In today's episode, John and Lisa discuss the false belief that single people cannot control their desire for sex. They discuss how all people are made for intimacy and physical contact, but share that those needs can be fulfilled in healthy ways. Tune into this conversation to learn how delayed gratification produces loving (rather than lustful) relationships.  To go deeper on this topic, check out Messenger International's course Flying Solo. Sign up for All-Access and get a free trial by visiting:  http://messengerpodcasts.com/allaccess