentions :</strong></p><ol><li>The Dwell Bible App – Sponsor offering guided Lent reflections and devotionals- dwellbible.com/dadtired</li><li>Perpetua &amp; Felicity – Early Christian martyrs and friends.</li><li>Robert Murray McCheyne Bible Plan – Recommended yearly reading plan.</li><li>Dietrich Bonhoeffer, St. Bernard of Clairvaux, Augustine – Quotes and stories on friendship and theology.</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>Can a man truly grow in holiness without growing in friendship? Kaleb challenges the individualistic mindset many Christian men carry—and shows how friendship is not just helpful, but essential for spiritual maturity. Drawing from John 15, the life of Jesus, and examples like Augustine, he unpacks the truth that holiness and friendship are inseparably linked.</p><p>If you’ve felt isolated, self-reliant, or unsure how to build meaningful relationships as a Christian man, this episode reframes friendship not as a luxury, but as a command of Christ—and a taste of heaven itself.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Jesus commanded friendship on the night of His betrayal</li><li>How real friendship is a path to Christlikeness, not a distraction from it</li><li>The danger of isolated spiritual leadership</li><li>Why holiness without friendship is often just masked pride</li><li>The healing power of brotherhood in seasons of mental, emotional, and spiritual struggle</li><li>How friendship prepares us for heaven’s ultimate communion</li></ul><p><br>📖 <strong>Scripture References:</strong></p><ol><li>John 15:12–14 – “Greater love has no one than this…”</li><li>Psalm 41:9 – Betrayal by a close friend</li><li>Romans 5:8, John 14, the Farewell Discourse</li></ol><p><strong>Resources and Links :</strong></p><ol><li>Missionary Flights International – Aviation ministry serving in Haiti, the Bahamas, and the Dominican Republic- missionaryflights.org</li><li>Spiritual Friendship by St. Aelred of Rievaulx</li><li>Augustine’s Conversion (Confessions)</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><p><br></p></li></ol>

<p>In this episode Kaleb narrates how anxiety, looping thoughts, and self-condemnation can pull us away from the moments that matter most. While watching his son overcome fear at a waterpark, Kaleb found himself mentally stuck—replaying frustrations, doubts, and failures. Through John 14:27, he reflects on the kind of peace Jesus gives: not escape from life’s storms, but presence within them—a peace that interrupts fear and helps us stay grounded in what God is doing right in front of us.<br><strong><br>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>How to break mental loops of fear, regret, and condemnation</li><li>Why Jesus spoke peace to His disciples before His own suffering</li><li>The difference between worldly peace and the peace of Christ</li><li>How external perspective—God’s Word, a friend, or your spouse—can shatter inner turmoil</li><li>Why recognizing God’s presence can restore joy in your fatherhood and faith</li></ul><p><br>📖 <strong> Scripture  References:</strong></p><ol><li>John 14:27 – “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you…”</li><li>John 13–17 – The Farewell Discourse</li><li>Romans 8:28 – All things work together for good</li><li>Matthew 28:20 – “I am with you always” (implied)</li></ol><p><strong>Practical Advice:</strong></p><ol><li>Memorize John 14:27</li><li>Talk to your spouse or a trusted friend to break the loop</li><li>Allow God’s Word to “kick in your front door” when condemnation creeps in</li></ol><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>Many wrestle with the image of God in the Old Testament—how can the same God who loves and weeps in the New Testament also command war and destruction? In this episode, Chris Hilkin tackles one of the hardest questions in the Bible: is the God of the Old Testament morally good?<br>Chris walks through five biblical and historical reasons why the conquest narratives aren’t what modern readers often assume. You'll hear how ancient war language, the slow process of displacement, divine justice, and God's mercy all help make sense of these difficult passages—and why rejecting God on moral grounds requires a much deeper look at history and Scripture.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why “utter destruction” often used hyperbolic war language, not literal commands</li><li>How God’s judgment differs from human genocide or racism</li><li>The role of divine justice in protecting future generations from corruption</li><li>Why God has the moral authority to give and take life</li><li>How to answer questions about Old Testament violence </li></ul><p><br> <strong>Scriptures  References:</strong><br>Deuteronomy 7, 20; Joshua 6, 10; Judges 1–2<br>1 Samuel 15; Exodus 23; Job 1:21; Romans 13<br>Revelation 7.</p><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p><p><br></p>

<p>What has God entrusted to you—and are you stewarding it well?</p><p>In today’s episode we unpack a powerful biblical theme woven throughout the New Testament: stewardship. From Jesus’ parable of the faithful servant to the Apostle Paul's letters to Timothy, we’re reminded that God is watching how we handle the things He’s put in our hands—especially our homes, marriages, and children.</p><p>Plus, we share a wild church history story about the Apostle John chasing down a gang leader on horseback. No, seriously.</p><p>Whether you’re a dad, husband, or just a guy trying to walk faithfully with Jesus, this episode will challenge you to reject passivity and embrace your God-given role as a steward.</p><p>🔑 Key Topics:</p><ul><li>What biblical stewardship actually means</li><li>How Jesus contrasted faithful vs. wicked servants</li><li>Paul’s urgent message to Timothy about responsibility</li><li>A convicting story from early church history</li><li>Why passion fades, but daily faithfulness endures</li></ul><p>📖 Scriptures Mentioned:<br>Matthew 24:45–51, 1 Timothy 1:11, 1 Corinthians 4:1–2, 1 Thessalonians 2:4, Galatians 2:7</p><p>Check out dwell for 25% OFF at: dwellbible.com/dadtired<br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>Many Christians—and critics—wrestle with this difficult question: does the Bible support slavery?  Chris Hilkin discusses the  most misunderstood and controversial aspects of the Old Testament. He confronts the assumption that God condones slavery by unpacking what the Bible actually says about servitude, justice, and human dignity. Through historical context, Hebrew language insights, and careful biblical interpretation, Chris explains how God’s law placed boundaries on power, offered protections to the vulnerable, and called His people to reflect His justice and mercy—even in broken systems.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why the Hebrew Bible doesn’t have a category for race-based slavery</li><li>How biblical servitude functioned like voluntary indentured labor</li><li>What protections the Mosaic law gave to servants—including freedom, fair treatment, and legal rights</li><li>How the New Testament condemns slave trading as sinful </li></ul><p>📖 <strong>Scriptures References:</strong></p><ol><li>Exodus 21:16 </li><li>Deuteronomy 23:15–16 </li><li>Leviticus, Deuteronomy, Exodus – Laws protecting servants</li><li>1 Timothy 1:10 – All are one in Christ; serve others in love</li><li>Isaiah 61 </li></ol><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>Many christians  feel unequipped to handle the hard questions—especially when it comes to the Old Testament. Why does God seem so angry? Did He really command entire crowds  to be destroyed? In this episode, Chris Hilkin opens a new teaching series by offering simple, powerful tools for reading Scripture faithfully. He walks through how to understand difficult passages, avoid common interpretation mistakes, and confidently answering the kinds of questions people might ask about God’s character in the Bible.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why we must use clear Scripture to interpret confusing passages</li><li>How to distinguish between biblical description and prescription</li><li>Why not every story in the Bible teaches a moral or doctrine</li><li>How context, authorship, and genre shape proper understanding</li><li>Common interpretation errors that lead to misunderstanding God’s character</li><li>Why Jesus must be the hero of every biblical narrative</li></ul><p><br>📖 <strong>Scripture References</strong>:</p><ol><li>Psalm 82 vs. Isaiah 44 &amp; Deuteronomy 6 </li><li>Exodus, Deuteronomy, Leviticus – laws about slavery, justice, and culture</li><li>1 Samuel 15, Job 1:21, Romans 13 </li><li>John 3:16, Ephesians 2:8–9</li><li>Deuteronomy 6:4–6 – The Shema</li><li>Galatians 3, Philippians 2, Isaiah 61 </li></ol><p><br><strong>Resources &amp; Links :</strong></p><ul><li>Podcast sponsor-Range Leather </li><li>Use code DADTIRED at rangeleather.com/dadtired for 15% off custom hats</li><li>Email for Notes: chris@dadtired.com </li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Future Topics in the Series</strong><br>Ep 453- Chris Hilken- Morality of God in the Old Testament- Part 2| 453<br>Ep 455- Chris Hilken- Morality of God in the Old Testament- Part 3| 455<br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>How do you lead your family with faith and conviction in a culture that no longer shares your values? In this conversation, Patrick Miller discusses the message of his new book Joyful Outsiders. Joyful Outsiders —a guide for Christian men learning to follow Jesus in a world that feels disorienting, even hostile. He explains why being an outsider isn’t something to avoid, but a biblical identity to embrace. <br> Raising kids, discipling others, or navigating your own tension with culture, this episode offers practical wisdom for how to live faithfully, lead intentionally, and stay rooted in joy—even when the world pushes back.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why Christians have always been cultural outsiders</li><li>The difference between conforming, combating, cloistering—and joyfully engaging</li><li>Six biblical archetypes for cultural engagement (e.g. Advisor, Protestor, Artist)</li><li>How to parent kids through complex questions about faith, identity, and culture</li><li>Why spiritual influence requires wisdom, not one-size-fits-all responses</li><li>How calling, personality, and gifts shape your impact in the world</li></ul><p>📖  <strong>Scripture References  </strong><br>Hebrews 13 <br>1 Peter 1<br>Ephesians 2, Philippians 2, Galatians 3 <br>Daniel 2</p><p><strong>Episode Resources<br></strong><br>Book: J<strong>oyful Outsiders</strong>: <strong>Six Ways to Live Like Jesus in a Disorienting Culture</strong> by Patrick Miller and Keith Simon<br>Available from major booksellers or at joyfuloutsiders.com<br>Free Assessment: Take the “Outsider Archetype” quiz to discover your primary role in cultural engagement- joyfuloutsiders.com <br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p><p><br></p>

<p>A new year often brings the desire to reset—not just with goals and routines, but in how we lead, parent, and connect with God. In this episode, Kaleb Allen reflects on the emotional and spiritual weight many men carry coming out of the holidays: feeling off-rhythm, spiritually dry, or unsure how to re-engage. In reference to James 5:17 and Elijah’s prayer life, he calls Christian husbands, fathers, and leaders back to the foundation—fervent, honest, consistent prayer. He urges you to show up before God with your whole heart and trust Him to work through your  weakness.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why James 5:17 matters for men struggling to pray</li><li>How early church history describes James as a man of  consistent prayer</li><li>What it means to pray like Elijah—with faith, urgency, and expectation</li><li>Why prayer is hard—and how to reengage your heart when you feel numb</li><li>The role of fervency, persistence, and spiritual travail in breakthrough</li><li>Why your emotions can’t be trusted to lead your prayer life</li><li>How real prayer engages your whole being, not just your words</li></ul><p><br>📖 <strong>Scriptures References:</strong><br>James 5:17–18 <br>1 Kings 18<br>Daniel 7<br>Matthew 28, John 13, Luke 24<br>Romans 8 <br>1 Thessalonians 5 <br>Luke 18</p><p>Sponsor: Dwell Bible App<br> Listen to the Bible on your schedule with flexible plans here: dwellbible.com/dadtired<br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>What do you do when life falls apart—and you're still expected to lead, provide, and hold it all together? In this episode, Pastor John Onwuchekwa shares his story of unexpected loss, spiritual exhaustion, and the slow, grace-filled process of healing. Through raw moments of grief, relational strain, and a sabbatical that reshaped him, John shows why grief isn’t something to get over—but something we have to learn to carry.</p><p>Together, John and Kaleb explore how Scripture, friendship, and deep honesty help Christian men navigate sorrow without losing hope. If you’re in a season of loss—or walking with someone who is—this conversation offers comfort, language, and direction.</p><p> <strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why grief isn't linear—and why it doesn't mean you're doing it wrong</li><li>The difference between honesty and hopelessness</li><li>How grief affects marriage, friendships, and spiritual rhythms</li><li>Why isolation is more dangerous than tragedy</li><li>How Ecclesiastes and the resurrection became anchors for John’s healing</li><li>What to do (and not do) when walking with someone who's grieving</li></ul><p><strong>Scriptures References:</strong><br>Ecclesiastes – Finding hope in hard truths<br>1 Thessalonians 4; 1 Corinthians 15 <br>Acts 1 <br>Isaiah 53 <br>John 11 <br> <br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong><br>1. <strong>Book</strong>: We Go On by John Onwuchekwa – Available at major booksellers and wegoontour.com<br>2. <strong>National Tour</strong>: We Go On Tour — A live evening of music, film, comedy, and teaching on grief and hope-wegoontour.com<br>3. <strong>Sponsor</strong>: Dwell Bible App -dwellbible.com/dadtired<br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p><p><br></p>

<p> In this episode, Peter Ostapko shares how God called him out of banking and into a creative, countercultural ministry: Kinsman Journal. Built around the themes of faith, fatherhood, and work, the journal combines original photography, timeless essays, and deep storytelling to speak to the heart of Christian men.</p><p>Peter also explains how Kinsman has grown beyond print into live gatherings like Kinsman Table, where excellence, hospitality, and intentionality create space for men to connect and grow- through presence. <br>Listen in to hear more about  deeper brotherhood, renewed purpose, or a new way to engage with the men in your life.</p><p> <strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>How a vision for “faith, fatherhood, and work” sparked a national movement</li><li>Why the Kinsman Journal focuses on everyday men’s stories, not celebrity voices</li><li>How beauty and excellence open doors for discipleship</li><li>Why men need more than sermons—they need community and challenge</li><li>The difference between programming and presence in men’s ministry</li><li>How local gatherings and generosity can reshape modern masculinity</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong><br> 1. <strong>Kinsman Journal </strong>– A premium print journal with original stories, photos, and essays on faith, fatherhood, and work<br> Order or bulk-gift at: <strong>https://www.kinsman.org</strong><br> 2. <strong>Kinsman Table</strong> – Invite-only gatherings for men (3x/year), built around hospitality, reflection, and curated conversation<br>3.<strong>Kinsman Nights &amp; Kinsman Forum</strong> – Public and discipleship-focused events happening monthly and in select cities<br>4.<strong>Kinsman Podcast</strong> – Audio version of the journal available for free on podcast platforms<br>5.Bonhoeffer’s Life Together .<br>6.Book: The Revenge of Analog .<br>7.Book: The Alternative to Futility by Elton Trueblood.</p><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>Most Christian men want to be more consistent—more prayerful, more disciplined, more engaged. But what if the struggle isn’t really about discipline at all? In this episode, Kaleb Allen looks at the life of Daniel to show that lasting spiritual habits flow from conviction, not willpower. It’s not about trying harder—it’s about believing deeper. If you’re tired of starting strong and fading out, this message will help you reframe discipline as a response to what you believe about God, not just a task to check off.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why discipline without conviction eventually fails</li><li>How Daniel’s life shows the power of consistent devotion over decades</li><li>The difference between spiritual guilt and genuine desire</li><li>Why you may not have a “prayer problem”—you may have a belief problem</li><li>How to write spiritual resolutions that actually shape your life</li><li>Why the lion’s den was safer for Daniel than 30 days without prayer</li></ul><p>📖 <strong>Scriptures References:</strong></p><ol><li>Daniel 6 </li><li>1 Kings 18</li><li>Romans 8, Revelation, John 13–17 </li></ol><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Jonathan Edwards’ Resolutions – 70 life commitments Edwards wrote at age 18</li><li>Challenge to  List  Your Own 10 Spiritual Resolutions </li><li>Robert Murray McCheyne Bible Plan</li><li>Sponsor- Range Leather - rangeleather.com/dadtired | Use code DADTIRED for 15% off</li></ol><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>What happens when one man devotes his whole life to prayer? In this  episode, Kaleb Allen shares the  story of John Hyde—known as “Praying Hyde”—a missionary to India whose hidden life with God shook nations. Hyde’s devotion wasn’t loud or public, but it was deep, consistent, and marked by sacrificial love.</p><p>Kaleb weaves Hyde’s story with Scripture, church history, and a connection to Joseph of Arimathea’s tenderness at the cross, inviting Christian men to step into a quiet, faithful life shaped by love, not performance. <br>If your spiritual life feels tired or distracted, this episode calls you back to where true power begins: in the presence of God.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why devotion is about consistency, not perfection</li><li>How prayer shapes legacy—even across generations</li><li>Why real intercession is born from brokenness, not pressure</li><li>The story of John Hyde’s increasing burden for souls</li><li>How sacrifice, fasting, and prayer brought revival in India</li><li>What Joseph of Arimathea’s act of love teaches us about the cross</li></ul><p>📖 <strong>Scriptures References:</strong></p><ol><li>Matthew 9:37–38 </li><li>Psalm 51:17</li><li>John 11, Isaiah 53</li><li>Mark 15 </li></ol><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong><br><strong>Sponsor: Back Gate Prayers</strong><br>→ Personalized prayer card sets for families- backgateprayers.com | Use code DADTIRED for 10% off<br>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>What does it really look like to seek God in the secret place as a way of life? Bob Sorge shares how decades of vocal injury and physical suffering drew him deeper into intimacy with Jesus. Rather than walking away from his calling, Bob chose to lean in—learning to meet God in silence.<br> Bob and Kaleb explore how the secret place forms men into spiritual leaders, how a father’s hunger for God can shape the atmosphere of a home, and why devotion rooted in desire—not duty—is what sustains us through every season. <br>If you’re a husband, father, or ministry leader longing for something more than surface-level faith, this episode offers a  personal call back to the presence of God.</p><p><strong> What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>The difference between duty-driven prayer and desire-fueled devotion</li><li>How suffering can press us into God's presence—not away from it</li><li>What it looks like to seek God in seasons of confusion, silence, or pain</li><li>Why secret place discipline flows best from personal hunger</li><li>How to teach your kids to build their own relationship with Jesus</li><li>Why scheduled time with God is worth fighting for<p></p></li></ul><p>📖 <strong>Scriptures References:</strong><br>Matthew 6:6 <br>Song of Solomon 1:2 <br>1 Peter 2:21<br>Galatians 6:8, Revelation 3, Hebrews 12, Psalm 51:17, Isaiah 53, Matthew 5:14–15</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li> Book: Secrets of the Secret Place by Bob Sorge</li><li>Book: The Cross by Bob Sorge</li><li> Book: Reset – A Personal Revival Guide (and companion site)→ Learn more: prayerreset.com </li><li>Sponsor: Range Leather - rangeleather.com/dadtired | Use code DADTIRED for 15% off</li></ol><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad Lopes shares that he is stepping away from ministry. He talks honestly about hidden sin, personal pain, and the need to heal. He talks  about choosing to face what has been ignored.<br>Jerrad explains what led to this point and why rest, confession, and care are necessary. He speaks as a husband, father, and follower of Christ who wants to be whole. If you are carrying quiet struggles of your own, this is an invitation to stop hiding and start healing.<br><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why hidden sin exhausts your soul</li><li>The danger of building influence without healing</li><li>How confession, counseling, and community are shaping Jerrad’s path forward</li><li>What it looks like to step away from ministry for the sake of your family</li><li>Why God cares more about your soul than your platform</li><li>How Dad Tired will continue during Jerrad’s absence</li></ul><p><br><strong>📖 Scriptures References:</strong><br>Psalm 23 – “Your rod and your staff, they comfort me”</p><p>Psalm 139 – God searches the heart and brings hidden things to light</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Dad Tired Online Community -connect.dadtired.com</li><li>Family Leadership Program – dadtired.com/family-leadership-program</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Kaleb Allen talks about the danger of mixed motives in the Christian life. He looks back at his own early years in ministry and how pride, competition, and selfish ambition tried to shape his devotion. Kaleb reminds us that spiritual disciplines should lead to deeper friendship with God, not performance or status.</p><p><strong>You’ll learn:</strong><br>• Why some people pursue revival for the wrong reasons<br>• How pride can hide inside prayer, fasting, and study<br>• What Paul says about preachers with selfish motives<br>• How to avoid a “works-based” mindset in your devotional life<br>• Why thankfulness for the cross must fuel everything you do</p><p>This is a call to honest, simple devotion. One that’s shaped by love for Jesus—not the desire to be seen.</p><p> <strong> Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li> Philippians 1:15–17 and 2:19–21 (on motivation)</li><li> James 4:3 (prayer and selfish motives)</li><li>Sponsor: Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: DADTIRED</li><li><em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br> </li></ol>

<p>Kaleb Allen opens up about his battle with fatigue, motivation, and what happens when productivity starts to replace devotion. In this episode, he invites men to re-center their hearts and ask honest questions about what they’re really living for.</p><p>You’ll learn:<br>• Why even good things can distract us from God<br>• What it means to “will one thing” and live with single focus<br>• How the early church modeled consistent, daily devotion<br>• Why intentionality, attention, and perseverance all matter<br>• What to do when your faith feels divided<br>This is a challenge to slow down and examine your motives. Are you driven by love for Jesus, or by what people think of you? It’s a call to live for one thing—and one thing only.<br>- Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB<br>- Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with Laura Wifler, co-founder of Risen Motherhood, about what it really means to parent through the lens of the gospel. They discuss marriages, emotional labor, disability, and what it looks like to lead your home with grace and intentionality.</p><p>You’ll learn:<br> • Why unseen tasks in the home matter so much to your wife<br> • How gospel-centered parenting changes your tone and goals<br> • What Laura wishes every husband understands<br> • How to grow in emotional leadership as a dad<br> • What it means when God calls you to a ministry you didn’t choose</p><p>This is a conversation for husbands who want to better understand their wives, love their kids well, and let the gospel shape every part of family life.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Samaritan’s Purse (Operation Christmas Child): samaritanspurse.org/occ</li><li> Risen Motherhood: <a href="https://www.risenmotherhood.com">risenmotherhood.com</a></li><li> Laura Wifler’s books &amp; poetry: <a href="https://www.laurawifler.com">laurawifler.com</a></li><li> <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad and Chris Hilken answer listener-submitted questions on birth control, vasectomies, salvation before Jesus, masturbation, and how to talk to your kids about sex. They offer  biblical support for dads who want to lead with wisdom today.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li> A biblical framework for birth control and family planning</li><li> Why delaying kids can sometimes lead to spiritual drift</li><li> How Old Testament believers were saved before Christ</li><li> What makes masturbation sinful</li><li> How to talk to your kids about sex with truth and grace</li><li> Whether God still talks to Satan like in the story of Job</li></ul><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Ask Chris a question: dadtired.com/question</li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Samaritan’s Purse – Operation Christmas Child: samaritanspurse.org/occ</li><li> The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Kaleb Allen and Seth Baumgartner  talk about what it means to follow Jesus through  difficult seasons. They reflect on the life and journal of missionary David Brainerd—a man who deeply struggled with sickness, depression, and loneliness, yet remained faithful to the end.</p><p><strong> What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why Brainerd is considered a model of gospel perseverance<br> • What it means to be honest with God in seasons of doubt and dryness<br> • Why hardship doesn’t disqualify you from ministry<br> • How friendship and shared spiritual rhythms shape your faith<br> • What it looks like to run your race well, even if you feel empty<br>Feeling weary, isolated, or unsure how to keep going. You’re not alone—and God isn’t finished with you.</p><p><br><strong>Episode  Resources:</strong> </p><ol><li> Hebrews 12:1 </li><li> James 1:2–4 </li><li>The Life and Diary of David Brainerd</li><li>  Ask a question or reach out: dadtired.com/question</li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>  Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad talks with David Pollack, former NFL linebacker, ESPN analyst, and host of the Family Goals podcast. They discuss what it means to raise kids in a culture focused on performance. David shares how his career-ending injury shaped his faith, how he leads at home, and why his kids don’t have to earn his approval.</p><p><strong>You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What David learned about identity after football<br> • Why performance-based parenting wears kids down<br> • How to help your kids live their age and still build grit<br> • Why sports should never come before church<br> • What grace-based leadership looks like in the home</p><p>This conversation is practical and honest for dads who wants to raise strong kids without tying their worth to success.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong><br>1. David Pollack -podcast: Family Goals Podcast<br>2. David Pollack-  book: The Sweet Spot (Amazon)<br>3. Sponsor- Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: DADTIRED<br>4. Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate<br>5. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB<br>6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad and Chris continue their Q&amp;A series by answering more real questions from listeners. In this episode, they talk  about addiction, divorce, friendships, and how to interpret parts of the Bible. <br>They discuss how to take sin seriously without falling into shame, and how to lead your family with clarity and conviction.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Can you lose your salvation if you're addicted to porn?<br> • What real repentance looks like for struggling believers<br> • Are Bible stories like Job literal or symbolic?<br> • Should married men and women have opposite-sex friendships?<br> • Can someone who’s been divorced get remarried without sinning?<br> • Why some Gospel stories seem to conflict—and how to read them rightly</p><p>This is a solid, truth-filled episode for men who want to lead well and stay grounded in God’s Word.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Ask a question: dadtired.com/question</li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>Kaleb Allen continues the wilderness series by reflecting on how God meets us in our most restless and uncertain seasons. He looks at Moses’ burning bush moment and the prison writings of Dietrich Bonhoeffer to show how clarity often begins with surrender.</p><p><br><strong> What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What Bonhoeffer’s poem “Who Am I?” teaches about identity<br> • Why God tells Moses who He is before saying who Moses is<br> • What it means to “turn aside” and notice God in the mundane<br> • How reverence and stillness open space for real connection<br> • Why theology is essential when your soul feels dry</p><p><br>Feeling stuck, tired, or spiritually numb—remember that you belong to God before you do anything for Him.</p><p><br><strong>Episode  Resources:</strong></p><ol><li> Book: <em>Letters and Papers from Prison</em> – Dietrich Bonhoeffer</li><li>  Poem: “Who Am I?” by Bonhoeffer</li><li>  Book: <em>Practicing the Presence of God</em> – Brother Lawrence</li><li>  Book: <em>Bonhoeffer</em> – Eric Metaxas</li><li>  Exodus 3, Isaiah 53, Romans 8, Revelation 4</li><li>  Bible Reading Plan: The McShane Plan</li><li>  Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li>  Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>  Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad continues the conversation about emotional health, spiritual lies, and what it means to lead your family when life feels heavy. He shares how a difficult week brought up insecurity, discouragement, and a sense of weariness.<br> Jarred, encourages you  to slow down, examine your heart, and be honest about the lies you’ve been believing.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br>• How to recognize when something is off in your soul<br>• Why many men turn up the noise instead of dealing with the pain<br>• What it means to “find the dead rat” in your life<br>• How trusted friends help bring truth into dark spaces<br>• Why your worth is not measured by performance</p><p><strong>Episode Resource</strong>s:</p><ol><li>Operation Christmas Child: samaritanspurse.org/occ</li><li>Kaleb’s Corner – Wednesdays on the Dad Tired podcast</li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</li><li>Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li></ol>

<p>Jerrad and Chris continue the Q&amp;A series by answering real questions from listeners about sexuality, salvation, communion, and what happens after we die. Chris Hilkin gives pastoral and biblical answers to  these  issues with truth, and compassion.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • How to forgive yourself when you still feel ashamed<br> • What the Bible says about being gay and going to heaven<br> • Why identity matters more than orientation<br> • Whether loved ones in heaven can hear or see us<br> • If communion is the literal body of Christ<br> • How to approach people in your life with both truth and grace</p><p>Tune in to hear what the Bible actually says and how to live it out with conviction and love.</p><p><strong>Episode  Resources:</strong></p><p>1. Ask a question: dadtired.com/question<br>2.Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate<br>3. Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong><br> 4. Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br> 5. Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></p>

<p> Kaleb Allen continues the wilderness series by looking at the moment Elijah hit his limit. After calling down fire from heaven, Elijah finds himself in the desert, exhausted and ready to quit. Kaleb shares what it looks like when men hit that same place and how God responds with rest, care, and quiet direction. </p><p> <br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why Elijah collapsed under a broom tree after his biggest victory<br> • What it means to laugh at yourself in low moments<br> • How God responds to weakness with kindness, not shame<br> • Why your physical health affects your spiritual strength<br> • How to hear God’s voice in the quiet<br> • What to do when you feel like quitting everything</p><p>Feeling tired, frustrated, or in a spiritual dry spell?  God still has work for you, and He meets you with grace before He gives you your next step.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><p>• 1 Kings 19, James 5, Mark 14 – Elijah and Gethsemane<br> • Book: <em>Letters and Papers from Prison</em> – Dietrich Bonhoeffer<br> • Poem: “Who Am I?” – Bonhoeffer<br> • The McShane Bible Reading Plan<br> • Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br> • Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate<br> • Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with speaker and coach Pedro LaTorre. Pedro shares how childhood trauma, performance addiction, and constant busyness kept him from being present as a husband and father. He  shares  about the healing journey that changed everything—his marriage, his parenting, and his view of God. Through it all, he learned how to feel again and finally stepped into the kind of man God had been calling him to be.<br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • How emotional wounds from childhood shaped Pedro’s identity<br> • Why performance can look spiritual but still be toxic<br> • How healing helped him stop striving and start connecting<br> • What changed in his marriage when he finally got honest<br> • Why most men avoid their heart—and how to stop running<br> • What it means to live free as a son of God, not a performer</p><p> Healing is possible—and it leads to freedom in every part of your life.</p><p> <br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><p>1.The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd<br>2.Ten Man Ministries: <a href="https://www.tenmanministries.org">tenmanministries.org</a><br> 3.The Eight Feelings Chart – via Ten Man Ministries<br> 4.Book: <em>Letters and Papers from Prison</em> – Dietrich Bonhoeffer<br> 5.Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate<br> 6.Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br> 7. Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br>8.Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></p>

<p>Jerrad and Chris Hilkin, continue the Q&amp;A series by answering real questions from listeners about marriage, sexuality, church life, and the Holy Spirit. Chris gives honest, biblical responses to topics that many Christian men wrestle with but rarely talk about.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What is off limits in the bedroom for married couples<br> • Why church membership matters for spiritual growth<br> • How to understand the baptism of the Holy Spirit<br> • What the Bible says about cremation and burial<br> • Why accountability and clarity are essential in a local church<br> • How to stay rooted in truth while navigating complex topics</p><p>Tune in to hear  the answers you need to stay faithful in the real world.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources</strong></p><ol><li> Bible passages: 1 Corinthians 6,  Ephesians 4, Romans 12, Acts 2, Hebrews 4 </li><li>Ask a question anonymously: dadtired.com/question</li><li> Support the Dad Tired ministry: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Range Leather – 15% off: rangeleather.com/dadtired – Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li> Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol><p> </p>

<p>In this episode, Kaleb shares how the wilderness seasons of life—times of emotional fog, spiritual dryness, and personal struggle—can shape Christian men into stronger spiritual leaders. Drawing from his personal experience as a husband, foster dad, and pastor, Kaleb walks through Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness and how men today can resist the same lies about relevance, performance, and power.</p><p><strong>Key Topics Covered:</strong></p><ul><li>Navigating trials with faith, not passivity</li><li>Jesus’ three temptations: relevance, being spectacular, and power</li><li>How identity in Christ helps men resist performance-based living</li><li>The value of prayer, scripture, and devotion in hard seasons</li><li>Praying Ephesians 6 and resisting the enemy daily</li><li>Personal reflections on foster care, depression, and spiritual warfare</li></ul><p><strong>Bible References:</strong></p><ul><li>Matthew 4:1–11</li><li>James 4:7</li><li>Ephesians 6:10–18</li><li>Psalm 91</li><li>John 6:35</li></ul><p><strong>Mentioned Resources &amp; Concepts:</strong></p><ul><li>Henry Nouwen’s framework for Jesus’ temptations</li><li>Augustine and Luther on resisting the devil</li><li>Martin Lloyd-Jones on spiritual warfare</li><li>Daily prayer practice: Ephesians 6 and resisting the temptations of relevance, spectacle, and power</li></ul>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with singer, songwriter, and podcast host Matthew West for a conversation about the pain, pressure, and beauty of being a dad. <br>They talk about sending kids off to college, handling public criticism, and the challenge of staying emotionally present at home when everything pulls you elsewhere. Matthew shares what he’s learned about vulnerability, regret, and learning to slow down. He opens up about how his identity as a father has been shaped by grace.</p><p><strong>What</strong> <strong>You’ll hear</strong>:<br>• Why letting go of your kids is harder than anyone tells you<br>• What Matthew wishes he had done differently as a young dad<br>• How to stay soft-hearted in a world that wants you to harden up<br>• Why words of encouragement matter more than you think<br>• What it looks like to lead your family with humility and joy<br>Tune in to learn how to show up, speak life, and lead with their heart as a dad.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources</strong></p><ol><li> Matthew West’s podcast: <em>The Matthew West Podcast</em> </li><li>Song reference: “18 Summers” by Matthew West</li><li>The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman</li><li> New podcast: <em>Footballin’ with Ben Roethlisberger</em></li><li>AccessMore Network daily devotional (upcoming)</li><li> Operation Christmas Child: samaritanspurse.org/occ</li><li>Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol><p><br></p>

<p>Jerrad and Chris continue the Q&amp;A series with another round of  listener-submitted questions. They talk about creation, sexuality, science, theology, and what it looks like to think biblically about topics many men avoid or feel confused about.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Where Cain and Abel got their wives<br> • Why people lived longer in the Old Testament<br> • Whether dinosaurs lived at the same time as humans<br> • How old the earth might be according to the Bible<br> • If masturbation is ever okay in marriage<br> • The key difference between Jehovah’s Witnesses and Christians<br> • Why God created Satan and allows evil<br> • What to make of the Shroud of Turin</p><p><br></p><p> Episode Resources:</p><p>• Ask a question: dadtired.com/question<br> • Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate<br> • Range Leather – 15% off: rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong><br> • Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br> • Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br> • Book mentioned: <em>Letters and Papers from Prison</em> – Dietrich Bonhoeffer<br> • Gap theory resource: John Lennox on Genesis<br> • Shroud of Turin research: <a href="https://www.magiscenter.com">magiscenter.com</a></p>

<p>Kaleb Allen continues the wilderness series with a deep look at confusion and spiritual frustration. He explains why these moments are not a sign that something is broken, but often a sign that God is doing deeper work. Kaleb draws from the lives of Elijah, John the Baptist, Moses, and the writings of John of the Cross and C.S. Lewis to help men make sense of what they are going through.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What to do when life feels foggy, unclear, and hard to explain<br> • Why God sometimes withholds comfort to give us clarity<br> • How to recognize false expectations you have placed on God<br> • Why spiritual dryness is not always about sin<br> • What it means to trust God’s heart when you cannot trace His hand<br> • How rest, surrender, and time lead to renewed perspective</p><p>If you are feeling spiritually stuck, emotionally flat, or unsure what God is doing. The wilderness has purpose. You are not alone in it.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li><em>The Problem of Pain</em> and <em>A Grief Observed</em> – C.S. Lewis</li><li> <em>Dark Night of the Soul</em> – St. John of the Cross</li><li> Exodus 3, 1 Kings 19, Psalm 136, Romans 8</li><li> The McShane Bible Reading Plan</li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p> In this episode, Jerrad challenges dads to stop parenting with a one-size-fits-all mindset and start leading their families like true shepherds. After noticing something during a conversation with his kids, he shares what it means to know each member of your household individually and lead them with intentional care. </p><p>You’ll hear:<br> • Why blanket commands and zone defense don’t work in fatherhood<br> • What Jesus modeled through one-on-one moments with Zacchaeus, Peter, and the woman at the well<br> • How to recognize your role as a spiritual leader in your home<br> • Why every member of your family needs a unique plan and goal<br> • Practical questions to assess where your wife and kids are spiritually<br> • A step-by-step approach to shepherding each heart in your home</p><p> Tune in to learn how to stop guessing and start leading. The sheep God gave you need more than discipline and direction. They need to be known. </p><p><strong> Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Jesus Storybook Bible: <a href="https://www.jesusstorybookbible.com">jesusstorybookbible.com</a></li><li> The Good Book Company (Tales That Tell the Truth series): <a href="https://www.thegoodbook.com">thegoodbook.com</a></li><li> Rite of Passage Kit by John Tyson: <a href="https://www.primalpath.co">primalpath.co</a></li><li> Dad Tired Dinnertime Devotional Cards: dadtired.com/shop</li><li> Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this first episode of the Q&amp;A series, Jerrad and Chris respond to real questions submitted by men at the Dad Tired retreat. They talk through theology, lifestyle, and personal struggles with clarity, honesty, and a focus on biblical truth.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What hell actually is and whether God is present there<br> • Do you have to be baptized to be saved?<br> • Is gambling or sports betting always sinful?<br> • Does the Tower of Babel say anything about space exploration?<br> • Can Christians smoke cigars or drink alcohol?<br> • Should believers use profanity, and how does Scripture speak to it?</p><p>Tune in to get honest answers to real questions so you can lead your family with conviction, not confusion.</p><ol><li>Ask your own question: dadtired.com/question</li><li>Referenced: Philippians 2, Acts 2, 1 Corinthians 6, James, Ephesians, Genesis 11 (Tower of Babel) </li><li>Range Leather – 15% off: rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li></ol><p><br></p>

<p>Kaleb Allen launches the wilderness series speaking directly to you who feels dry, spiritually empty, or confused. He teaches the difference between seasons we choose and those God leads us into. These teaching is drawn from John of the Cross, the life of Jesus, and Kaleb's own experience. This message is for you who is doing everything right on the outside but still feel like something is missing.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why doing all the right things doesn’t always make you feel right<br> • What an “active” vs. “passive” wilderness season looks like<br> • Why God may be withdrawing comfort to produce something deeper<br> • How the Spirit uses detachment to refine your desires<br> • Why you can’t discipline your way out of spiritual dryness<br> • What it means to persevere when everything feels dull or distant</p><p>Tune in to learn how to walk with God through the dry places. The wilderness won’t last forever—but it will shape you if you let it.</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><p>• <em>Dark Night of the Soul</em> – John of the Cross<br> • John 4, Luke 4, 1 Kings 19, Philippians 2<br> • The McShane Bible Reading Plan<br> • Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br> • Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate<br> • Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></p>

<p> In this episode, Jerrad  shares what it really means to lead your marriage. He talks about the call to love your wife like Christ loves the church. He shares moments from his own marriage and explains how that love is more than romance or duty. It’s sacrifice, forgiveness, and intentional spiritual leadership.</p><p><strong> What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What it actually means to love sacrificially, not just kindly<br> • How intimacy grows when forgiveness becomes a lifestyle<br> • Why your marriage is meant to reflect God's love to the world<br> • How to pursue your wife emotionally, spiritually, and practically<br> • What servant-hearted leadership looks like day to day<br> • How confession and sanctification shape both husband and wife</p><p>Tune in to discover how a gospel-centered marriage isn’t about perfection. It’s about faithfulness, sacrifice, and showing your family what the love of Jesus really looks like.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><p>• Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br> • Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate<br> • Join the Dad Tired Community: dadtired.com/community<br> • Ask a question or share your story: dadtired.com/question<br> • Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br> • Range Leather – 15% off: rangeleather.com/dadtired – Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad speaks directly to busy dads who feel stretched thin. He shares how the chaos of life, especially in a new season, can cause us to drift from what matters most. Jerrad walks through how to refocus on your mission, identify distractions, and start making space for what God has actually called you to do.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br>• How to reset your priorities when life feels blurry<br>• Why physical clutter often reflects inner clutter<br>• How Jesus modeled saying no to good things for the sake of the mission<br>• Why most distractions aren’t sinful but still harmful<br>• A simple way to evaluate your time and get clarity<br>• How to craft a short, clear mission statement for this season</p><p>Tune in to get focused, clear, and back on track with the mission God has given you as a husband, father, and disciple.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Thrive Family Life (Pop + Play game and more): thrivefamilylife.com — Use promo code DADTIRED for 10% off</li><li>Dad Tired Conferences: dadtired.com</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</li><li>Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with Newt Crenshaw, President and CEO of Young Life. They discuss what Gen Z and Gen Alpha are really searching for, based on a global study conducted by Young Life. Newt shares what the research revealed about identity, relationships, and the deep need for connection in a world shaped by screens, pressure, and isolation.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br>• Why 40% of young people don’t feel worthy of love<br>• What kids actually want from adults in their lives<br>• How social media affects boys and girls differently<br>• Why moms are still the top go-to, and why dads matter too<br>• What makes faith a key part of emotional and relational health<br>• How you can be a stable presence in a young person’s life</p><p>Tune in to learn how you can show up for the next generation—starting with the kids in your own home.</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Learn more about Young Life: younglife.org</li><li>Read the Relat(able) Study: younglife.org/relatable</li><li> Volunteer with Young Life: younglife.org/get-involved</li><li> Dad Tired Annual Retreat at Young Life’s Carolina Point</li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: DADTIRED</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad invites you to pray. He knows how easy it is to carry pressure, to lead from exhaustion, and to forget who you are. You start performing. You stop listening. You lead on autopilot.</p><p>Through the words of Jesus in the Lord’s Prayer, Jerrad walks with you through a simple moment of surrender. A chance to reset your heart and remember that you are first a son, not a leader. You were never meant to carry this on your own.</p><p>You’ll hear:<br>• Why your prayer life shows who you trust<br>• How to release control and rest in God’s care<br>• What it means to ask for provision one day at a time<br>• How to pray honestly when you're tired or unsure<br>• Why the strength to lead begins with stillness</p><p>Tune in to remember who you belong to.<br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Learn more about Dad Tired events: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">dadtired.com</a></li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li> Reformation Heritage Books – <em>Puritan Treasures for Today</em>: heritagebooks.org/puritantreasures – Use code <strong>DADTIRED</strong> for 10% off</li><li> Conference Dates Mentioned:</li></ol><ul><li>Sept 20–22: Dad Tired Annual Retreat</li><li>Sept 28: Knoxville, TN</li><li>Oct 12: Joint Base Lewis, WA (for DoD ID holders)</li><li>Nov 9: Meridian, ID</li><li>Feb 27–Mar 1: Men's Retreat in Peru, IL</li></ul>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with Grammy-winning artist Zach Williams. They walk through Zach’s journey of addiction, identity, and coming to faith later in life. Zach shares how God pursued him, how that changed his family, and what parenting looks like now that grace is part of the picture.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • How Zach went from a rock band and addiction to faith and family<br> • What changed when he gave his life to Christ in 2012<br> • How shame, fear, and regret showed up even after salvation<br> • Why grace became a key part of his parenting<br> • What he’s learning about raising teens in a distracted world<br> • The story behind his new children’s book and why it matters</p><p>This is an honest conversation about sin, surrender, and how God keeps writing your story no matter where you start.</p><p><strong>Episode  Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Zach Williams' children's book: <em>A Little More Like Jesus, A Little Less Like Me</em></li><li> Song: “Less Like Me” – Zach Williams</li><li> Follow Zach's tour: zachwilliamsmusic.com/tour</li><li> Footballin’ with Ben Roethlisberger (Podcast on YouTube)</li><li> Daily Devotional for Men (Coming soon with K-LOVE)</li><li> Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li> Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Chris Hilken shares how to walk with your child through grief. After losing his wife and becoming a single dad of five, Chris learned how to comfort his children while grieving himself. He speaks from experience and gives a simple plan to help you guide your kids in moments of pain, loss, and confusion.</p><p><strong> What You’ll hear:</strong><br>• How to be present when your child is hurting<br>• What to say when there are no easy answers<br>• How grief affects a child over time<br>• A simple way to walk through both emotion and truth<br>• Why you do not need to fix it, but you should not ignore it<br>• How to disciple your child in the middle of deep pain</p><p> Tune in to walk with your child through sorrow with care without feeling lost in the process.</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li> Reformation Heritage Books – Puritan Treasures for Today: heritagebooks.org/puritantreasures — Code: DADTIRED</li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</li><li> Dad Tired Annual Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li><li>Conferences and events: dadtired.com/conferences</li><li>Email Chris directly: chris@dadtired.com</li><li> Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

In this episode, Jerrad Lopes reflects on the importance of staying close to God even in the good times. He shares personal experiences and biblical examples to highlight the dangers of becoming complacent and comfortable. Jerrad encourages men to be wary

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Pastor Douglas Wilson to talk about biblical discipline. They focus on what it takes to build a joyful home. Pastor Wilson explains how to lead your children with love and authority. He shares why short accounts matter. He also teaches how joy is restored when sin is dealt with quickly.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why discipline begins with the parent’s own heart<br> • How to keep short accounts in marriage and parenting<br> • What it means to restore a child to joy after discipline<br> • Why household culture matters more than parenting technique<br> • How to train sons with clarity and strength<br> • What it looks like to shape your home around joy and repentance</p><p>Tune in to learn how loving discipline is one of the clearest ways to reflect God’s heart to your children.</p><p><strong>Episode  Resources:</strong></p><p>1.Books by Douglas Wilson: <em>Standing on the Promises</em>, <em>Future Men</em>, <em>Why Children Matter</em>, <em>Recovering the Lost Tools of Learning</em>, <em>The Case for Classical Christian Education</em><br> 2.Canon Press: <a href="https://www.canonpress.com">canonpress.com</a><br> 3. Canon+ App for sermons, books, and lectures: <a href="https://mycanonplus.com">mycanonplus.com</a><br>4. Reformation Heritage Books – <em>Puritan Treasures for Today</em>: heritagebooks.org/puritantreasures — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong><br> 5. Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a><br> 6. Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a><br> 7.Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with recording artist Jordan Feliz about learning when to say no. They discuss the pressure men feel to perform, provide, and please everyone. Jordan shares how therapy, parenting, and a demanding career helped him learn the value of limits. He also shares how trusting God with his time has changed the way he leads at home.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why most men say yes out of fear<br> • What it looks like to lead from rest, not pressure<br> • How to know when a “no” is healthy<br> • What Jordan’s therapist taught him about priorities<br> • Why kids need your presence more than your perfection<br> • How knowing your identity in Christ changes what you say yes to</p><p>Tune in to get clear on what matters most and what you may need to leave behind.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Dad Tired Annual Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>UK Dad Tired Retreat Info: <a href="https://www.dadtired.uk">https://www.dadtired.uk</a></li><li>Dinnertime Discussion Cards: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Range Leather (15% off): https://rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to Speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jordan Raynor joins Jerrad for a practical conversation about heaven. They talk about the most common questions kids ask and why many adults still carry false ideas about eternity. Jordan explains what Scripture actually says and how the new Earth changes everything about how we parent and lead.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br>• Why most people have a wrong view of heaven<br>• What kids really want to know about eternity<br>• How to talk about the new Earth in a simple way<br>• Why worship is more than singing<br>• What the Bible says about animals, work, and relationships in heaven<br>• How a clearer view of eternity changes your purpose now</p><p> Tune in to learn how to talk about heaven with truth and confidence. </p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Book: <em>The Royal in You</em> by Jordan Raynor</li><li>Book: <em>Heaven</em> by Randy Alcorn</li><li>Book: <em>Surprised by Hope</em> by N. T. Wright</li><li>Book: <em>The Sacredness of Secular Work</em> by Jordan Raynor</li><li>Isaiah 11, Isaiah 60, Isaiah 65, Revelation 21–22</li><li>Dinnertime Discussion Cards: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Dwell Bible App (25% off): https://dwellbible.com/dadtired</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to Speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Steel Billings, Head of AI Strategy at Glue. They talk about how artificial intelligence is shaping the way we parent, lead, and live. Steel breaks down what AI actually is, what it means for the next generation, and how Christian parents can prepare their kids for a digital future.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What every dad needs to understand about AI<br> • Why parenting in this era takes new levels of awareness<br> • How to talk to your kids about AI, emotions, and identity<br> • What’s at risk when kids form emotional bonds with machines<br> • Why you don’t need to fear AI, but you do need to be wise<br> • How to use new tools while holding on to God’s design</p><p>Tune in to learn how to lead your family  in a fast-changing world.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Learn more about Glue and faith + AI initiatives: gloo.us/ai</li><li>Join the AI &amp; the Church Hackathon: gloo.us/hackathon</li><li>Barna x Glue Research on Parenting and AI: <a href="https://www.barna.com">barna.com</a></li><li>Dwell Bible App (25% off): dwellbible.com/dadtired</li><li>CSB Men’s Daily Study Bible (50% off): <a href="https://www.lifeway.com">lifeway.com</a> — Code: <strong>MDB50</strong></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Dad Tired Annual Retreat + Volunteer Info: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with worship leader and songwriter Stephen McWhirter. Stephen shares how a childhood of abuse and a decade of addiction nearly destroyed his life. He opens up about how Jesus met him in the middle of it all and changed everything. This is a story of redemption, healing, and the kind of grace that goes deeper than our past.</p><p><strong> <br>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • How Stephen’s view of God was shaped by an abusive father<br> • What it looked like to run from religion and numb the pain<br> • How Jesus met him during a meth addiction<br> • Why true repentance leads to freedom, not shame<br> • What it means to forgive without excusing harm<br> • How his family, music, and message were transformed</p><p>Tune in to see why no one is too far gone and how God can write a better story than we ever imagined.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Stephen’s website: <a href="https://www.worshipjesus.life">worshipjesus.life</a></li><li>Song: “Come Jesus Come” by Stephen McWhirter</li><li>Book: <em>The Case for Christ</em> by Lee Strobel</li><li>Book (Upcoming): Stephen’s testimony, published by Zondervan</li><li>Tour Dates with Maverick City Music: See link at <a href="https://www.worshipjesus.life">worshipjesus.life</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to Speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Shop Dad Tired x Range Leather: rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li></ol>

<p> Dr. Juli Slattery joins Jerrad for an honest conversation about sex and intimacy in marriage. They cover the questions most men want to ask but often avoid. Juli brings grace, and a biblical framework for how to understand sex. She reminds us it is not just a physical act. It is a spiritual gift. <strong></strong></p><p>What You’ll hear:<br> • Why sexual struggles are often spiritual struggles<br> • How to define healthy intimacy in marriage<br> • What real faithfulness looks like in thought and action<br> • Why many couples feel stuck or ashamed in this area<br> • How men and women experience sex differently<br> • Why intimacy takes more than performance or frequency</p><p>Tune in to better understand how to lead with love and build intimacy with patience.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Authentic Intimacy (Juli’s ministry): <a href="https://www.authenticintimacy.com">authenticintimacy.com</a></li><li>Book: <em>God, Sex, and Your Marriage</em> by Dr. Juli Slattery</li><li>Podcast: <em>Java with Juli</em></li><li>Resource: Online Book Studies for Couples — <a href="https://www.authenticintimacy.com">authenticintimacy.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad sits down with Shane Winnings, former law enforcement officer and CEO of Promise Keepers, to talk about integrity, obedience, and spiritual leadership. Shane shares his story of walking away from career and comfort to follow God's call. They talk about how small, unseen acts of obedience shape the kind of man you become.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why obedience starts with small decisions<br> • How God used street ministry to build boldness<br> • What it means to be faithful in daily life<br> • How to lead your home with clarity and conviction<br> • Why tenderness and strength must go together<br> • What Shane has learned from evangelism, fatherhood, and leading men</p><p>Tune in to be reminded that big callings begin with small, consistent yes-es.</p><p><br><strong> Episode  Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Follow Shane Winnings on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shanewinnings">@shanewinnings</a></li><li>Learn more about Promise Keepers and register for the August event: <a href="https://www.promisekeepers.org">promisekeepers.org</a></li><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li>Bond Charge (Wellness + Recovery gear, 15% off): <a href="https://www.bondcharge.com">bondcharge.com</a> — Code: <strong>DADTIRED15</strong></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jeremy Pryor joins Jerrad to talk about one of the most confusing parts of modern family life — how to relate to parents and in-laws as adults. They discuss what it means to show honor, how to draw healthy boundaries, and why God designed families to be multi-generational. <br>Jeremy also shares the result of restoring family culture and what it means to raise children in a household, not a nest.</p><p><strong> What You’ll hear</strong>:<br> • What Scripture says about honoring your parents<br> • Why modern families feel disconnected across generations<br> • How to deal with in-laws in a healthy and godly way<br> • What “parenting” misses that fathering and mothering include<br> • How your kids learn to honor you by watching you honor your parents<br> • What changes when you stop seeing family as individual units</p><p>Tune in to rethink your role as a son, son-in-law, and spiritual leader.</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Jeremy Pryor’s site and teaching: <a href="https://www.familyteams.com">familyteams.com</a></li><li>Book: <em>Family Revision</em> by Jeremy Pryor</li><li>Podcast: Five Minute Fatherhood (with Jeff Bethke)</li><li>Ministry: <a href="https://www.1kh.org">1K Households (1KH)</a></li><li>YouTube: Family Teams Channel</li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jeremympryor">@jeremympryor</a></li><li>CSB Men’s Daily Bible (50% off): <a href="https://www.lifeway.com">lifeway.com</a> — Code: <strong>MDB50</strong></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, therapist and author Sam Jolman joins Jerrad to talk about the deeper story behind pornography, shame, and anger. He explains why behavior change is not enough. Jeremy  helps men ask better questions about their pain. He shows how healing starts when we look at what drives the behavior, not just the behavior itself.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br>• Why shame grows in silence<br>• How pornography often masks deeper wounds<br>• What anger reveals about your need for rest and relief<br>• How healing starts with kindness toward your own story<br>• Why confession is the beginning, not the end<br>• What your body might be telling you about your soul<br>Tune in to see why freedom takes more than willpower and what it means to let Jesus into your story.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Book: <em>The Sex Talk You Never Got</em> by Sam Jolman</li><li>Sam’s counseling and writing: <a href="https://www.samjolman.com">samjolman.com</a></li><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Kaleb Allen asks a hard but honest question. Who is really running your life? He shares how the drive for productivity can quietly become a form of slavery. Through Scripture, personal stories, and the life of Jesus, Kaleb unpacks what it means to rest, slow down, and let God define your worth.</p><p><strong> What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • How hustle culture distorts your view of success<br> • Why rest is not weakness<br> • What Sabbath says about your identity<br> • How Jesus lived with margin and retreat<br> • What happens when you trade burnout for presence<br> • How to lead your home with pace, not pressure</p><p>Tune in to remember that your value isn’t in what you do but in who you belong to.</p><p><strong><br>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>CSB Men’s Daily Bible (50% off): <a href="https://www.lifeway.com">lifeway.com</a> — Code: <strong>MDB50</strong></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Dad Tired Annual Retreat: dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support Dad Tired: dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Invite Jerrad to Speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Follow Dad Tired for updates: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dadtired">instagram.com/dadtired</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad speaks directly to husbands and fathers. He teaches from Colossians 3 and Genesis 3 to show what it means to lead as God designed. Jerrad unpacks the weight of spiritual leadership and how men are called to love, serve, and lay down their lives for their families.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong></p><p> • Why God holds men accountable for their homes<br> • What it means to love your wife without harshness or resentment<br> • Why leadership is not about control, but sacrifice<br> • How Genesis 3 shapes our understanding of headship<br> • What Paul says to husbands in Colossians and Ephesians<br> • How a gospel-shaped marriage shows Christ to the world</p><p>Tune in to be reminded that leadership begins with humility, and love is measured by how you serve.</p><p><strong><br> Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read Colossians 3 for context</li><li>Book: <em>The Dad Tired Book</em> – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Dad Tired Community and Retreat Info: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad continues teaching through Colossians chapter 3 and focuses on verse 18. He speaks directly to women who want to follow Jesus in their marriage. This message is not about control or silence. It is about trust, strength, and reflecting the gospel in a real home.</p><p>Jerrad explains what biblical submission means and what it does not. He shows how this call is rooted in the character of Christ, not cultural roles. This is not about value. It is about order, humility, and spiritual leadership in the home.</p><p> <strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why submission is not weakness or silence<br> • How Christ models willing surrender<br> • What it looks like to follow a flawed husband with wisdom<br> • Why headship and love must go together<br> • How your posture can shape the culture of your home<br> • Why God’s design still matters even when it feels uncomfortable</p><p>Tune in to see how a wife’s role is not small. It is strong, and it points to something eternal.</p><p><strong> Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read Colossians 3 for context</li><li>Book: <em>The Dad Tired Book</em> – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Dad Tired Community and Retreat Info: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad continues through Colossians chapter 3. He focuses on the call to take off the old self and put on the new. This is not about behavior for approval. It’s about living from your identity in Christ. Jerrad explains what it looks like to walk in kindness, meekness, patience, and joy. He also challenges men to lead with peace and clarity in the home.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What it means to take off the old self and put on Christ<br> • Why your identity shapes your actions<br> • How to lead your family with patience and humility<br> • What meekness looks like in the life of a father<br> • Why peace and joy are essential for spiritual leadership<br> • How discipline becomes effective when your home is full of joy</p><p>Tune in to remember who you are and how to live like you belong to Christ.</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read Colossians chapter 3</li><li>CSB Men’s Daily Bible (50% off): <a href="https://www.lifeway.com">lifeway.com</a> — Code: <strong>MDB50</strong></li><li>The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat or Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad begins a four-part series in Colossians 3. He opens with a direct challenge: if you are alive in Christ, why does your life still carry the smell of death? Jerrad teaches through Paul’s reminder that followers of Jesus must put to death the old self and walk in the new. This is not behavior for approval. It’s transformation that flows from identity.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What it means to be dead to sin and alive in Christ<br> • Why repentance begins with self-awareness<br> • How to identify areas that still reflect your old self<br> • Why putting off sin is more than behavior change<br> • How Scripture shapes men into spiritual leaders<br> • What God says about anger, lust, and identity</p><p>Tune in to ask the hard question: what in your life still smells like the man you used to be?<br>Episode Resources<br><strong>Read Colossians chapter 3</strong></p><p>The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p><p>CSB Men’s Daily Bible (50% off): <a href="https://www.lifeway.com">lifeway.com</a> — Code: <strong>MDB50</strong></p><p>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></p><p>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></p><p>Join the Dad Tired Retreat or Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></p><p>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</p>

<p> In this episode, Chris Hilken shares a powerful exercise every dad can try. </p><p><strong>Here are the 7 Questions:</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Projected Value: </strong>What do you think is most important to me? </p><p><br></p><p><strong>Intended Value: </strong>If I could wish for one thing for you, what do you think it would be?</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Perceived Value: </strong>What do you think I love the most about you?</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Interpreted Value: </strong>What are ways that I show you love that mean the most to you?</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Expected Value: </strong>What are ways that I could show you better that I love you?</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Rejected Value: </strong>What’s one thing that I have done that you will do differently as a parent?</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Respected Value:</strong> What’s one thing that I have done that you will do as a parent?</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Range Leather (15% off): rangeleather.com/dadtired — Code: <strong>DADTIRED</strong></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with filmmakers and ministry leaders Alex and Stephen Kendrick. They share how their father broke a cycle of brokenness and showed them how to lead with faith. The Kendricks talk about the heart behind their new film <em>The Forge</em>, why real discipleship is rare, and what it actually looks like in daily life.</p><p><strong> What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why fatherhood and discipleship go hand in hand<br> • How one man’s faith can change a family tree<br> • What they learned about manhood while making <em>The Forge</em><br> • Why real discipleship is about imitation, not just instruction<br> • How to start discipling even if you don’t feel ready<br> • What happens when men choose comfort over calling</p><p>Tune in to hear why the next generation is waiting for men who will show them how to follow Jesus — not just talk about it.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Watch the trailer and get updates: <a href="https://www.theforgemovie.com">theforgemovie.com</a></li><li>Read the book: <em>The Resolution for Men</em> by Stephen and Alex Kendrick</li><li>Learn more about their films: <a href="https://www.kendrickbrothers.com">kendrickbrothers.com</a></li><li>Watch <em>War Room</em>, <em>Courageous</em>, <em>Overcomer</em>, and <em>Facing the Giants</em></li><li>Dwell Bible App (25% off): dwellbible.com/dadtired</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jon Tyson joins Jerrad to talk about the hidden battles Christian men face. They discuss themes from Jon’s new book <em>Fighting Shadows</em>, including shame, lust, apathy, and loneliness. Jon shares how Satan uses these shadows to keep men stuck in isolation and defeat. This is a call to step out of the dark and live with  purpose, and brotherhood.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why most men are battling shame and isolation<br> • How apathy and ambition often feed each other<br> • What real healing from lust looks like<br> • Why confession and community are essential<br> • How to build a life that fights for truth and light<br> • What Jesus offers when the shadows feel overwhelming</p><p>Tune in to name what’s holding you back and step into the light with courage.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Book: <em>Fighting Shadows</em> by Jon Tyson and Jefferson Bethke</li><li>Learn more at: <a href="https://www.formingmen.com">formingmen.com</a></li><li>Watch: <em>The Work</em> documentary (featured in this episode)</li><li>Read: <em>The Intentional Father</em> by Jon Tyson</li><li>Join a Men’s Group: https://www.dadtired.com/groups</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol><p><br></p><p><br></p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with someone he never expected to share the mic with — his dad. For the first time, they talk openly about their strained relationship, what absence did to both of them, and how forgiveness and healing began. This is not a teaching. It’s a real conversation. A son and father working through decades of hurt, regret, and love.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • What father absence really does to a boy<br> • How unspoken pain shows up in marriage and parenting<br> • Why honest conversation can open the door to healing<br> • What changed when Jerrad forgave his father<br> • How God used brokenness to birth Dad Tired<br> • Why it’s never too late to reconcile</p><p>Tune in to hear what grace sounds like when it moves from theory to real life.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Learn more about WinShape Camps: <a href="https://www.winshapecamps.org">winshapecamps.org</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with Natalie Abbott and Vera Schmitz, the co-founders of Dwell, about parenting, anxiety, and what happens when the Word of God becomes your lifeline. They share how Scripture memory moved from a discipline to a daily rescue, especially in seasons of doubt, fear, and deep need.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br>• Why kids need more than protection — they need truth<br>• What happens when performance becomes your identity<br>• How Scripture speaks when anxiety gets loud<br>• Why silence often reveals what's really in your heart<br>• How Dwell began after Olympic dreams faded<br>• Why parents must fill themselves with truth to lead well</p><p>Tune in to see why the Word of God is essential.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Dwell Scripture Memory Tools: dwelldifferently.com</li><li>Free downloads for Dad Tired listeners: dwelldifferently.com/dadtired</li><li>Book: He Is: A Devotional Guide to the Attributes of God (by Natalie &amp; Vera)</li><li>Podcast: Dwell Differently Podcast</li><li>CSB Men’s Daily Bible (50% off): lifeway.com — Code: MDB50</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad is joined by Chris and Kaleb to answer questions submitted by listeners. From God’s view on divorce to judgment day and denominational confusion, they take on topics that matter deeply but are rarely discussed with honesty. They also tackle the tension in marriage when one spouse feels “touched out,” and how respect, sex, and spiritual leadership all intersect.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • What the Bible says about final judgment<br> • Whether God ever prompts divorce<br> • How to think about denominations and unity in the Church<br> • What assurance of salvation looks like<br> • How wives can support husbands when they feel empty<br> • Why physical intimacy in marriage often needs intentionality</p><p>Tune in to hear honest, pastoral answers to questions many christian men and women are quietly wrestling with.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Submit your own question: Call 503-877-3836</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>WinShape Camps for kids and families: <a href="https://www.winshapecamps.org">winshapecamps.org</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad shares a personal story that started with a haircut and ended in conviction. What began as a lighthearted moment with his son turned into a  reflection on anger, joy, and what kind of father he’s becoming. It’s about  how our family feels the weight of what we carry.</p><p><strong>What You’ll  Hear:</strong><br>• Why joy is a fruit, not a feeling<br>• How sin, stress, and selfishness rob your joy<br>• Why joy matters more than you think in fatherhood<br>• What your kids learn when they see your serious side<br>• Why spending time with Jesus resets your soul<br>• How to give your family the joyful version of you</p><p>Tune in to find joy again, even in the mess of normal, everyday parenting.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>WinShape Camps: winshapecamps.org</li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com</li></ol>

<p>Joey Odom, co-founder of RO, joins Jerrad to talk about how smartphones are quietly changing homes. He shares his own story of missing his son’s first goal while looking down at his phone , and how that moment changed everything. They talk about addiction, distraction, and why putting down your phone might be the most important thing you do as a dad.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • How phones are affecting your kids in ways you don’t see<br> • Why you have a relationship with your phone  and how to change it<br> • The hidden cost of being constantly connected<br> • How habits, not willpower, shape your leadership<br> • Four simple ways to be more present with your family<br> • Why noticing your kids may be the key to connection</p><p>Tune in to reflect on your daily habits and reclaim the attention your family is craving.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Get RO<strong>: </strong><a href="https://www.goro.com"><strong>https://www.g</strong>oro.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Podcasting Course: <a href="https://www.podtofinish.com">https://www.podtofinish.com</a></li></ol>

<p>Ben Roethlisberger joins Jerrad Lopes to talk about parenting, marriage, and identity.  Ben Roethlisberger is a two-time Super Bowl champion and former quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers. He shares what it’s been like to go from the field to full-time dad. They talk about discipline, presence, and how to lead your home.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear</strong>:<br>• Why your kids need consistency more than perfection<br>• How Ben is learning to listen, not just lead<br>• What he’s discovered about slowing down after the NFL<br>• Why respect and tenderness can go hand in hand<br>• How bedtime reveals the heart of your parenting</p><p>Tune in to hear how a championship mindset changes when your greatest job is at home.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Dwell Bible App (25% off): https://www.dwellbible.com/dadtired</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>. Shop Dad Tired Coffee (by LC Coffee): https://shop.dadtired.com</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Bobby Cooley, pastor and co-founder of Empowered Homes.  They talk about father wounds, identity, and what every man needed to hear growing up. Bobby shares his story of abuse, neglect, and redemption. They also discuss how your view of God is shaped by your dad, what to do with the pain you carry, and how to stop passing it on.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why many men don’t realize they’re still hurting<br> • How father wounds show up in marriage and parenting<br> • What healing can look like when you name the wound<br> • Why identity must come from God, not your past<br> • How to offer what you never received<br> • What it means to be fathered by God</p><p>Tune in learn how you can find the freedom to lead with grace.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Visit: <a href="https://www.empoweredhomes.org">empoweredhomes.org</a></li><li>Book: <em>Fathered by God</em> by John Eldredge</li><li>Documentary: <em>The Work</em> (Group therapy in Folsom Prison)</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p> In this episode, Chris shares a parenting moment from the playground. A small conflict led to big questions about fairness, hurt, and how to respond. He talks about how to walk with your kids through these moments in a way that builds strength, not just comfort.  <br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • Why injustice can be a teaching moment<br> • How to lead your child through hurt without rescuing too soon<br> • What it means to raise kids for real life, not just safety<br> • Why fairness shouldn’t always be the goal<br> • How to help your kids think through conflict with clarity<br> </p><p>Tune in to understand how gospel parenting shapes your child’s character.</p><p> <strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Register for the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Contact for Sponsorship: hello@dadtired.com</li><li>True Play Games (25% off with code “dadtired”): <a href="https://www.trueplaygames.com">https://www.trueplaygames.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad challenges dads to rethink what it means to be the prophet of their home. It’s not just about what you say. It’s about what you live. He walks through three simple but powerful ways men can lead their families in truth without needing to talk all the time.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why your kids watch your life more than your words<br> • How the prophet role includes teaching and resisting<br> • What happens when you chase wealth and comfort<br> • How to model satisfaction in Jesus, not possessions<br> • Why modesty and mission shape how your kids see God<br> • A simple way to engage your family with global missions</p><p>Tune in to see how your lifestyle is teaching your family something; whether you mean to or not.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Learn more about Samaritan Ministries: https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired</li><li>Preorder the children’s book <em>My Daddy’s Hero</em>: [Wherever books are sold]</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p> In this episode, Jerrad continues the series on what makes a healthy man. He focuses on friendship and fitness. He shares how isolation nearly destroyed his marriage. He also talks about why real friends matter and how caring for your body shapes your leadership. </p><p><strong>What You’ll hear</strong>:<br> • How isolation leads to dark places<br> • Why most men already have the friend they need<br> • What it means to be the light in someone else’s life<br> • Why physical health is connected to spiritual strength<br> • How daily discipline can train your soul<br> • What motivates Jerrad to keep showing up with consistency</p><p> Tune in to pursue a kind of health that reaches your body, mind, and soul.<br> <br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Shop Dad Tired Coffee (by LC Coffee): https://shop.dadtired.com</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Learn to launch your own podcast: <a href="https://www.podtofinish.com">https://www.podtofinish.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol><p><br></p>

<p><br></p><p>In this episode, Jerrad continues his focus on what makes a man healthy. He talks about two areas many men overlook: silence and sleep. Jerrad shares why most men avoid silence, how rest shapes the soul, and what it looks like to stop numbing out and start dealing with what’s really going on inside.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why silence reveals what’s under the surface<br> • How busyness and distraction keep men stuck<br> • What soul peace has to do with spiritual leadership<br> • Why sitting alone with your thoughts matters<br> • How better sleep makes you a better man<br> • Simple ways to build healthier rhythms at night</p><p>Tune in to learn why real strength starts with quiet, not noise.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Sponsor: Samaritan Ministries — https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired</li><li>Learn more or join the Dad Tired Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Launch your podcast: <a href="https://www.podtofinish.com">https://www.podtofinish.com</a> — Use code <strong>PODCAST30</strong></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad helps men think through where they are in their walk with Jesus. He walks through five stages of spiritual growth, from spiritual death to spiritual parenthood, and challenges you to assess your maturity. This is a practical and honest look at what it means to grow up in faith.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • Why Jesus' final words matter for every man<br> • How to know if you're stuck in spiritual childhood<br> • What selfish faith looks like<br> • Why maturity is more than just belief<br> • How to start leading others once you've been led</p><p>Tune in to get honest about your growth and take the next step forward.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Learn more about Dad Tired Groups: https://www.dadtired.com/groups</li><li>Download the Stages of Discipleship PDF (by Jim Putman): https://www.replicate.org/stages-of-discipleship</li><li>Start your podcast with Pod to Finish: <a href="https://www.podtofinish.com">https://www.podtofinish.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol><p>Learn more about the 5-stages of discipleship:</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://jimputman.com/2018/06/04/the-5-stages-of-growth-for-a-disciple-free-resource-download/">https://jimputman.com/2018/06/04/the-5-stages-of-growth-for-a-disciple-free-resource-download/</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://arena.jfbc.org/PublicAssets/Documents/Shine/Five%20Stages%20of%20Discipleship.pdf">https://arena.jfbc.org/PublicAssets/Documents/Shine/Five%20Stages%20of%20Discipleship.pdf</a></p>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with poet, teacher, and apologist Preston Perry. Preston shares how one man changed his life by living out the gospel, not just preaching it. They talk about discipleship, evangelism, and why showing someone your life may matter more than what you say.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • How Preston came to faith through real discipleship<br> • Why Gary’s life showed him he wasn’t a Christian<br> • What it means to invite people into your everyday life<br> • Why the church often misses the mark on discipleship<br> • How Preston and Jackie think about sharing Jesus in everyday moments<br> • Why obedience matters more than method</p><p> Tune in to hear how faith grows through everyday obedience.<br> <br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Preston’s Book – <em>How to Tell the Truth</em> (wherever books are sold)</li><li>Preston and Jackie’s Podcast – <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@WiththePerrys">With the Perrys</a></li><li>Thrive Family Life (Sponsor): <a href="https://www.thrivefamilylife.com">https://www.thrivefamilylife.com</a> — Use code <strong>dadtired</strong> for 10% off</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad reacts to a moment between UFC fighter Sean Strickland and comedian Theo Von. Jerrad reflects on why men struggle with friendship, what real connection looks like, and how trauma often hides beneath our toughness.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • What made a UFC fighter break down on camera<br> • Why many men carry deep pain without knowing it<br> • How friendship is more than advice or fixing<br> • What it means to sit with someone in their grief<br> • Why our strongest behavior often covers our deepest wounds<br> • How Jesus meets us in the places we try to hide</p><p>Tune in to rethink how you show up for your friends and where healing really begins.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Watch the interview clip: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tz9FTQnL2XE">Sean Strickland &amp; Theo Von on YouTube</a> (timestamp 1:31:00)</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Learn more about Dad Tired: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol><p><br></p><p><br></p>

<p>Jerrad and Kaleb talk about fatherhood, fear, and what it means to trust God with your future.  They reflect on  moments that hit hard and draw from Judges 7 to show where true courage begins.  This is a call for men to lead with peace, and to stop chasing comfort. To stand with courage that comes from knowing who holds tomorrow.</p><p><strong>What You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why chasing the wrong things will leave you empty<br> • What a crib and a cup of coffee taught about time<br> • What Gideon’s story says about fear and leadership<br> • Why theology matters more than positivity<br> • How to lead when the world feels unstable<br> • Why the future belongs to Jesus, not to chance</p><p>Tune in to lead with courage and rest in what’s true.</p><p><strong> Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Shop Dad Tired Coffee (by LC Coffee): https://shop.dadtired.com</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Register for the 2024 Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>As a new year begins, Jerrad opens with a call for men to lead their families in peace. He shares a vulnerable moment from his own week, reflecting on the pressure men carry. He introduces a  teaching from Chris on what it means to trust God in a world full of fear. Together, they challenge men to lead from a place of rest, not reaction.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • Why peace starts with the mindset of the leader<br> • How your mindset shapes the atmosphere of your home <br> • How fear shows up in small decisions<br> • What “functional atheism” looks like in daily life<br> • Why Jesus is trustworthy even when life feels unstable<br> • How to shift from anxiety to confidence in God</p><p><br>Tune in to reset your heart and set the tone for your family as the year begins.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources</strong>:</p><ol><li>Join the Dad Tired Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Register for the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Sponsor: Samaritan Ministries – https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad looks back on the most powerful moments from the podcast this past year. He highlights stories, truths, and challenges that hit home for him and many in the Dad Tired community. You’ll hear about friendship, failure, fatherhood, identity, spiritual warfare, and what it means to live a life that’s fully surrendered to Jesus.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • What it means to lead your home with peace, not panic<br> • Why telling stories of God’s faithfulness matters<br> • What to do with failure in front of your kids<br> • How to build friendships with no secrets<br> • What spiritual warfare looks like in parenting<br> • Why Jesus, not your strength, wins the battle</p><p><br></p><p><strong><br>Episode  Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Shop Dad Tired Coffee (by LC Coffee): https://shop.dadtired.com</li><li>Donate to support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Register for a Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Chris shares his eight-step plan for disciplining kids with grace. He walks through real moments from his own family, including what happens when anger shows up and how to lead through it. Drawing from Genesis 3, Chris shares what godly discipline looks like and why it’s about more than just behavior correction.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • What to do before disciplining your child<br> • Why expectations matter more than reactions<br> • How to tell the difference between first, second, and third-degree disobedience<br> • What it means to discipline with both love and clarity<br> • Why God’s discipline is the model for our parenting<br> Tune in for a practical way to discipline with peace and direction </p><p><strong> Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Samaritan Ministries: https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Learn more: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad talks with Danielle Hitchen, author of <em>Sacred Seasons</em> and founder of Catechesis Books. They explore what Advent means, how the Church has observed it through history, and how you can lead your family through it with simple, meaningful practices. Danielle offers both the why and the how helping you slow down, reflect, and lead your kids into the bigger story of God’s work.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • What Advent is and why it matters<br> • When it starts and how to explain it to your kids<br> • How to create new family traditions without adding pressure<br> • What a Jesse Tree and Advent wreath can teach your kids<br> • Why silence is one of the most overlooked disciplines<br> • How waiting can build longing and deeper trust in Jesus</p><p><br></p><p> Tune in to help your family walk through Advent with truth. <br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Danielle’s Book – <em>Sacred Seasons</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0736986476">https://www.amazon.com/dp/0736986476</a></li><li>Catechesis Books: <a href="https://www.catechesisbooks.com">https://www.catechesisbooks.com</a></li><li>Dwell Differently (use code <strong>DADTIRE</strong> for 10% off): <a href="https://www.dwelldifferently.com">https://www.dwelldifferently.com</a></li><li>Oelo Lighting (Permanent holiday lights): <a href="https://www.oelo.com">https://www.oelo.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Jeremy Utley, author, speaker, and innovation expert from Stanford University. Jeremy is a husband, father of four girls, and a follower of Jesus. He shares how everyday men can walk into their jobs as disciples. Not just to work hard  but to be salt and light in their workplace.</p><p>They talk about:<br> • How to have creative ideas without pressure<br> • Why your work is not separate from your calling<br> • What to do when you feel stuck in a job that drains you<br> • How to build a culture of honesty and creativity<br> • Why Jesus doesn't divide sacred and secular work<br> • How dads can create small moments of discipleship at home</p><p>Tune in to hear how God can use you to make your workplace better and your family stronger.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Samaritan’s Purse Shoebox: https://samaritanspurse.org/buildonline</li><li>Oelo Lighting: <a href="https://www.oelo.com">https://www.oelo.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Donate to support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jerrad talks with author and teacher John Mark Comer about discipleship, spiritual formation, and what it takes to follow Jesus in a culture that often pulls in the opposite direction. John Mark explains why spiritual disciplines matter, how they shape a man’s heart, and why comfort and complexity keep many men stuck.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear</strong>:<br> • Why most Christians are living in the gap between belief and practice<br> • How to become a disciple, not just a churchgoer<br> • What apprenticeship to Jesus looks like in real life<br> • How the Church lost sight of discipleship<br> • What John Mark learned living in Portland and LA<br> • Why slowing down is the starting point of spiritual growth</p><p>Tune in for a  talk about what it means to follow Jesus with your whole life.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>John Mark Comer’s new book <em>Practicing the Way</em>: https://practicingtheway.org/book</li><li>Operation Christmas Child: https://samaritanspurse.org/occ</li><li>Oelo Lighting: <a href="https://www.oelo.com">https://www.oelo.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Donate to support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad tells the story of two lost phones, one rebellious toddler, and a dad learning how to discipline without shame. He unpacks how anger often takes over and why the real work of discipline starts with the heart. You’ll hear biblical truth, real stories, and practical advice for disciplining with love and consistency.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • Why discipline is more than behavior correction<br> • How sin always brings the death of something<br> • What it means to parent the heart, not just the behavior<br> • Why young kids need consistent consequences<br> • How older kids need deeper conversations<br> • The difference between discipline and anger</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Operation Christmas Child – https://samaritanspurse.org/occ</li><li>Oelo Permanent Lighting – <a href="https://www.oelo.com">https://www.oelo.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em> – <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry – https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jerrad talks with Brent Dusing, founder and CEO of True Play. Brent shares why kids need more than just safe content but gospel-centered stories that shape their identity and worldview. They discuss parenting in the digital age, how predators use online games, and why the Church must meet kids where they are.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • How much time kids actually spend on screens<br> • Why safe content isn’t enough for Christian families<br> • How predators are using gaming platforms<br> • What good digital discipleship can look like<br> • Why boys are struggling to grow into godly men<br> • How tech can help share the gospel, not compete with it</p><p>Tune in to learn how to lead your family with wisdom in a digital world.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Download the True Play app: <a href="https://www.truplaygames.com">https://www.truplaygames.com</a></li><li>Brent’s recommended book – <em>Boys Adrift</em> by Leonard Sax</li><li>Watch <em>Sound of Freedom</em></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p> Kaleb talks about leading in weakness. He shares a moment with his daughter that reminded him how much he needs God. He draws from 2 Corinthians 12 and shows why spiritual strength starts with honesty. Kaleb helps you see how staying present and trusting God can shape the way you lead.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • What it means to be frail but full<br> • Why kids need to see you depend on God<br> • How to lead from a place of weakness without shame<br> • Why honesty builds trust more than confidence<br> • How to ask for wisdom when you don’t have the answers<br> • Why grace leads better than striving ever could</p><p>Tune in for a reminder that your limits don’t disqualify you; they make room for God’s power.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read <em>2 Corinthians 12:9</em></li><li>Operation Christmas Child: https://samaritanspurse.org/occ</li><li>Book – <em>Boys Adrift</em> by Leonard Sax</li><li>Dad Tired Conferences: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jerrad answers a big question many Christian parents face each October ; what do we do with Halloween? He breaks down the history, looks at biblical teaching, and lays out three responses Christians can take: reject, receive, or redeem.   Tune in to lead your family with wisdom  through hard cultural questions. </p><p><br><strong> What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • What the Bible says  and doesn’t say about Halloween<br> • The difference between clear commands and conscience issues<br> • How to use scripture to make wise decisions<br> • Why unity matters even when families land in different places<br> • What Christian liberty looks like in parenting<br> • How to guide your kids without confusion or fear</p><p><br></p><p>Episode Resources:</p><ol><li>Join the Dad Tired Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</li><li>Learn more about Samaritan Ministries: https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad sits down with pastor and author Levi Lusko to talk about parenting, friendship, and what it means to be present in a lonely world. Levi shares about his relationship with his dad, how that shaped his own parenting, and why real friendship takes more than good intentions.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong><br> • Why friendship is essential for spiritual and emotional health<br> • What Levi learned from his dad about presence and integrity<br> • How loneliness is harming families and communities<br> • Why men often don’t talk about what they’re really feeling<br> • What the Bible says about brotherhood and connection<br> • How to help your kids face fear, loss, and anxiety with faith</p><p>Tune in to see why friendship is more than a feeling and a fight worth showing up for.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Levi Lusko’s children’s devotional – <em>Marvel at the Moon</em></li><li>Book – <em>Through the Eyes of a Lion</em> by Levi Lusko</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li><li>Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad reflects on a recent moment at the Dad Tired retreat and how God wouldn’t stop pressing into his heart. He shares how we often want God to speak to others but not to us. This episode is a challenge to check where you’ve grown comfortable, and whether you're still all in.</p><p><strong>You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why God keeps poking at the places we’d rather ignore<br> • How the Holy Spirit annoys us to pull us closer<br> • What it means to follow Jesus with your whole life<br> • Why past faith doesn’t replace present surrender<br> • How real discipleship involves dying to self again and again<br> • What your family sees that others might not</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Dwell Differently: <a href="https://www.dwelldifferently.com">https://www.dwelldifferently.com</a> — use promo code <strong>DADTired</strong></li><li>Register for the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Greg joins Jerrad to share his story as a dentist, pastor, and father of nine. He opens up about work, calling, and what it looks like to honor God through your job. He challenges men to stop compartmentalizing their faith and work, and to start seeing Monday mornings as part of their mission.</p><p><strong>You’ll hear:</strong><br> • Why work is not a curse, but a calling<br> • How Greg found purpose in the marketplace<br> • What it means to steward your work, not just survive it<br> • How God shaped his life through loss, disability, and joy<br> • Why business can be a way to love people well<br> • What younger men need from older men and how to find it</p><p>Tune in to see how your daily work can become part of God’s plan to shape you and bless others.</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Learn about the Family Leadership Program: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jerrad is joined by therapist and longtime friend Casey to talk about what our bodies reveal about our inner lives. They share real moments where anxiety, stress, and fear showed up first in the body. You’ll hear how recognizing these signals can help you lead with more self-awareness and care.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><p>• How to notice physical signs of stress<br> • Why your body responds before your words do<br> • What a tight jaw or flushed face might be saying<br> • How unresolved pain shows up in the body<br> • Why being present helps you lead your home well<br> • Simple ways to slow down and check in with yourself</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Join the Dad Tired Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</li><li>Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate</li></ol>

<p>Jerrad invites you to take a hard look at what’s really driving your life. Every man wrestles with something that competes for his heart. It might be control, comfort, or the need to be seen. These things don’t always look like sin, but they slowly take the place only God should hold. In this episode, Jerrad walks through how to recognize the patterns in your thoughts, actions, and habits that reveal your true loyalties. He shares how these hidden priorities show up in your parenting, marriage, and spiritual life and what it looks like to choose Christ instead.</p><p>Tune in to slow down, ask honest questions, and take the first step toward freedom.</p><p> <strong> <br>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><p>• How to recognize what you’re really worshiping<br> • Why your idols often seem like strengths<br> • What power, comfort, and desire demand from you<br> • How idolatry can shape your parenting and marriage<br> • What your family feels when idols go unchecked<br> • How to turn from false masters and return to Christ</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Family Leadership Program: https://www.dadtired.com/family-leadership-program</li><li>Dwell Differently: <a href="https://www.dwelldifferently.com">https://www.dwelldifferently.com</a> – use promo code <strong>DadTired</strong></li><li>Read <em>Romans 7</em>, <em>John 10:10</em>, and <em>John 17</em></li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol>

<p>Kaleb and Jerrad reflect on a teaching from Luke 16 and what it means to be faithful in the little things. They talk about how the smallest choices ; a thought, a word, a hidden act are shaping who you're becoming. Integrity isn’t built in big moments. It's formed in quiet, daily decisions when no one else is watching.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><p>• Why integrity begins in the unseen places<br> • How faithfulness in small things leads to trust in big things<br> • What Jesus teaches about managing what’s not your own<br> • Why little compromises are never just little<br> • How our daily choices are forming our character<br> • What it means to lead with consistency and conviction</p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Read Luke 16</li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/059319331X">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Join the Dad Tired Community: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences</li></ol><p>Tune in to see how small faithfulness can lead to lasting change in your life and leadership.</p>

<p>Jay Kim joins Jerrad to talk about how digital habits are shaping our spiritual lives, our families, and the kind of men we’re becoming. They discuss how easy access to information affects attention, prayer, and parenting. Jay shares practical steps for raising kids who know how to live offline.</p><p><strong>What You'll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>How digital distractions are shaping our brains</li><li>What a tech-free evening looks like in Jay's home</li><li>Why spiritual attention matters more than good intentions</li><li>How smartphones are changing kids and parents alike</li><li>Why screen limits are a form of love</li><li>What a Christ-centered family rhythm can look like</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources</strong></p><ol><li><em>Analog Christian</em> by Jay Kim </li><li>Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em> – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li></ol><p>Tune in for an honest look at technology, formation, and the need to slow down before it's too late.</p>

<p>Aaron and Jennifer Smith join Jerrad to talk about how prayer has shaped their marriage. They open up about the real struggles they faced early on, including physical pain, unmet expectations, and emotional disconnection. The conversation dives into why small arguments often reveal deeper wounds and how couples can move toward healing. They show how spiritual and emotional intimacy are connected, and how prayer can soften hearts, rebuild trust, and deepen love. </p><p><br><strong>What You'll Hear: </strong><br> • Why surface-level conflicts often point to deeper issues<br> • The early struggles Aaron and Jennifer faced and how they found healing<br> • How to fight for intimacy when your spouse is distant<br> • The difference between transactional and sacrificial love<br> • Why daily prayer helps couples reconnect and realign<br> • Encouragement for husbands to lead spiritually<br> • How their new book can guide couples through intentional prayer</p><p>Tune in to hear practical ways to grow intimacy and fight for unity in marriage through prayer.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources<br>1. </strong><em>The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers for Our Marriage</em> – https://marriageaftergod.com/themarriagegift</p><p>2. Read <em>The Dad Tired Book</em>: <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></p><p>3. Invite Jerrad to speak: <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></p>

<p>Jerrad shares a personal story that leads into a powerful teaching on what it means to live a crucified life as a dad. He shares the difference between just showing up and truly leading your family in the Spirit. This is a call to die to pride, ego, and selfish ambition, to become  a dad who mirrors Christ, not just in presence but in posture.</p><p><br><strong>What You'll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>The Galatians 2 confrontation between Paul and Peter</li><li>What it means to be a present <em>and</em> crucified father</li><li>The difference between cultural goodness and spiritual surrender</li><li>Learning to take your frustration and ego to Gethsemane</li><li>How daily practices like prayer, Scripture meditation, and fasting shape crucified living</li><li>Raising children from a place of humility, not just duty</li></ul><p>Tune in to reflect on the kind of father your kids will remember<strong>.</strong></p><p><br><strong>Episode Resources</strong></p><ol><li>Dwell Differen<strong>tly</strong> – Scripture memory tools for the whole family.<br> Visit: <a href="https://www.dwelldifferently.com">https://www.dwelldifferently.com</a> and use code <strong>DADTIRED</strong> for a discount.</li><li>The Dad Tired Retreat – Details and sign-up: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a> under the “Annual Retreat” tab.</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>Chris Witt joins Jerrad for a conversation on what it means to be an intentional father. As a dad of grown sons and now a grandfather, Chris reflects on the rhythms, words, and habits that helped shape his boys into godly men. He shares how simple things like a shared language of manhood left a lasting impact. He also shares why being a present dad means choosing purpose over passivity. </p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear</strong> </p><ul><li>How to disciple your kids even when it seems like they’re not listening</li><li> The power of yearly “manca” trips and milestone moments</li><li>Why presence and repentance matter more than perfection</li><li>How to create shared language around manhood and calling</li><li>What grandparenting teaches you about legacy and grace</li><li>The role of camp in creating spiritual breakthroughs for families</li><li> Why everything you do adds to or takes away from the message your kids will carry</li></ul><p>Tune in to be hear how your daily efforts as a dad are planting seeds that will bear fruit for generations.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources</strong></p><ol><li> WinShape Camps &amp; Family Camps – <a href="https://www.winshape.org">https://www.winshape.org</a></li><li> Raising a Modern-Day Knight by Robert Lewis – <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1589973097">https://www.amazon.com/dp/1589973097</a></li><li> The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a> (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)</li><li> Dad Tired Labor Day Weekend at WinShape – https://www.dadtired.com/events</li><li> Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li> Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad and Layla have an honest conversation about spiritual growth, emotional maturity, and what it looks like to share the mental load in marriage. Layla opens up about her journey from spiritual complacency to discipline, and how one small decision changed everything. They also dive into parenting, baptism, moving across the country, and how to lead your family with humility and purpose.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>What it looks like to move from spiritual apathy to daily discipline</li><li>Why abiding in Christ—not behavior modification—produces lasting fruit</li><li>A real-life example of how small daily decisions impact the whole family</li><li>Understanding the invisible “mental load” and how to share it well in marriage</li><li>Why your kids may not be ready for baptism (and how to talk about it with grace)</li><li>How to know when it’s time for a new chapter in life or a new church</li><li>Why spiritual leadership starts with quiet obedience, not platform influence</li></ul><p>Tune in to reflect on how abiding in Christ transforms your home, your marriage, and your legacy.<br><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a> (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Disciplines of a Godly Woman by Barbara Hughes – https://amzn.to/3WZ9Utp</li><li>Chris Kins on Worry – Scroll back to the “Worry” episode on the Dad Tired Podcast</li><li>Join the Free Dad Tired Community – https://www.dadtired.com/community</li></ol>

<p>Jerrad shares a powerful message on what it means to be both protector and peacemaker in a culture where those ideas often feel at odds. From an unexpected lesson while watching a duck guard its family, to deep reflection on Jesus’ words in Matthew 5, this episode challenges men to take spiritual ownership of their homes. Jerrad unpacks how true peace isn’t passive—it’s courageous, intentional, and rooted in the heart of a father who fights for his family’s physical and spiritual well-being.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>A surprising story about ducks, gators, and spiritual leadership</li><li>Why real protection involves far more than physical safety</li><li>The difference between being a peacekeeper and a peacemaker</li><li>How passivity in marriage and parenting sabotages spiritual growth</li><li>What it means to have your head “on a swivel” in today’s culture</li><li>Why owning hidden sin is part of leading with integrity</li><li>How peacemaking reveals your identity as a son of God</li></ul><p>Tune in to hear what strength looks like in fatherhood and how courage and peace can go hand in hand.</p><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a> (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Join the free Dad Tired Community – https://connect.dadtired.com</li><li>Matthew 5:9 – “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God”</li><li>Romans 12:18 – “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone</li></ol>

<p>Many Christian parents fear their kids will one day walk away from their faith. In this episode, Jerrad explores six of the most common reasons students (and adults) backslide. Drawing from years of youth ministry and personal parenting experience, he shares clear warning signs and biblical wisdom to help you disciple your kids toward long-term faithfulness.</p><p>Tune in to learn how to spot the subtle patterns that pull families away from Jesus; and what you can do today to fight for your child’s heart and legacy.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>The six most common reasons kids fall away from the faith</li><li>How spiritual atrophy sets in and what to do about it</li><li>Why relationships often pull teens away from Jesus</li><li>What it looks like when old sins quietly return</li><li>How to talk to your kids about unanswered prayers and hard seasons</li><li>The role of sin tampering and how it erodes spiritual conviction</li><li>What it means to finish the race and build a gospel-centered home</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a> (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li><li>Register for the Dad Tired Retreat – https://www.dadtired.com/events</li><li>Romans 13 and 1 Timothy 4:8 on spiritual discipline</li><li>James 1:13–15 and 1 Corinthians 15:33 on sin and influence</li></ol>

<p> Jerrad talks with Todd Nettleton from Voice of the Martyrs. They share stories from Christians who follow Jesus in places where faith is dangerous. Todd tells what he has seen in countries like North Korea and Iran. These believers face jail, beatings, and even death. Still, they stay faithful. Their stories remind us what it means to truly follow Christ. <br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>What’s happening with persecuted Christians around the world</li><li>Why North Korea remains the most dangerous place for believers</li><li>How a drug dealer in Iran became a bold evangelist</li><li>The testimony of a Chinese woman imprisoned for hosting a Bible study</li><li>Creative ways the gospel is spreading in closed nations</li><li>Why kids need spiritual heroes rooted in eternity</li><li>What it means to treasure Scripture like your life depends on it</li><li>How persecuted believers redefine risk, obedience, and calling</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Voice of the Martyrs – <a href="https://www.persecution.com">https://www.persecution.com</a></li><li>VOM Radio Podcast – <a href="https://www.vomradio.net">https://www.vomradio.net</a></li><li>Free Voice of the Martyrs Magazine – Sign up at persecution.com</li><li>VOM Prayer App – Available in app stores</li><li>“When Faith Is Forbidden” Book – https://amzn.to/3Rx5wM1</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad sits down with Louie Giglio to talk about what it means to see God as a perfect Father. Louie shares stories about his own dad, his struggles with approval and control. He also looks back to the moment he realized his view of God had been shaped by wounds he didn’t even know he had. This conversation will help you rethink who God really is and how your identity as His child changes everything.</p><p>Tune in to discover how healing your view of God can transform your life as a dad, husband, and man of faith.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why your view of God is the most important thing about you</li><li>How our earthly dads shape the way we see God</li><li>Louie’s story of struggle, burnout, and the pressure to prove</li><li>What it means that God is not the reflection but the perfection of your earthly dad</li><li>How to break generational patterns and become a different kind of father</li><li>The difference between living for approval and living from approval</li><li>What it looks like to parent from a place of identity and grace</li><li>Why every man needs a Father—and how to begin that relationship</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Louie Giglio’s new book – <em>Seeing God as a Perfect Father</em> </li><li>Passion City Church – <a href="https://passioncitychurch.com">https://passioncitychurch.com</a></li><li>Voice of the Martyrs Magazine – <a href="https://www.persecution.com">https://www.persecution.com</a></li><li>“Indescribable” by Louie Giglio – widely available on YouTube</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad talks with counselor and author Sissy Goff about parenting with peace. Sissy shares why today’s parents are more anxious than ever, how that anxiety gets passed down, and what you can do to change the tone of your home. They also talk about the mental load in marriage, the pressure to parent perfectly, and the quiet strength kids find in calm, connected dads.</p><p>Tune in to learn how to recognize your own worry, take back peace, and lead your family with steady confidence.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why today’s parents are more anxious than ever</li><li>How worry shows up in parenting without us noticing</li><li>The link between adult anxiety and anxious kids</li><li>The parenting behaviors that actually increase fear</li><li>What dads bring to the table that anxious homes need</li><li>How to balance correction with connection</li><li>Why your anxiety might be contagious</li><li>Practical tools to help kids build real confidence</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li><em>The Worry-Free Parent</em> by Sissy Goff</li><li>Raising Worry-Free Girls</li><li>Hope Town Summer Program – <a href="https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com">https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com</a></li><li>Sissy Goff’s Website – https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com/about</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad talks with Levi and Jennie Lusko about walking through grief, parenting in pain, and choosing to trust God when everything falls apart. They share what it was like to lose their five-year-old daughter and how that tragedy shaped the way they lead, love, and live today. This is a raw  conversation about suffering, faith, and the goodness of God in the middle of heartbreak.</p><p>Tune in to learn how to anchor your family in hope, even in your hardest seasons.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>What Levi and Jennie learned from losing their daughter</li><li>How grief impacts marriage and parenting</li><li>Why you don’t have to “fix” your kids’ emotions</li><li>How to stay rooted in God’s Word when life feels dark</li><li>The role of vulnerability in healing</li><li>How to walk with others through sorrow</li><li>What it means to trust God’s character over your circumstances</li><li>The hope that remains when nothing else makes sense</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li><em>Through the Eyes of a Lion</em> by Levi Lusko -Amazon</li><li><em>The Fight to Flourish</em> by Jennie Lusko – Amazon</li><li>Fresh Life Church – <a href="https://freshlife.church">https://freshlife.church</a></li><li>Levi and Jennie’s teaching and resources – <a href="https://levilusko.com">https://levilusko.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p> Jerrad sits down with Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why men often drift into isolation and how to push back against it. Justin shares the biblical and personal reasons friendship matters, and how to build deep, life-giving relationships even in a fast-paced and lonely culture. This episode is for every guy who feels alone, overwhelmed, or just unsure how to form lasting friendships.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why loneliness is a spiritual issue, not just a social one</li><li>How friendship shapes your walk with Jesus</li><li>What the Bible says about being made for people</li><li>Why secrets and isolation wear you down</li><li>How to find friends who know and love the real you</li><li>Why commitment, honesty, and vulnerability matter</li><li>What it looks like to build a rhythm of friendship</li><li>How your family benefits when you choose real connection</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li><em>Made for People</em> by Justin Whitmel Earley </li><li>Habits of the Household</li><li>Learn more at <a href="https://justinwhitmelearley.com/">https://justinwhitmelearley.com</a></li><li>Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com/">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com/">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>

<p>In this epiode, Jerrad reflects on how anxiety has become a norm in modern parenting—and what Jesus has to say about it. He shares honest stories about mental health, stress, and the lies we believe when we try to control everything. Through Scripture and personal loss, he walks through a better way of thinking, feeling, and leading your family. Jesus didn’t just say “stop worrying.” He invited us to consider the ravens.</p><p>Tune in to learn how renewing your mind can reshape your home.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why anxiety feels normal, even in Christian homes</li><li>How tech and culture have amplified fear in families</li><li>What Jesus actually meant when He said “do not worry”</li><li>The mindset shift that leads to peace and presence</li><li>How to move from anxiety to action as a dad</li><li>The biblical pattern of mind, will, and affection</li><li>What ravens and flowers reveal about God’s care</li><li>How to lead your kids with calm instead of control</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Philippians 4:6–7 and Luke 12:24</li><li>Romans 12:1–2 on renewing your mind</li><li>Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad talks with Ed Drew about how to help kids find their identity in Christ. Ed shares how the church can support families, why identity matters more than behavior, and how to respond when kids feel lost, anxious, or confused. This is a practical and gospel-rooted conversation for every parent who wants to raise secure kids in an insecure world.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why your child’s identity matters more than their behavior</li><li>How the church can help raise confident, Christ-rooted kids</li><li>Ways to shift your language from correction to connection</li><li>How to respond when kids are confused about gender or worth</li><li>Why calm, honest conversations matter more than perfect answers</li><li>The danger of finding value in achievement or image</li><li>How to prepare kids for real-world questions with gospel truth</li><li>What it means to be “God’s Plan A” for your family</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li><em>Raising Confident Kids in a Confusing World</em> by Ed Drew</li><li>Faith in Kids – <a href="https://www.faithinkids.org">https://www.faithinkids.org</a></li><li>Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>Jerrad sits down with Paul David Tripp to talk about the real goal of parenting. Paul shares why behavior change isn’t enough and how heart transformation only happens through God. They talk about what gets in the way, how parents often carry pressure they were never meant to hold, and why grace is what shapes lasting change.<br> Tune in to hear how lasting change in your home starts with trust in God, not perfect parenting.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why you can’t change your child’s heart—and you’re not supposed to</li><li>The danger of parenting for behavior instead of transformation</li><li>Five questions to help your kids understand their own heart</li><li>Why grace is essential when you mess up as a parent</li><li>How your identity can get wrongly tied to your child’s performance</li><li>What it means to be God’s tool, not His replacement</li><li>Why parenting requires patience, humility, and a long view</li><li>The difference between reacting and responding with purpose</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li><em>Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family</em> by Paul David Tripp </li><li>Paul David Tripp’s resources – <a href="https://www.paultripp.com">https://www.paultripp.com</a></li><li>Dwell Differently – Scripture memory tools for families – <a href="https://www.dwelldifferently.com">https://www.dwelldifferently.com</a> (Use code DADTIRED for 10% off)</li><li>Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p> In this episode, Jerrad shares how a small moment in the kitchen led to two days of silence. What seemed like a simple argument uncovered old pressure, unspoken expectations, and a deep fear of not being enough. He reflects on how that pattern formed in childhood, how it still shows up today, and what it looks like to let Jesus into places marked by shame and performance.</p><p>Tune in to hear how honesty can lead to healing, even in the quiet places you try to ignore.</p><p><br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>How unhealed wounds show up in everyday parenting and marriage</li><li>Why a simple moment can expose deep identity struggles</li><li>The lie every man wrestles with: “I’m not good enough”</li><li>What childhood pain has to do with present behavior</li><li>Why silence and anger often point to something deeper</li><li>How your story can shift when you let Jesus speak into it</li><li>The importance of counseling, confession, and soul health</li><li>What your kids need more than a perfect dad</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Philippians 1:6, Romans 8:1, Revelation 21</li><li>Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad  and Kaleb Allen talk about spiritual warfare—specifically in the lives of children. Kaleb shares how moments of anger and insecurity in his home opened his eyes to something deeper happening in his kids’ hearts. He reflects on why discipline isn't always just about behavior, and how parents can miss the spiritual battle taking place underneath the surface. Together they talk about identity, prayer, and what it means to protect your home without fear or pressure.</p><p>Tune in to hear how spiritual covering begins with honesty, humility, and simple faithfulness.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why our kids aren’t exempt from spiritual warfare</li><li>How unhealed wounds show up in childhood</li><li>Signs that your child may be under spiritual pressure</li><li>The difference between discipline and discipleship</li><li>What it means to create a spiritual covering over your home</li><li>Why simple prayers like the Lord’s Prayer still hold power</li><li>How to help your kids recognize lies and stand on truth</li><li>The role of confession and repentance in family leadership</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>“The Christian in Complete Armour” by William Gurnall</li><li>The Dad Tired Community (Free, off social media) – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Dad Tired Q&amp;A Mixtape – wherever books are sold</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad shares the burden of watching good men fall. Not because they wanted to, but because they fed something that eventually took over. He talks about hidden addictions, quiet compromises, and the kind of decisions that seem small until they’re not. He tells the story of what it means to let sin grow, how it steals joy and freedom, and what it looks like to cut it out before it cuts you down. This is about finishing well, not through willpower, but by starving what’s trying to take you out.</p><p>Tune in to hear why your future depends on what you feed today.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why moral failure doesn’t start big</li><li>How compromise grows into control</li><li>What the Bible says about desire, sin, and death</li><li>Why your habits shape the legacy your kids will remember</li><li>How to starve what’s killing you instead of trying to manage it</li><li>The difference between salvation and discipleship</li><li>What Jesus meant when He said to cut it off</li><li>Why finishing well requires sacrifice, not just intention</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>James 1:15, Romans 12:1–2, Matthew 5:29–30</li><li>Dad Tired Q&amp;A Mixtape</li><li>Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Kyle Idleman to talk about what it means to move from admiration to transformation. Kyle reflects on the challenge of being a father who wants to fix things but has to face the fear of not being in control. He shares stories of failure, frustration, and how real connection with Jesus shapes who we are at home. They also explore how staying connected to Christ produces lasting fruit in a world pushing performance.</p><p>Tune in to hear how surrender leads to strength and why connection matters more than control.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why fear, not anger, drives many parenting responses</li><li>The pressure to fix vs. the need to trust</li><li>What it looks like to bear fruit by staying connected to Jesus</li><li>The lie of masculine independence and the power of asking for help</li><li>How honesty with friends can transform your inner world</li><li>What real spiritual leadership looks like in a home</li><li>Kyle’s reflections on John 15 and the danger of performance-driven faith</li><li>How to flip your calendar to prioritize connection over production</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>“Not a Fan” by Kyle Idleman</li><li>“When Your Way Isn’t Working” </li><li>Backgate Prayers – <a href="https://www.backgateprayers.com">https://www.backgateprayers.com</a> (use code DADTIRED for 10% off)</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad reflects on what it means to be a dad who is fully present. He shares how growing up without his dad shaped the way he parents now. He also talks about how easy it is to be physically home but mentally somewhere else. Through Scripture, he traces the story of a God who shows up, and what that means for dads who want to lead with presence.</p><p> Tune in to hear  what it means to dwell with your kids the way God dwells with you.  <br><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why presence matters more than performance</li><li>How your childhood shapes the kind of father you become</li><li>The difference between being around and being with</li><li>What the Bible says about God’s presence with His children</li><li>Why emotional and spiritual availability is part of leadership</li><li>The cost of distraction and the gift of full attention</li><li>How God’s story from Genesis to Revelation models fatherhood</li><li>Questions to ask about where your time and focus are going</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Dad Tired Community – free group for dads: <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Dad Tired Q&amp;A Mixtape – https://amzn.to/4bXdfhd</li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Jake Bodine to talk about the kind of hope that reaches beyond prison walls. Jake shares how his relationship with his father shaped his early struggles and how God used that brokenness to lead him into prison ministry. He tells stories from inside the walls—about the men he meets, the families impacted, and the surprising hunger for God in places most people overlook.</p><p>Tune in to hear how the gospel moves through the darkest places and why no one is too far gone.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Jake’s story of father wounds, identity, and redemption</li><li>How God Behind Bars started with one yes</li><li>Why prisons are filled with men desperate for truth</li><li>What it’s like to preach in a prison yard</li><li>How addiction and abandonment shape the lives of inmates</li><li>Why the Church often overlooks incarcerated men</li><li>What freedom really means when you're locked up</li><li>How to pray for and support men behind bars</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>God Behind Bars – <a href="https://www.godbehindbars.com">https://www.godbehindbars.com</a></li><li>Jake Bodine’s story – featured at godbehindbars.com/about</li><li>Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p>In this episode, Jerrad shares what happened when he said yes to something that seemed simple and ended up with more than he expected. He reflects on a small coaching job that turned into a heavy load and how that experience mirrors the call to follow Jesus. Over time, what starts with excitement often turns into something harder and holier. Jerrad walks through the life of Peter and how Jesus kept asking one question, even when things got tough.</p><p>Tune in to hear why following Jesus means saying yes again especially when it's not easy.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>The surprising cost of small commitments</li><li>Why Jesus kept asking Peter, “Are you still in?”</li><li>How tiredness can impact your faith and decisions</li><li>The link between physical exhaustion and spiritual drift</li><li>Why God doesn’t just want your belief, but your whole life</li><li>What sanctification really means in everyday life</li><li>How to protect your mind and heart when you’re worn out</li><li>The difference between being saved and being surrendered</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li>Classical Conversations – https://classicalconversations.com/dadtired</li><li>John 6 and John 21 referenced in the teaching</li><li>Dad Tired Q&amp;A Mixtape </li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

<p> In this episode, Jerrad shares a chapter from the <em>Dad Tired Mixtape</em> audiobook. He tells a story from early parenting; one night when exhaustion and insecurity hit hard. It raised a question he hadn’t fully answered: Are we praying with our kids the way we should?<br>He discusses the barriers that keep dads from praying out loud with their children. Jerrad also reflects on how Jesus prayed: simple, honest, and from the heart. Then he connects it to what it means to lead your family in prayer today. </p><p>Tune in to hear how simple prayers can change the atmosphere in your home.</p><p><strong>What You’ll Hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why many dads feel stuck or insecure about praying with their kids</li><li>The power of short, spontaneous, and authentic prayer</li><li>What Scripture reveals about how Jesus prayed</li><li>Real stories from the Dad Tired community</li><li>Why spiritual leadership isn’t about performance</li><li>How to break through awkwardness and start praying out loud</li><li>The connection between your personal prayer life and family leadership</li><li>Practical ways to invite God into everyday moments</li></ul><p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p><ol><li><em>Dad Tired Q&amp;A Mixtape</em> </li><li>The Dad Tired Community – <a href="https://www.dadtired.com">https://www.dadtired.com</a></li><li>Invite Jerrad to speak – <a href="https://www.jerradlopes.com">https://www.jerradlopes.com</a></li><li>Read The Dad Tired Book – <a href="https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB">https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB</a></li></ol>

Host Jerrad Lopes shares a recent story of when he felt stuck as a dad and how he handled it. Listen as he helps listeners process their own feelings of inadequacy and how they can point they can still point their family toward a better father.

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Today Jerrad sits down with recording artist Billy Ballenger to hear his amazing testimony of God's redemption.

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Today Chris Hilken shares the common reasons behind why dads feel anger, why we often lose our temper, and how to practically manage your anger as the spiritual leader of your home.

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Jerrad shares that fight that changed his life, how it might impact your marriage, and what this means for the future.

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Jerrad sits down with Grammy Award Winning artist, Steven Curtis Chapman for a very raw interview that covers anger, putting a hole through the wall, grief, insecurity, and much more.

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Have you ever felt stuck trying to explain the trinity to your kids? In this episode, pastor Chris Hilken shares the theology of the trinity, and practical ways to explain it to your children.

Before you're a husband. Before you're a dad. Before you're even a 'man of God'. You're this...

What are your thoughts on Halloween? Do you know why you think what you do? Do you have a game-plan to teach your kids about Halloween and why you've made the decision you have regarding the holiday? In today's episode, Chris Hilken teaches the history of

Are you the kind of man your wife and kids feel comfortable following? What does that even look like to lead your family? Sit down with host Jerrad Lopes and his wife Leila to talk about what it looks like to be a man who leads his family well (and the ti

On today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, listen as Jerrad and the "Check Your Vertical" podcast share their raw stories of God redeeming their marriages and how that reflects that gospel.

Very rarely do men have conversations about miscarriage and the grief that it can cause a family. In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with pastor Eric Schumacher to talk about the pain of miscarriage, how a man can gri

On today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, pastor Chris Hilken addresses the questions that many of your children will wrestle with: Do all paths lead to heaven?Questions for your local meet-up:* Do all belief systems lead to Salvation?* How do you resp

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Jerrad is joined by his wife Leila to talk about a variety of issues facing most families: being too busy, dealing with grief, starting schooling, making big family decisions, and so much more.Questions for you

Following Jesus has never been harder. In a culture that glamorizes sex, chases fame, and shames those who dont fall in line, it takes a rebel to be a Christian.In today's interview, Sean McDowell sits down with host Jerrad Lopes to encourage and inspire

Does it make sense for God to say, "Do not be afraid" based on how you're living right now?

If you put the 66 books of the Bible into just one sentence, what would you say the Bible is all about? In today's episode, Chris Hilken talks through some confusion of the Bible and what it means for us as dads who are trying to lead our family well.Podc

Every marriage will face disaster. Illness or cancer. Job loss or financial burdens. Addiction. Anxiety. Infidelity. Loss of faith. It's not a question of if your marriage will face trials. It's a question of when. Whether you've been married for five yea

On today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Patrick Morley to talk about the Four Voices playing out in the heads of most men.Questions for your local meet up:* Do you know God loves you because he made you or are you wor

On today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes shares what it looks like to teach our children how to remember the faithfulness of God, and why that's so critical to their faith journey.Questions for your local meet up:Do you trust the goo

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Pastor and Author Winfield Bevins to talk about how liturgy leads to family worship.Questions for your local meet up: * Are you familiar with liturgical practices, or are they fairly new to you?* The li

What does spiritual leadership look like practically in real-life? Do you have the right expectations for yourself when it comes to leading your family well? In episode two of the Killing The Myths of Spiritual Leadership Series, we talk about the actions

What does spiritual leadership look like practically in real-life? Do you have the right expectations for yourself when it comes to leading your family well?Questions for your meet-up group:* How would you define “spiritual leadership?” Would you consider

Jerrad Lopes sits down with former NFL quarterback Jeff Kemp to talk about what real-life Godly friendships look like for the busy dad.Discussion Questions for your meet-up: * In the past, has it been easy or hard for your to find deep and meaningful rela

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Sathiya Sam to talk through the root problems of porn habits, and how to overcome them.Find a Dad Tired community near you: https://www.dadtired.com/meetup.htmlJoin the online D

In this week's episode of A Parents Guide to Apologetics, pastor Chris Hilken walks us through the argument titled: The Problem with Evil. You can find a list of recommended resources for apologetics at: https://www.dadtired.com/homework.html

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with author and counselor David Thomas (LMSW) to talk about what it looks like to raise emotionally healthy children.Are you connected with our online community? Head to https://www.

In today's episode of A Parents Guide to Apologetics, Chris Hilken teaches dads how to walk their kids through the "moral" argument.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Dove-Award winning artists Shane &amp; Shane to hear their journey of fatherhood, friendship and music. The two share their own story of God's faithfulness, while encouraging li

In week three of A Parents Guide to Apologetics, host Chris Hilken walks dads through the Argument of Design.

If you had 40 letters to write to your kids, wife, or loved ones before you died, what would you want to say? Our wife and kids know that we love them, but how often do they hear it? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes sits with author John Sowers to ta

In week two of A Parents Guide to Apologetics host Chris Hilken walks us through one of the most important questions our kids will ever ask: Why is there something instead of nothing? or How did we all get here?

Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with Best-Selling author Hillary Morgan Ferrer (Mama Bear Apologetics) to talk about the subtle lies that creep into our child's theology from both the world and The Church.

In week one of A Parents Guide to Apologetics host Chris Hilken helps dads understand the major worldviews in our culture, and how they impact our children.

What happens when a man decides to lay down his own ways in order to better serve his wife and family? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he hears the story of Ashley &amp; Dino Petrone.

Can the way we see money actually impact the way we lead our family spiritually? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with financial expert Bob Lotich to talk about money, generosity, and the Kingdom of God.

We all long for homes where we can thrive and flourish. What does it take to have a spiritually vibrant household? Don Everts sits down with host Jerrad Lopes contemplate what the Bible says about households and consider what a new research project has re

In today's episode host Jerrad Lopes sits down with author and mother Elrena Evans to talk about the realities of navigating the faith journey as a family with special needs.

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Chris Hilken as he shares his powerful story of leading his children toward Jesus in the midst of unexpected tragedy.

Your masculine instincts are neither curse nor virtue. They can not be ignored nor indulged. They are the raw material and experiences by which you develop a new and better instinct—an instinct of faith. Sit down with pastor and writer Chase Replogle as h

Jerrad Lopes sits down with best-selling author Andy Crouch to talk about what it looks like to be dads who create meaningful connections, rebuild abundant communities, and live in a way that engages our full humanity in an age of unprecedented anxiety an

Most of us dads under-estimate how much scripture our kids are able to memorize. More importantly, we often under value how vital that practice is for their spiritual journey. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with Hunter Beless to talk about why it'

What if our fulfillment wasn't the primary purpose of our work? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with best-selling author Jordan Raynor to talk about what God had in mind when he created us for work.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired Podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with best-selling authors Melissa and Michael Kruger to discuss practical ways to build healthy prayer routines in your family.

Most men feel like they don't have a good Bible reading routine. On top of that, they often feel like when they do read the scriptures, they aren't always sure how to interpret what they're reading. In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad

In possibly the most riveting interview to date, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with former Force Recon Marine to talk about his multiple Afghan deployments, his rise to MMA super stardom, his battle with PTSD and how all of it almost cost him marriage and f

Jerrad sits down with Skillet lead singer, John Cooper, to talk homeschooling, social media and the rise of relative truth in 2022.

How do you know when to keep being faithful at your current job, and when to start looking for something new. What does the Bible the Bible say about work and vocation? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes tackles that question with author and theologian

Is it possible that we can live such cluttered lives, that it actually impacts our relationship with Jesus? Can your cluttered space lead to a cluttered mind? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with minimalism expert Joshua Becker (becomingminimalist.

On today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Jerrad sits down with author Justin Camp to talk about community and why it's so rare.

On today's episode, Jerrad sits down to hear the story of Michael Phillips. Michael's life was flipped upside down when his father unexpectedly died, which led to a series of devastating life decisions.

How do people feel after interacting with you and your family? Do they walk away feeling different; like they've experienced the Kingdom of God? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by his best friend Casey Parker to talk about what it looks li

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes shares why spiritual leaders purposely shrink their circle.

Bored men are dangerous men. In today's episode host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Mike Mantel (President &amp; CEO of Living Water International) to talk about how men can find adventure in God's Redemption story.

On today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Dr. Curt Thompson to discuss the science behind shame, longing, and our desire to be known.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with author and spoken word artist Blair Linne, to talk about the pain of fatherlessness, and more importantly, the hope that the Gospel brings. If your father was absent, either phy

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with author Brent Crowe to talk about how the ancient wisdom of Jesus offers our family stability in the midst of a chaotic world. The pair also talk how to protect your family from

On today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by author Felicia Wu Song to discuss how to know when your devices are shaping you and your family to the point of harm. Is there a way to combat the relentless use of technology in your life and in the life

Jerrad sits down with his wife Leila to talk through Biblical and healthy ways to process making hard decisions as a family. Find the FREE worksheet at dad tired.com/worksheet to help guide you through your next difficult decision.

On today's show, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by author and pastor David Marvin to discuss why we're all freaking out (and why we don't need to).

Join host Jerrad Lopes as he hit sits down with Roland C. Warren to talk about all things manhood. The pair cover the topics of: Bad Dads of the Bible, Raising Sons of Promise, Toxic Masculinity, The Role of A Father in the Church, and so much more.

Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with best-selling author Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about what it looks like to be a dad who creates habits of the household. These practical daily rhythms will provide simple ways to bring order, rest, and the Go

Research has shown that many teenagers will leave the faith after high school because they felt like the religion their parents offered was too black and white. Essentially, there was no room to ask hard questions. In today's interview we tackle the hard

If you're a dad who feels like you've lost control of your time or your schedule; whether that be a work, at home, or in regards to your rest, today's episode will be encouraging to you. Listen as host Jerrad Lopes sits down with best-selling author Jorda

Just about every man would admit to struggling with pornography in some shape or form. It is one of the greatest tools of the enemy to destroy men, marriages, and families. It can cause a man who loves the Lord to feel overwhelmed with shame and hopelessn

Our world is full of men who are still boys. How do we raise sons who can confidently know when they've moved from boyhood to manhood? As Christian fathers, we must create an intentional plan to move our sons from boys, to the men God has called them to b

In today's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with Josh M., one of the Dad Tired community members, as he shares his story of how God rose him up after hitting rock bottom.

We've all heard the saying, "It Takes A Village To Raise A Child". Well, as it turns out, it's true. The data is proving it. In today's episode, Jerrad Lopes sits down with Awana President Matt Markins to discuss the data around what it actually takes to

Whether you're considering homeschooling, just started homeschooling, or are a veteran homeschool family who could use a little encouragement, today's episode is for you. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with Durenda Wilson, a homeschool mom of eigh

All of us know that there is no such thing as a perfect parent, yet somehow we still seemed to judge ourselves on the scale of perfection. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with Dave &amp; Ann Wilson to talk about what it looks like to set realistic

Today host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Best-Selling Author, Jason Wilson (Cry Like A Man). Jason has been featured on the Joe Rogan podcast, ESPN, along with dozens of national television shows. The pair discuss what it looks like to become a comprehensiv

Are you and your wife in different places spiritually? Is it causing a loss of intimacy and connection? Join host Jerrad Lopes and his wife Leila as they share their own story and offer hope to the Christian couples who aren't on the same page spiritually

Feeling stuck on how to get your kids to read the Bible more? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares how dads can help their children read the Bible more, based on their specific age.

There were times in Jesus' ministry where he it seemed that he actually tried to talk people out of following him. At the very least, he wanted to make sure they counted the cost. Many of us are excited to move forward toward the places God is leading us,

If you consider yourself a Dad Tired listener, I'm asking you to take 20 minutes and listen to all of this episode.

If you're a dad, you're likely exhausted. There's nothing more you and your family want than some good soul rest. Maybe you've heard about the idea of practicing sabbath as a family, but have no idea where to begin. Or, maybe you've tried a few times but

Are you and your family searching for a healthy church to plug into? Not sure what to look for in a church? How do you know if the church you're attending is a healthy church? In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes outlines 6 qualitie

In today's episode, we cover the very painful topic of infertility. If you, or someone you know, has struggled with infertility, or the loss of a baby today's episode will be an encouragement to you.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with actor and director Jason Mac to discuss what a father's legacy is, and how you know you're starting to leave one.

Want to know God better this week? Join host Jerrad Lopes and guest Greg Bledsoe as they challenge the Dad Tired listeners with one specific exercise that a family can do to learn more about who God is.

Feel like you're headed toward emotional, spiritual and physical burn out as a dad? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes shares 4 indicators of burnout, and how to avoid it as a husband, father, and disciple.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Jerrad shares his top 7 resources for 2021. You'll everything from top books, to travel hacking, to the best coffee mugs for tired dads.

Maybe you're doing all the right things as a Christian dad, but there is still that one thing causing you to get tripped up.

In today's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes and his wife Leila as they discuss 5 practical ways that you can immediately improve your communication in marriage.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Grammy Award Winning Artist Harry Connick Jr. to talk about his journey of faith. The pair also cover topics on fatherhood, doubt, and what it's like to find a faith on your own

As Christian dads, we often think that parenting is a one-way street; that we're the only ones depositing into them. But, what happens when God uses our kids to drop spiritual deposits into us? This emotional, raw, and compelling interview will definitely

Do you feel like your tank is running low as a man? How does that impact your relationships as a father, husband, and disciple? Learn more about how running on empty impacts your role as a Christian dad in today's episode with Jerrad Lopes.

Are you willing to be a leader who leads his family where God calls you, even when it doesn't make sense on paper? Join Jerrad Lopes as he interviews Jason Brown, former NFL player, turned farmer, for an episode you won't want to miss.

Do your kids know how to suffer well? In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as her shares what it looks like for a dad to learn good theology of suffering, and in turn, teach that to his children.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Mike and Bart from the band MercyMe to talk about why it takes a village to raise our kids. The band members also share their own journeys as fathers, and what they learned from

“When we confess to Jesus our sin, when we confess to Jesus our doubt, when we confess to Jesus our struggles… there has never once been a moment in our life where we have done that and Jesus walked away more informed about our lives.” If you are struggli

Let's be real, most guys don't feel qualified to lead their family well. Whether it be past mistakes, or current hang-ups, we simply don't feel qualified or equipped to be the men God is calling us to be. In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join

Many married couples often fight dirty because they were never taught how to fight well. In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes shares what it looks like for a dad to lay the ground work of teaching his children how to fight well,

It's highly possible that you're missing this part of God's heart. And, as a result, your kids may be missing it, too.  

Most dads feel like phonies. Like they preach one thing to their kids, but don't actually live it out in real life. In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, be encouraged as host Jerrad Lopes shares his experience of not wanting to fall short.

In today’s episode of the Dad Tired Podcast, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with author &amp; pastor Adam Griffin to talk about what Family Discipleship actually looks like in 2021, how do we talk to our kids about the issues of the current cultural climate,

What if your kids need more than a dad who shares Jesus with them? In today's episode, Jerrad shares the most important thing your children need.

In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes shares a quality of God's heart that he desperately longs for you to have as a father. If you are a Christian dad, listen to this episode to learn what it means to expand your 'dad' influence, an

Today host Jerrad Lopes is joined by author Carl Laferton to talk about his new book, "The God Contest", and practical ways fathers can help their children share their faith.

Why do some families thrive while others seem to fly by the seat of their pants? In today's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares the practical ways dads can help facilitate a successful family culture.

Most of us are ready to put 2020 behind us. But, what if God has one more thing to teach you before the year is over? If you're serious about leading your family well and becoming the husband and father you long to be, today's episode with host Jerrad Lop

Today host Jerrad Lopes is joined by best-selling author, Morgan Snyder to discuss his new book 'Becoming A King: The Path to Restoring The Heart of A Man".

If you knew your life would end shorter than you wanted it to, what would your last words be to your kids? What would be the thing you wanted to tell them most? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Blake Brewer, who shares his powerful story

Matt Parker used to be a youth pastor. Now, he goes undercover around the world to fight against human trafficking. I asked him how he found himself doing such an incredible and risky job, to which he simply replied: “1000 small steps”. If you feel like G

When you have a purpose and a plan, technology can be a tool to bring your family closer together. But, left as a default activity, technology as a toy will rob your family of quality time and memories together every time. As you decide what's healthy for

If your soul is longing for more adventure, this episode is for you. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he interviews best-selling author, John Eldredge (Wild At Heart). The two discuss what stops Christian dads from stepping into the adventure God has for them, a

Today host Jerrad Lopes is joined by UFC fighter, and new dad, Joe Solecki. Joe shares his story of how God re-captured his heart and prepared him to be the leader his family desired. Embarking on his new role as a father, Joe reflects back on his journey

Do you feel like your family doesn’t seem to quite fit the normal Christian mold? Maybe you come from a broken or blended family, or are currently part of one. In today’s episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Ron Deal from Smart Stepfamilies to talk abo

We all want our kids to be blessed. But, what if our definition of blessing is different than Jesus'?

Ask yourself these three questions: 1. If you're honest with yourself, are you really committed to being the leader your family needs? 2. Do you have a clear vision of where you are trying to lead them? Something that compels you to get out of bed every m

We all want to hear from God, but rarely do we make time to listen. It's hard to be a dad who is doing a good job as the spiritual leader of his home, when he doesn't hear where God wants to lead him. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he takes a deeper look into

As young Christian dads, it's important to learn from those who have gone ahead of us. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Jason Houser (founder of Seeds Family Worship). Jason shares his struggles, wins, and learnings from decades of marri

In today's episode of Dad Tired, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by comedian Michael Jr. to talk about a single question that could radically change your perspective as a husband, father, and disciple. Michael Jr. will bring encourage and likely touch the hea

Should Christian dads be prepping? Does God even care, and what does the Bible have to say about it? Whether it's a natural disaster, economic crash, or a terrorist attack; should Christian dads prepare to take care of their family?

It's hard to lead your family toward a God that you don't currently feel close to. In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes encourages you to ask one of the most important questions you can ask yourself this week as a dad and followe

In today's episode, Jerrad Lopes is joined by UFC star Beneil Dariush. Coming off a 5-fight win-streak, Beneil shares: how he began his career in Mixed Martial Arts, how winning became his god, his ultimate surrender to Christ, and his plans to become a m

Should we as Christian dads exercise? Does God actually care about our physical health? Does that Bible say anything about this topic, and does it effect the way I lead my family? Host Jerrad Lopes discusses all these topics on today's episode of the Dad

Is it possible that our kids will miss out on our wisdom and instruction because they never felt like they were delighted in? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares the subtle dangers of not delighting in our children and the ramifications t

Is your family a peace-making family? Are other people drawn to your family? Are you leading your family to be a blessing to others? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares what it practically looks like to be a Christian dad who leads a fami

The world is crazy right now. Every topic seems to be so divisive. Even Christians are having a hard time discussing hard topics among each other. In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Dad Tired member, Jamy to discuss a hot topic in which they

Hiding is nothing new, it started in the garden of Eden. In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes talks about how every dad is still hiding in some way, and how the Good News and reputation of Jesus invites us out.

There are many Christian dads who want to lead their families toward something that they haven't personally experienced. If you are a dad who wants your family to experience the hope, healing, and restoration of Jesus, but have yet to find it yourself, th

In March 2020, Dad Tired community member Brandon Janous lost his wife to cancer after a two year battle. She was 38 and a mother 3. Today's episode will no doubt shift your perspective and priorities as you hear Brandon share with Jerrad what he has lear

Is it possible to be an absent father, even when you're present? Many adults talk about how even felt like their father wasn't present, even though he was physically around. In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he discusses what it looks like to be

What does it look like for a Christian dad to be the spiritual leader of his home during major world events? How does he continue to point his family to Jesus when the world seems a little chaotic. Is there opportunity to grow closer to God, and help your

One of the biggest fears that we should have as Christian fathers is that we succeed at everything in life, but fail to love and lead our family well. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by CEO Daniel Harkavy to discuss where the best leaders

Maybe you feel stuck in your old habits, and don't know how to change. Or maybe you've experience serious emotional trauma and you've never had the courage to face it. In today's powerful interview, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Dr. Joe Martin, who share

When most Christian dads think through how to lead their family well, one of the first questions that comes to mind is, "What devotional should I read?" or "What should family Bible time look like in my home?" In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is join

Are you leading your family like a disgruntled employee, or a successful CEO? In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes covers 5 ways a Christian father can lead his wife and kids in the same way a successful CEO leads an organization.

Most dads want to be the spiritual leader of their home, yet very few fathers were ever taught how to be that kind of Christian husband and father. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award-winning film-maker Alex Kendrick (War Room, Facing

Have you ever had a moment as a dad where you did something well and surprised yourself? Almost like the wisdom came from beyond yourself? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award winning music artist Cody Carnes (The Blessing, Nothing Els

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by best-selling authors Ruth &amp; Troy Simons, and founders of gracelaced.com. As the parents of 6 boys, Troy and Ruth spend their time equipping young parents to know and love the Gospel, and helping their

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by his wife Leila to discuss the different roles that both the husband and wife play to contribute to a thriving family.

In one of his most down-to-earth interviews to date, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Christian recording artist Micah Tyler to talk about everything under the sun. The pair cover topics like being the spiritual leader of your home, being on the same page

How much screen time is too much? Are video games ok for your kids? How does that Gospel change the way we look at all of these things. Whether you and your kids are addicted to tech, or you don't know how to work a smart phone, this episode will point yo

In this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Grammy award winning artist Matthew West to talk about the heart behind his hit song "The God Who Stays". Matthew reminds Christian husbands and fathers that the reason they s

This week's news of the Coronavirus Pandemic has caused a lot of chaos and confusion. If you have a spouse who is already prone to anxiety, these events might add to the problem. In this week's episode, Jerrad is joined by his wife Leila, who admittedly s

I know a lot of you guys are struggling with what you are doing with your life. Many of you have shared that you feel like you're going through a mid-life crisis as a man, or that you still haven't figured out what you want to do when you grow up. If you

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Grammy award winning hip-hop artist, Lecrae. The world-famous rapper shares parts his story about his father that he's never shared with anyone else. He also talks about his own journey as a father, how w

Money is often listed as one of the top contributors of stress for most couples. But what happens when you and your spouse don't see eye to eye when it comes to finances? Or maybe neither of you were ever taught how to manage money well? In this episode,

Grant Baldwin of The Speaker Lab joins host Jerrad Lopes to discuss whether dads should quit their job to pursue their dreams. Grant shares his personal experience of leaving a stable job in ministry to pursue entrepreneur endeavors, and how that can effe

As parents it can feel like we are always telling our kids what not to do. In this episode Jerrad Lopes gives practical ways to not just discipline your kids, but to remind them of who God created them to be. The episode offers both theological and practi

If you feel like sitting down and having a family meal is more like a chore, and less like a time to lead your family toward Jesus, this episode is for you. As young dads, it can often seem as though a family meal is something to simply power through and

There is a saying that goes, "99% of men admit to dealing with pornography at some level, and 1% lie". The statistic may not be accurate, but the principle remains the same; pornography has affected almost all of us men in some way. In today's episode, Je

It's hard to be intentional about leading your family, when you don't know where you're trying to go. In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Jeremy Pryor to talk about why and how to create a family mission statement that your whole family can ge

It's hard to lead your family toward Jesus when you personally feel far from Him. In this episode, Jerrad shares very honestly about what to do when you are in seasons of life that are "spiritually dry" and four helpful questions any dad can ask themself.

In this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Dr. Gary Chapman to discuss the importance of learning the love languages of both your wife and children.

In this episode, Jerrad takes live questions from the guys of the Dad Tired community. Topics include technology boundaries for kids, playing favorites with your kids, balancing work and business, Bethel Church, and how to handle parents/in-laws.

Do your kids know why we celebrate Christmas? Do they understand the gravity of Jesus being born? In this episode, join Jerrad Lopes as he talks about the meaning of Christmas in the midst of the busy chaos, and how it has radical implications for our liv

Pastor and Author, David Platt joins Jerrad Lopes to talk about his new book, Something Needs To Change, while also talking about his own journey as a husband and father who is trying to lead his family well.

In today's episode, former Sanctus Real frontman, Matt Hammitt talks about his journey of stumbling through what it means to be the spiritual leader of his family.

When our marriage and family isn't operating the way we'd want it to, our first response is typically to blame. But, what if something deeper is going on? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares why most families are leaning toward death with

The majority of men walk around with a "dad wound"; some kind of hurt that was creating by their father. Most of these wounds originate from the words, actions, or absence of their father. Is it possible to heal from these wounds? And, how to we not creat

Kristen Jenson, best selling author of "Good Pictures, Bad Pictures" joins host Jerrad Lopes to talk about how we as parents can protect our children from pornography, and what to do if they have been exposed.

How do you know if you're growing as a mature believer in Christ? How do you know if your kids are? Do you have a game-plan for helping your kids grow in discipleship? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about what it looks like to know wh

John Mark Comer says that some of his worst moments as a husband and father are when he is in a hurry. Can you relate? When you are living a life that is busy and rushed, are you loving those around you like Jesus would, or are you short-tempered, frustra

In today's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks with pastor, husband, and father Chris Cipollone about living a life with depression, anxiety. If you, or someone you love is struggling in this area, today's episode is for you.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Anthony ONeal of the Dave Ramsey Team. The pair talk about the student loan crisis, while Anthony offers a path to sending your children through college without taking on any debt

This past week Jerrad and Leila got into a fight that ended with Leila in tears. It was the first fight they had had in years. Listen as they process where they went wrong and what you can do to fight for unity in your marriage.

Seasons of change and transitions are inevitable. Whether it be change at work, change in career, or moving to a new home or state, change is bound to come. But, what does it look like to lead your family well in these seasons of change? Join host Jerrad

In today's episode, Jerrad is joined by Ryan and Selena Frederick, founders of Fierce Marriage, to talk about what it looks like for couples to relentlessly chase after both Jesus and each other.

Many of us guys are longing to find adventure in our lives. We turn to things like hobbies, sports, work, or even sinful things like pornography, alcohol and affairs. In this episode, Jerrad talks about what it looks like to practically find adventure in

In this week's episode, David Cotrone joins host Jerrad Lopes to talk about what it looks like to live on mission as a father, husband and small business owner. If you're stuck on what it looks like to live radically for Jesus in your day-to-day life as a

Some of us have convinced ourselves that our thought life is free reign to mediate on whatever we'd like. Jesus seemed to have a different idea of what thought life should look like for his followers.

In today's episode, former NHL star, and husband to Carrie Underwood, Mike Fisher joins Jerrad to talk about the goal of being a Jesus-centered dad.

In today's podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Joshua Straub, co-founder of Famous At Home to discuss the 7 ways to become famous at home. Jerrad and Josh discuss at length what it looks like for a guy to become better at processing and expressing his

Do you feel like you're a good listener? How would your wife and kids answer that question about you? In today's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes and his wife Leila as they have an honest conversation about how to listen to your spouse well.

Are you struggling with doubt? Do you have a child who is already doubting their faith? In the episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks with Pastor Dominic Done about his book "When Faith Fails".

In today's episode, NFL Hall-of-Fame coach Tony Dungy talks about his upbringing, his biggest moments in the NFL, raising 10 kids, and what our kids will remember most about their childhood with their dad.

Are you feeling stuck on whether or not you should have more kids? Maybe you're content with how things are, but your wife is starting to get baby-fever. If you're not sure whether you should have more kids, or feeling guilty about your reasons for not wa

Are you having a hard time finding a church? Maybe you're not totally convinced that you really even need church. If we're honest, we can find great messages and worship online and be spiritually fed outside of the local church. We're also not convinced t

This week, Jerrad interviews author, pastor, and friend, Chris Nye about his new book Less of More, and what it means for us as men. Description of Less of More: For most Americans, the pursuit of happiness really means the pursuit of more--more money, mo

Do you ever feel like you're asking your kids to be someone you're not? Are you demanding them to show qualities and characteristics that you haven't mastered yourself? In this week's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about the different between

A lot of couples talk about how they feel disconnected as husband + wife after having a baby. This is especially true for men. If you're struggling to find intimate connection with your wife, while also raising young kids, this episode is for you. Join ho

Have you struggled with infertility? Do you know someone who has? Have you been asking God for something for years and feel like he remains silent? If so, this episode is for you. Writer, speaker, and broadcaster Sheridan Voysey joins host Jerrad Lopes as

On this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Jerrad is joined by husband and wife duo Aaron (Husband Revolution) &amp; Jennifer Smith (Unveiled Wife). The couple has recently joined up to created the ministry Marriage After God. They are the co-author

What do you do when you know you need to support your family, but don't like your job? When is it ok to quit? How do you know where God is calling you? In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as he covers the topics of careers, an

Former Navy Seal, author, and actor Remi Adeleke joins host Jerrad Lopes on the Dad Tired podcast to share his story of transformation. Sponsor: Marriage After God

This week Jerrad is joined by Family Team's co-founder, Jeremy Pryor. Jeremy had an epiphany over two decades ago, realizing that the way we do family in the West is mostly a failed experiment, and the scriptures are calling us back to a bigger and better

A listener recently asked me on Instagram, "Is it ok for dads to prioritize 'self-care', and if so, what does self-care look like?" In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes and his Wife Leila as they seek to answer this question from a Gospel-centered pers

Are you still Dad Tired? Not just physically exhausted, but worn down in your soul? Stressed, overwhelmed, weary? In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about the cause of our "soul fatigue" as dads, what it looks lik

In a season of transition? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he interviews worship leader, Mack Brock on what it looks like for a Christian man to handle seasons of transition. Sponsors: Marriage After God &amp; Skylight Frames

So many guys say that they believe the Good News of Jesus. In fact, most guys would attest that it's the greatest news of all time. What's confusing, however, is that that good news doesn't always translate into joy. Many men feel like they are grumpy, an

In this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes and his wife Leila as they talk about what it looks like to bend your life so that the other spouse can follow their dreams and passions? Is it ever too much? When does following your

There are many couples who are facing difficulty when it comes to dealing with their in-laws. These couples have a high desire to have their in-laws involved in their marriage and in the lives of their children, but just can't seem to get on the same page

Bored men are dangerous men. The problem is, there are a lot of bored Christian men. Men who are sitting in churches week after week who are longing for more. In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as he discusses the heart behin

In this episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about making long-term conclusions about life in short-term seasons of life. Sponsors: Marriage After God &amp; Faithbox

BONUS EPISODE: Jerrad takes a few minutes to share his honest thoughts about the future of Dad Tired. www.DadTired.com/donate (https://www.dadtired.com/donate)

In this incredibly vulnerable episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by his wife as they talked about what it looks like to pursue the heart of your spouse. The deeper you get into the episode, the more vulnerable it becomes. This i

Ryan Stevenson is taking the Christian music scene by storm. Join him and host Jerrad Lopes as they talk about his journey as a musician, dad, and husband.

Just days after celebrating their 15th wedding anniversary, Jonathan tragically lost his wife to unexpected heart failure. In this interview, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks with pastor Jonathan Pitts about his journey of loss and what motivated him to

Sometimes as Christian dads, it can be confusing when it comes to leading our family. What exactly are we supposed leading them toward? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he discusses the goal of every Christian family, and practical ways to lead

In this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Jerrad sits down with Switchfoot's lead singer, Jon Foreman to discuss culture, fatherhood, being a pastor's kid, and compartmentalizing our faith. Jon also shares what his motivation was to write his the b

As Christian dads, it's easy to get stuck in a pattern of simply correcting your child's behavior. In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he walks father's through what it looks like to parent our children like God parents us; slowly, intentionally, a

What would it look like to raise children who saw themselves has part of a multi-generational team, sent out by God to be used for his redemption of the world? Are these the type of children you’re currently raising? Do you have a plan to instill this typ

In the second part of this two part series, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by his wife Leila to discuss how to approach education as followers of Jesus. In this episode, the pair shares how they decided on homeschool and answer commonly asked questions aroun

Does Jesus care about your child's education? Does the Bible have anything to say about it? Should you put your kids in public school, private school, or homeschool? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he covers the topic of how to educate your children in this par

What does it mean to be a man? Is there a different between how the world defines manhood vs. how the Bible defines manhood?In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he interviews author and leader Jason Wilson on the topic of Biblical masculinity. Podc

When his oldest son was diagnosed with severe autism, pastor Jason Hague found himself trapped, stuck between perpetual sadness and a lower, safer kind of hope. This is the common struggle for those of us walking through the Land of Unanswered Prayer. Lif

When we asked the wives of the Dad Tired community what they thought was one of the best ways a husband can be the spiritual leader of their home, without question, the number one answer was "To pray with us". Wives desperately want their husbands to lead

In this week’s episode, Jerrad sits down with David Robbins, President of Family Life to discuss how to live on mission as a family, the best advice for a young husband, and how to get away with your wife to plan for the future. If you’re in need of both

Feeling stuck on how to lead your family in a family devotional time? You’re definitely not alone. Most Christian dads desire to be the spiritual leader of their home, few know where to begin. The thought of planning out a whole family devotional time can

In this week's episode, we aren't specifically talking about how to be a better husband or father, but rather, how Christian men can step up to protect the vulnerable children caught in the trap of human trafficking. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he interview

Have you ever wanted to be a fly on the wall during someones marriage counseling session? Well, today is your chance. One brave couple sat down with host, Jerrad Lopes, to discuss the struggles of their marriage. Listen in to what Jerrad had to say.

Being away from your family can be hard and no one knows that better than this week’s guest, Rhett Walker. As frontman of the Rhett Walker Band (https://www.rhettwalkerband.com/), a lot of his time is spent on the road. His advice to any man who has to be

As Christian husbands, dads, and men, what kinds of things should we be praying for? If you're feeling stagnant in your relationship with Jesus, this podcast is for you. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about the two things every Christian man should be

Should Christians celebrate Halloween? Regardless of where you stand on the issue, you should know why. Join host Jerrad Lopes and his wife Leila as they talk about what their family does on Halloween and what you should consider.

NFL star running back, Alfred Morris joins Jerrad on today's Dad Tired episode to talk about balancing work and family life, dealing with temptation, being used by God at your place of work, and the importance of praying with your family.

Author and Pastor Adam Mabry joins Jerrad on this episode of the Dad Tired podcast to discuss what healthy rest looks like for the tired and busy dad. ​If you're feeling weary… wishing life were more sustainable… searching for a way to rest without feelin

Dad Tired: Helping Men Lead Their Family Well Season 3 | Episode 1 How come sometimes as dads we can have the most patience in the world with our kids, and yet the next day the most simple things set us off? Do you sometimes feel like you’re turning into

Each decision we make affects not only our lives but also the lives of our family. As we encounter circumstances that require us to make a decision, we want to hear God’s voice guiding us, but how do we know if it’s God’s voice we hear or our own inner vo

As Christian men, we are constantly being told to love our wives and family the way that Christ has loved the church. But, what does that actually look like? How do you love your wife and kids practically when you are talking about jobs, laundry, sharing

It is impossible to completely protect your kids from the wickedness of the world. So what do you do when your kids become exposed to things they should never be exposed to? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about his own family and how they deal with th

During a recent conversation with his wife about cancer, Jerrad had a strong realization. Listen to him process in this episode of the Dad Tired podcast. Also- if you haven't checked out the Marriage After God Podcast (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/

In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares an unexpected event he had with his dad. If you've ever dealt with any kind of family issues, this episode will be helpful for you.

In this episode of the Dad Tired Podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about what it looks like to lead your family well, and the surprising reasons you probably aren't doing it.

BONUS EPISODE: In this summer bonus episode, Jerrad gives an update on the Dad Tired ministry and shares how God responds to our shame.

On this episode, host Jerrad Lopes gives an update on the Dad Tired ministry for this summer. Mentioned in this episode: 15% off all orders from Razor.com. Use PROMO code DADTIRED

Growing up, many of us had a vision for where we would be in life once we reached our 20s, 30s or even our 40s. But when we reach those milestones in our lives it’s rare that we feel reality has lived up to our vision. Somehow, we thought we would feel mo

In this Mother's Day episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Jerrad is joined by Hunter Beless, host of the Journey Women Podcast. Join in as the two share about what it looks like for a husband to lead his family well, how to become the spiritual leader of the

“You can’t pass on what you don’t possess,” the number one thing any father wanting to raise passionate Jesus followers must remember according to this week’s guest, Phil Comer. In his book, Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (co-written with his wife Dia

We all look to the future. For some, we do it with arrogance (as mentioned in James 4). And for others, we approach the future with anxiety (Matthew 6). In this episode, join Jerrad as he shares why looking to the future with both anxiety and arrogance le

"Making conscientious choices about technology in our families is more than just using internet filters and determining screen time limits for our children. It's about developing wisdom, character, and courage in the way we use digital media rather than a

There are many men struggling. It can be anything from disobedient children, broken marriages, lost jobs, or terminal sickness. The list is unending. As Christian fathers and husbands, we often find ourselves praying to God to relieve us from our burdens;

On this week’s episode, host Jerrad Lopes talks with Bob Goff, motivational speaker, and New York Times bestselling author of Love Does. Bob’s mission to inspire people to dream big and make their life more awesome, will become immediately appar...

Video games, a controversial topic both in and outside of the church world. Some men are hardcore lovers of gaming, some view it as a waste of time and millions of others fall somewhere in the middle. This week join host Jerrad Lopes and guest, Gabe Patil

Scripture tells us religion that is pure is caring for the orphans (James 1:27). In the United States alone there are more than 400,000 children in the foster care system.* Each child is an opportunity to show God's love, to reach out to the most vulnerab

This week, host Jerrad Lopes introduces listeners to Aaron Smith, a husband, father and founder of Husband Revolution, an online marriage ministry. Aaron's goal in ministry is to revive the hearts of husbands and fathers around the world. Listen as Aaron

So often we as Christians want to focus on only one attribute of God, the attribute of love. But we tend to forget that scripture also tells us that God is a man of war. It's important to understand that both of these attributes are important and help to

Join host Jerrad Lopes as he discusses the topic of sabbath, with A.J. Swoboda. In this episode, the two discuss questions like: * Are we still required to observe the sabbath? * What does a typical sabbath day look like? * Is sabbath different than leis

Join host Jerrad Lopes and fellow podcaster Jon Fuller as they talk through finding your purpose even when li...

Valentine's Day is one of the least favorite holiday's of every man. But how do we, as followers of Jesus, and the spiritual leader of our homes, approach Valentine's Day through the lens of the Gospel? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he tackles the issues of b

Comparing our lives to others, it's something we all find ourselves doing from time-to-time. But we must realize that since the beginning...

Throughout the scriptures, God reminds his people to create some type of reminder of his faithfulness. He then goes on to say, "when your children see this..." or "When your children ask" remind them of how good God has been to you. In this episode, join

Join host Jerrad Lopes has he interviews Tim Mackie and Jon Collins of The Bible Project, a non-profit animation studio that produces short-form, fully ani...

The Bible is filled with stories of great feats of faith, courage, and strength. But have you ever wondered about the rest of the story? Each of the great Bible characters lived ordinary live...

This week listeners will have the pleasure of being introduced to NFL free agent Cedric Thompson. Drafted by the Miami Dolphins in the fifth round of the 2015 NFL Draft, Thompson went on to play for the New England Pat...

When something is unsettled in our heart, we do whatever we can to mask it. Work harder, drink more, yell louder, buy something new. Anything to cover up the noise of our soul. We are convinced that if we can make enough noise, the tugging of the Holy Spi

As men, we subconsciously rely on our good behavior and moral deeds to find righteousness with God. But, the truth is, despite what we look like on the outside, we are all filthy on the inside, and in desperate need of a savior. Mentioned during the episo

You don't need more popular parenting tips, you need Jesus. You need to be reminded of the Gospel. Understanding what God has done in the world and in your life will deeply change the way you act as a parent and husband.

Jesus is offering you a steak dinner, but too often we settle for mac n' cheese.

Jesus isn't like anyone else in your life. He isn't like your friends. Or your boss. Or you dad. He is different. He is gracious and compassionate. He is slow to anger and abounding in love and faithfulness. In this episode, Jerrad gives us a glimpse into

As 2017 comes to an end and we approach the new year, it's helpful to to pause and remember what God has done over the last year and what he wants to do in your life over the next year.

Pairadocs is a unique marriage, parenting and family podcast. If you've struggled in relationship; with kids, parents, spouse, or friends. No matter what life stage you find yourself in, you will...

With Halloween around the corner, many Christian families are asking themselves, "How do we engage our culture during this holiday season?" Join host Jerrad Lopes as he gives a Biblical overview of how Jesus would respond to Halloween in 2017. ​Host: Je

One word or phrase, that's all it takes to change the course of someone's life. Scripture tells us that the tongue holds the power of life and death, how are you using that power? Your words of encouragement or discour...

Work, finances, family dynamics, and life circumstances — our actions and choices contribute to the success and failures of these areas and others of life but often things happen out...

As men, we are called to be the spiritual leaders of our homes but most of us don't feel confident in that role. At times this lack of confidence creates a paradox in our lives as we de...

Most people don't have a problem starting — they start dozens of things. It's finishing that's the problem. While a desire to have ambitious goals is honorable, a goal that is too aggressive is a recipe for failure. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he interviews

This week join host Jerrad Lopes in a conversation with New York Times bestselling author Jefferson Bethke as they discuss topics ranging from this generations distorted view of love, the destruc...

Since the day that Adam and Eve walked out of the garden of Eden man has been searching for joy, satisfaction, identity, and hope in something other than God. While as Christians we may not be filling the pain of our lives wi...

Have you ever questioned your purpose as a parent? Do you ever feel unable to be the parent God wants you to be? Join host Jerrad Lopes and Pastor Paul David Tripp, as they discuss topics ranging from parenting the heart instead of...

Scripture tells us that we are heirs with Christ if we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him. But few of us can say we have truly suffered persecution for Christ the way believers in scripture did. Pastor Saeed Abedini is one of those

Life have you distracted? Finding it hard to give your family the attention they deserve? This week's episodes will lay out practical, easy to incorporate, methods to help you fight distraction and be fully engaged in every aspect of your life. Join host

Join host Jerrad Lopes for a lively conversation with Pastor John Mark Comer as they discuss who God truly is, how our perception can affect how we relate to Him, prayer, and the purpose of marriage. This week's episode covers several topics but is packed

In this weeks episode, host Jerrad Lopes takes questions from husbands and dads about how to follow Jesus in the everyday stuff of life. Listeners questions range from disciplining children and how to keep intimacy alive with a busy schedule to combating

Life can be hard, trials come more often than we wish they did and often we feel like giving up. Whether it’s difficulties in marriage, sickness or addiction the enemy is always trying to find ways to destroy. As Christian men, we are called to persevere,

After marriage as you grow in your relationship with your spouse, friendships will change but they still play an important part in strengthening your marriage. Finding guy friends that will support you but still call you out on your "stuff" when needed wi

Tired, a word that at one time or another describes every dad. But what happens when you are seriously exhausted? When you feel far from God, far from your family, and stretched to the breaking point? We have all been there. We have all at one time or ano

Join host Jerrad Lopes for an inspirational conversation with activist and best-selling author, Shane Claiborne as they discuss building community and living radically by turning faith and love into action. After listening to the extraordinary life of Sha

Giving of ourselves as fathers and husbands can leave us susceptible to emotional pain. But we are called to love our family 100 percent, even knowing that those we love may at times disappoint or hurt us. Christ is our example and He gave His all, asking

Join host Jerrad Lopes for an intercontinental conversation with Pastor Tim Chester from North Yorkshire, England, as they discuss several topics from being a sacrificial dad and how our decisions affect our families to learning that it is never too late,

Each decision we make affects not only our lives but also the lives of our family. As we encounter circumstances that require us to make a decision, we want to hear God’s voice guiding us, but how do we know if it’s God’s voice we hear or our own inner vo

As men, we can be known for trying to complete a project without reading the instructions. Sometimes we succeed and sometimes we are left with extra parts that we have no idea what they are for. Unfortunately, this is often our approach to the gospel as w

We often judge our relationship with God based on how close or how far we feel from Him. But what about those times when you don’t feel either either? If we don’t feel that same wide-eyed and enthusiastic passion for God, does it mean something is wrong?

Chuck Swindoll once wrote, “I know of no other single practice in the Christian life more rewarding, practically speaking, than memorizing Scripture…No other single exercise pays greater spiritual dividends!” In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes walks us th

As men, we tend to compartmentalize everything, including our spiritual lives. But when it comes to pointing our children to Christ and His gospel, compartmentalization will never be enough. Scheduling times for reading the Bible, prayer before bed and ch

The concept of “dying out to self” can be found throughout scripture and it expresses the true essence of the Christian life. God often will bring us into situations that provide us a deeper understanding of truly giving up on our own wants and needs and

As a husband, have you ever wished you could get a peek behind the veil of your wife’s heart and learn how to love her better? In this episode, Laura Wifler and Emily Jensen, hosts of the Risen Motherhood Podcast, stop by to talk about how husbands can en

The scriptures tell us to go and teach all nations and make them disciples. Many Christians sit back and let others shoulder this commitment, viewing outreach as the responsibility of those in the church who are paid to be ministers. But there is no such

Husbands are called to be the spiritual leaders for their family’s but when you don’t feel close to God it can be hard to be the spiritual leader that your wife and kids want you to be. Many Christian men find their relationship with Christ to be a roller

As Christian dads, we aren't trying to raise "moral" kids, we are trying to raise disciples who love Jesus. We are God’s conduit for teaching our children how to live a life pleasing to him but remember actions speak louder than words. Kids are always wat

Whatever you're doing today. Don't forget these two truths. First, whatever you find your identity in, it will fail you. As men, it’s easy for us to find our identity in our work instead of in God where it should be. No matter how good or bad you are at s

Your family are the most important people in your life. Your love for them knows no limits. But time and time again you find yourself getting angry with them and don’t know why. The first thing to understand is anger is never the first emotion. There is a

The biggest question that Christian parent’s ask themselves is, how do we protect our kids from the junk of this world? It’s not easy and nearly impossible to protect our children from all the junk of the world. We can set boundaries to help limit their e

You can try and convince anyone that you are passionate about Jesus, but your checkbook and calendar always prove what you're most passionate about. What you make the center of your life, will become your treasure; what you value most. We can’t always see

A marriage just starting out often seem close to perfection. But as the trials of life happen and two imperfect people try and build a life together, we as husbands can lose sight of the fact that God has given us a gift in our wives. She was created to b

No matter where your dad falls on the spectrum of being an engaged dad to not being present, a majority of men want to be a better dad than their fathers were. But no matter how hard we try we will never be the perfect dad. There is only one perfect dad a

Can't beat an old habit? Are you finding yourself doing the same negative things over and over? Then it’s time to get hungry, literally. When Jesus went to the desert to be tempted He fasted to gain control of his flesh. We too are tempted every day. We g

The subtle ways that churches cause us to put our walls up, and why God uses broken people.

Jerrad explains why he is convinced that Christian men shouldn't be in accountability groups.

The majority of Christians are still deeply unfulfilled and unsatisfied with their work, home life, marriage and church. In this episode, Jerrad starts to unpack why you likely feel that way, and how you can start to discover God's will and purpose for yo

Most of us already know that we suck as Christian husbands and dads. Here's what we really need.

Jerrad gives his response to the President Trump's executive order; why it hits so close to home. And shares where many of us feel we are as Christians.

Jerrad explains three reasons why most guys aren't being the spiritual leader of their home. His answers may surprise you.

Bryan Moffitt from Anguished Hearts (anguishedhearts.com) joins Jerrad on the podcast and shares how everyone is either running toward something or away from something. This is an interview you won't want to miss.

What if the point of Christianity isn't just to die and go to heaven?

There are many of you who are burned out from church activities, and I get it. Here's my thoughts as to why you feel that way and how you can fix it.

Jerrad Lopes gives three practical and gospel-centered ways to immediately improve your marriage and parenting.

What does it look like when a pastor who has struggled with OCD and depression starts to bring his dark secrets to the light? Listen as Joey Svendsen, co-host of the Bad Christian podcast, shares with us his journey.

Shad Berry from Downline ministies (downlineministries.com) joins Jerrad on the Dad Tired podcast to talk about discipleship, work, and allowing the gospel to shape everything we do.

It's easy to find guys who will watch a game with you. It's a lot harder to find guys who will constantly point you toward Jesus.

Is there more to Christianity than church services and Bible studies? Do you feel like God is stirring something in your heart, but you can't quite figure out what to do?

What would it look like for you to actually rest in the grace of Jesus? To be free from shame? Maybe you need to jump out of the boat.

What does your work have to with you being a better christian, father, husband and disciple of Jesus?

Join Jerrad on his commute to work as continues he thoughts on minimalism, shame, and the gods we make up in our head.

God doesn't make converts &amp; why I'm becoming a minimalist.

In this episode, Jerrad talks about Christian community and shares an invite to an exciting opportunity.

Author Seth Taylor (Feels Like Redemption) and creator of the My Pilgrimage Experience (XXXChurch.com) joins Jerrad Lopes to share his journey with porn addition and how he helps others find freedom.

If you are dealing with stress, anxiety, fear, or discouragement, this could be the underlying reason as to why.

Don't tell this lie about God.

Executive coach Dan Foster shares his biggest mistake as a Christian husband and dad and how you can be more intentional in your life.

What if all your titles were stripped away- who would you be? In other words, who are you?    

Whatever season of life you're in right now, it won't last forever. Prepare accordingly.

Based on our current standards of success in ministry, Jesus may have had one of the most unsuccessful ministries ever. Learn how this impacts your life, marriage and parenting.

If you had an absent father growing up, this is for you.

Did Jesus really mean that you can't worship both God and money? Isn't there balance?

Leila Lopes from Mom Tired joins Jerrad in discussing what it looks like to structure your life around relationships and The Gospel.

If we can memorize these three words, everything will start to change.

Porn &amp; Sexual Integrity. Frank Honess from Purity for Life Podcast (purityforlife.me) joins Jerrad Lopes in helping Christian husbands and dads break free from their pornography addiction.

If you want to have a marriage that last, you must be intentional about doing this everyday.

Aaron Smith from Husband Revolution (HusbandRevolution.com) joins Jerrad Lopes on the Dad Tired podcast.

If you currently struggling in your marriage, today's episode is for you.

In this episode Jerrad helps you identify where you are on your spiritual journey and how you can help others grow in theirs.

In this episode Jerrad discusses where he goes to church, being a lukewarm Christian and what that means for our kids.

In this episode, Jerrad discusses the importance of seeing God work in every day life. If you are a Christian parent, you probably get so caught up in every day life that you forget to look for God's glory.

Why God feels far away and what we can do about it. Featuring author Chris Nye.

In this episode Jerrad gives three practical tips for Christian dad's and husbands to better lead their family.

Music, The Gospel, And Raising Kids

Leila Lopes joins Jerrad in taking marriage, fights, and attachment.

I took my son on a daddy/son date and then he punched me in the gut. He might do it to you as well.

If you want to follow Jesus but are bored with traditional church, we should talk.

If you struggle with shame, this episode is for you.